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Recap
Week 1: Create Femininity Goals. Find an accountability partner
Week 2: Print or Buy a planner. Make sure you write down and plan to do things that encompass your femininity. How many times will you cook for your family so they can practice dinner etiquette? How many minutes will you hold each child a day (10-15 minutes?) How will you polish your femininity EACH day, how will you spend one on one time with your spouse each day? Have you made time to go out with a female this week to talk girl talk? Make a plan, be intentional, and write it down.
Week 3: Be more present- Be aware of your surroundings. Don't be a phone zombie. Practice makes permanent. Constantly work on cultivating your femininity by being very present with DH, SO, your children, and friends. Choose human interactions vs social media interactions this week.
Week 4: Accept him- Accept him for who he is. This includes his strengths, his weaknesses, his goals, or lack of him. He is a person full of triumphs as well as flaws just like you. (This goal is continuous).
February- Inner Self Work
Week 5: Polish Your Poise- No one can take you out of your feminine grace except you. Work on not being reactive to problems and asserting your needs but in a gentle way. Work on your look, attitude, gratitude, gaze, and overall spirit.
Week 6: Self Preservation is Key- Learn to protect your peace. Put YOU first. Have a drama blocking plan to protect yourself.
Week 7: What's in a Voice- Work on your feminine voice. Smile. Have a sing-song sweet voice at all times...especially times of struggle.
Week 8: Rock Your Wardrobe- Aim to look feminine, put together, and GOOD every day.
Week 9: Turn Rituals Into Routine
March- Home Living
Week 10: Beautify Your Environment: Buy Fresh Flowers
Week 11: Focus on Your Home Aromas
Week 12: How Clean Is Your Home
Week 13: Set the Tone in Your Home: Make Your House a Haven
April- Refinement
Week 14: Clean Up Your Social Media Accounts
Week 15: Be more mysterious: Work on your Feminine Mystique
Week 16: Take the Help/Compliments
Week 17: Got Milk? Milk Baths
May- Strategically Selfish
Week 18: You Are the Prize
Week 19: Don’t Let them Move Your Goal Post
Week 20: Put On Your Oxygen Mask First
Week 21: Drop the need to be Right: Focus Instead
Week 22: Who are Your Male Vouchers?!
June- Feminine Refinement
Week 23- Leisure Time/ Become Well Read
Week 24- Be like Children; Not Childish but Childlike
Week 25- Let's Get Some Sunshine
Week 26- Communication 101: Stay in Control
July-
Week 27- Everything can be used against you.
Week 28- Compassionate
Week 29- Know Yourself What's your Feminine Archetype?'
Week 30- Use your Feminine Archetype to become a Force - Hone In On It
Week 31- Wine A Bit; You'll Feel a Little Bit Better
There will be many instances that you will be asked to go out for drinks with your friends or if dating you will frequent professional gatherings to find high-quality men. Remember you should be an enchanting feminine lady at ALL times. Someone is watching at every minute from the time you walk in until the time you leave.
Strive to always practice increasing your etiquette. This week we will focus on how to drink and order wine and drink it well.
Drinking wine is like listening to music—there are loud and soft notes, lots of information to absorb, and everyone has unique tastes, so "good" and "bad" is totally subjective. Once you decipher your tastes and preferences, you can use that knowledge to find other wines that you will enjoy. And like most things, the only way to get better at describing a wine is to practice. The goal is to develop a "wine vocabulary" of your own, and a history for your palette to build on so you can compare other wines down the line. Be prepared to use all almost all of your senses. Practice makes permanent so try to incorporate a nice wine in your meals often.
There are general thumb rules for pairing food and wine: ‘White wines go with white meat’ meaning that one has champagne with fish and chicken dishes.
- Main course – Sparkling wine, Rose,
- Cheese dishes – Dry Rose, Chardonnay
- Sauces and dressings—Sauvignon Blanc
- Salty food – Champagne, slightly acidic wines
- Fish, saucy dishes – Chardonnay, Brut Champagne
- Herbs, herby dishes – Vermentino
- Fruits and desserts—Moscato d’Asti
- Sweet and spicy dishes –Dry Riesling, slightly sweet wine
- Light dishes of fish – Pinot Grigio, Vinho Verde
- Heavy spicy food – Malbec, sweet wines
- Succulent meat dishes – Cabernet Sauvignon, Sauvignon Blanc
- Mousses – Zinfandel
- Mushrooms—Pinot Noir
Week 31 Challenge
1. Buy a bottle of wine and invest in a wine glass. (Dollar Tree or Family Dollar is just fine).
2. Practice pouring wine. (Make sure you only fill half of the cup. You can always pour more later.)
3. Practice drinking wine correctly by holding it between your thumb and index finger.
4. What is your go-to wine to order when out. Can you say the name correctly?
5. There is a picture listed below from Scandal. Which person is holding the wine glass correctly? Please explain why they are holding it correctly.