Yep!
I’m extra busy with multiple side hustles. I realize that I can’t really feel feminine with a lot of debts hanging over my head. So I took action and will knock out those debts in the next 18-24 months. Goodbye Sallie Mae!
LOL!
I feel you!!
Good for you on your side hustles!
What have you been doing as your side hustle in order to get rid of debts? I've been looking into getting a side hustle myself in order to pay off some loans. My student loans are all paid off now (HALLELUJAH!) ...just paid the last payment earlier this year! But I still have some credit card debt I want to lower (nothing major), but I want to pay off ALL of my credit cards and be able to put more money into savings every month, and save money for traveling.
I JUST got into blogging and creating my own website whereby I would love to eventually be able to make a little extra money one day (even just $500/month extra would be nice!
), but I feel like I have no idea what I'm doing lol...
So any side-hustle ideas would be GREAT!
You can post your side gigs here, or you can PM me privately...it's up to you!
@Crystalicequeen123 Hey guurrrl! I've been working on my femininity daily! I've been wearing dresses and heels almost daily. Making sure makeup and hair are done well. Looking and smelling good. Keeping my skin looking and feeling super soft. In my dating, I've been particularly conscious of exuding a feminine aura. The way I speak, as well as the things I say - the way I express myself to men. And they are super responsive! I write affirmations every day, and I'm sure to include some about femininity.
Ohhhh snap! Watch out now!
Way to go girl!
That's awesome! I can't say I've been as on point as you have been w/the wearing heels every single day, but I
have been trying to dress more feminine (feminine tops/blouses, makeup every day---not a lot, but just enough to make me look "polished") and I've also been focusing more on really trying to take care of my natural hair (wearing it out and free more often), and wearing little dainty jewelry.
I haven't been focusing much on how I come across to ppl/men much, but I don't think I'm doing awful in that area. I don't castrate men with the "sword" anymore lol, and I'm more conscientious of how certain statements might come off as being "disrespectful" in a man's eyes, but I guess I could work on trying to purposely come off as a little more "feminine" by my voice tone and how I say certain things. I don't sound masculine or anything lol, but I think I can come off as sounding very direct and matter-of-fact, and I think it would behoove me to tone that down some...at least, when dealing with men. I think men appreciate it more.