belleama
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Mine too.
Since when is barbie caramel?
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Black and white is quite boring.
Besides, my favourite colour is blue.
What about blue men?
I like them white brown yellow puerto rican or haitian lol...however the lyrics go. I do not discriminate. If ur fine, ur fine.
Why are people attracted to each other? I still don't know the answer.
When I was growing up, I never dated any of the black men that I knew because they only wanted to date the white women in my town. The few times that I had dates with black men was only because my mom felt bad for my 'date-free' situation and would set me up with black guys who were the sons of women she went to church with. They wanted nothing to do with me once they found out that I was going into a creative field and had no intention of being a lawyer or doctor! Believe it or not.
The whole time this was going on, I was constantly and consistently being asked out by white men. I never went out with them when they asked. I was attracted to them but my father told me that if I ever dated a white man; he would disown me and never speak to me again. (This from a man who is 1/4 white and divorced my mom when I was three months old, abandoned her and never gave her a penny to raise me)
I eventually ended up dating lots of white men once I moved to NY but never told anyone in my family so that this info wouldn't get back to my dad. I ended up falling in love with a great guy. He was a film student and I was a waitress. We were absolutely and totally made for each other and I knew that he was the one. Well I made the mistake of telling my mom and guess what? My dad didn't speak to me for eighteen years. I really took it hard because I wanted to marry this guy but emotionally I just broke down. I left town for a year and when I came back he had gotten engaged to someone. I had broken his heart and he never understood why I had stopped seeing him. Even though I had stopped seeing him my father refused to have anything to do with me. Looking back on it now, I wish that I had stayed with him. His parents were wonderful to me.
I've since married someone else and just celebrated my 11th wedding annniversary. But it turns out that my long ago ex and I ended up in the same business and ran into each other on a set. It's been twenty-five years and he told me that he thinks of me every day because he never, ever stopped loving me and married someone else to get on with his life and try to stop the pain. I couldn't believe it.
So all of this is just to say - don't waste your life like I did. If you fall in love with someone that others don't approve of; it doesn't matter. Marry them, have their kids and get on with it! I missed out on decades of a great life with a great guy because I thought that what someone else thought was more important!
Sometimes I feel like this forum has a weird fixation on bagging a white man. I'm still relatively new here though so whatever.
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I actually felt similar when i first joined. I noticed quite a few race threads.
To each his own. I date all over the rainbow.
They're freaks in bed, so yea gotta love em
I think I like them becuase they're usually the ones who like me (every black man I have been interested in has given me that tired "You act white, you don't have a bootie" excuse... as if me working out and speaking correctly took away my cool points ). It's hard though, because the college I'm at now has a LOT of white boys, but they typically don't want to admit to being attracted to you. I'm going to pick out a grad school where I can get me one though, if that doesn't work out I guess I'll find me a latino or something. I'm done chasing black men because they've been done chasing me.
I wouldn't say in generic terms that I love them but I am a very open minded person. I have dated numerous men from all different cultures. I am currently dating a white man and he is a great person because we have sooo much in common and he treats me with great respect... not because is white.
I love their family values too. I love how when the wife starts to get on their nerves, and they want a new one that they don't divorce the wife. They just cut her breakline. I also like how they don't leave their women pregnant and stranded, They will just make her body disappear.
I love their family values too. I love how when the wife starts to get on their nerves, and they want a new one that they don't divorce the wife. They just cut her breakline. I also like how they don't leave their women pregnant and stranded, They will just make her body disappear.
I had one black boyfriend but I've never been attracted to another.
Sometimes I feel like this forum has a weird fixation on bagging a white man. I'm still relatively new here though so whatever.
i feel like theres a weird fixation with bagging a black man.
i feel like theres a weird fixation with bagging a black man.
Fo real.
I must admit that I was quite taken-back that some women were even willing to give up everything and travel (by plane) Solely to find one. Some were even discussing cheapest airline tickets to these “hot spots” in another forum. My goodness I truly believe some women put their lives on a halt in hopes of in finding their ideal black man- and for some it’s an obsession