Oh cute!!! I like!
Let's just say....I'm in an area w/not a lot of black people lol, and everyone knows I wear my hair natural. I'm just wondering how I would pull this off lol! 
I could totally do it if I were in an area where people see bw allllll the time, but I'm not..... Lol..... I'm just curious what you tell people if/when they have questions lol 
Awesome!!!
LOL! She was great in it. There's also a 90's version with Harrison Ford in it as well. Both good films about "transformation". 
Breakfast at Tiffany's annoyed me like you wouldn't believe! I watched it for the first time a few months ago with my sister. We both agree that Holly Golighty is batsh*t crazy and annoying as hell! I think the movie's a classic cuz of Audrey Hepburn. I do plan on watching My fair lady though.
As soon as I tell them it's to give my very frizz prone, tightly curly hair a break they understand. They've seen my real so they know I'm not bald.Oh cute!!! I like!
How do you answer questions about our changing hair lengths though??
I saw sabrina on the list. I'll watch it tonightAwesome!!!
I've always heard "Breakfast at Tiffany's" was good, but I've never actually seen it! Anything with Audrey in it is a good movie. She always exuded class and elegance, femininity, all of it.
Have you seen "Sabrina"? Another GREAT "transformation movie" starring (yet again) Audrey Hepburn!
As soon as I tell them it's to give my very frizz prone, tightly curly hair a break they understand. They've seen my real so they know I'm not bald.
Good answer!!!!! I love it! #dontjudgeme 
Oh yes, I LOVE Sabrina! Very nice movie! I like both versions too, the old one and the new one!
I'm praying the quality is good
. American wigs are superior to the ones sold in UK. Have you belles come across feminine looking women with bald or low cut hair styles? Lupita is one. Also plus size feminine fashion bloggers TIA!
It's much funnier than the remake. The makeover was so dramatic. 
The style was to die for. This movie finally made me realize what a classic beauty Audrey Hepburn was. 
Off to watch My fair lady next but it's not on Netflix. 
Here's a brighter color. So cute!I looove this look! I'd rock this with some colorful accessories. I'd love to have this item in a bright color too!
Gorgeous!!Here's a brighter color. So cute!
I like the curly look! My first and ONLY time wearing a weave was back in 2007.... The girl that took my weave out at the salon took a rat tail comb and combed out my cornrows!! I was TOO livid!!! 
I lost SO much hair. She called herself getting out the "dead hair". 
Here's a brighter color. So cute!
One woman came up to me and said that my dress looked so "feminine" and that she "loved it"! Some people I didn't even KNOW came up to me and complimented me on my dress, my hair (I used curlformers to give my hair a nice soft curly look and put a flower in it), and my entire look in general. ) doing up this feminine look definitely pays OFF! It's like...people get mesmerized or something hahaha!!! Have women come so far away from looking feminine in society that people nearly trip over themselves in awe when a woman "Fems it up" on occasion?? 
I'm not going to throw out my old wardrobe, but I will just add to my wardrobe some more feminine styles for the future! Oh, and by way of an update....
I went to a special religious event this past weekend, and I wore this really cute fit and flare dress that I got from Nordstrom Rack clearance. I'm telling you, I got SOOOOOO many compliments on my dress (from women...AND men!) this weekend! It really is a classy dress. I wish I could find a picture of it, but it pretty much looked like this...somewhat fancy...yet not too over the top.
I'm telling you, almost everyone I came in contact with mentioned how they just LOVED my dress!
I'm telling you ladies (or Belles
I'm even MORE determined now to make sure I buy more feminine prints and styles now.
Oh, and by way of an update....
I went to a special religious event this past weekend, and I wore this really cute fit and flare dress that I got from Nordstrom Rack clearance. I'm telling you, I got SOOOOOO many compliments on my dress (from women...AND men!) this weekend! It really is a classy dress. I wish I could find a picture of it, but it pretty much looked like this...somewhat fancy...yet not too over the top.
I'm telling you, almost everyone I came in contact with mentioned how they just LOVED my dress!
I'm telling you ladies (or Belles
I'm even MORE determined now to make sure I buy more feminine prints and styles now.
Wow that's awesome girl!
I'm telling you, the response from men is almost like night and day! If you want to kick it upa notch, just add a warm slight smile to your face as you walk around through the day. You will be beating men off with a stick after a while lol! That is the man's job. It sounds like "The Rules"... which I do a modified version of most of the time. I find that I feel much more feminine when I allow the man to make the moves at the outset. Plus, it keeps me mysterious and lessens the risk for heartache.
Wow that's awesome girl!
Oh and I'm glad you kept reserved and didn't resort to flirting or asking that guy for his number.
, to "wow you look pretty", "oooh you must have a date after work" and male coworkers being extra smiley. It's funny.
Oh wow......
, love then leave, "I like you" then..."I don't like you"..., couldn't quite read/figure him out, sometimes he would seem really interested, other times like he could not care LESS about me....). I vowed from that day forward NEVER again! 
I will NEVER pursue a guy ever again.... I won't even INITIATE things anymore. I honestly don't think women have to DO too much to attract the attention of men. Awww thanks!
It wasn't the EXACT dress I wore, but it was somewhat similar in cut and style. It even had a see-through black sheer portion at the top! It really was feminine. Even though it was dark in color, the cut and fabric (silky almost) was definitely VERY feminine. I even wore light sheer off black pantyhose instead of bare legs, and that seemed to make my look even MORE polished! I just felt so vibrant and girly. The reactions were AMAZING!
Good point. Sometimes it's the CUT of a dress (more than the color) that makes the most difference. 
, but I think I know what you mean! I haven't watched her reality show much, but I have watched her when she and Tia had their reality show, and I noticed (no offense ) that Tamera seemed to have a more lighter, feminine, and girly energy about her that Tia just didn't really possess. I can't quite put my finger on it. It's interesting that they are twins but yet they have totally different personalities to me! There's a "softness" to Tamera that I don't see with Tia. Not that Tia is "hard" or rough or anything like that, but it's just that her personality is just a tad slightly different than Tamera's. I actually prefer Tamera's personality to Tia's. ^^THIS (imo) is the BIGGEST most important step of all, and SUCH a GREAT point! Thanks for bringing that out!
I think I still have a little more work to do in this area (really BELIEVING deep down in my feminine energy, being confident in it and letting it SHINE), because as I mentioned at the beginning of this thread, I'm the oldest sibling, so I'm used to being "in charge", used to being called "the smart one" , being the one people turn to (friends, family members, siblings, etc) for advice, the one people look for advice on making "rational" decisions, etc. So my energy can have a more masculine vibe to it if I'm not careful because I can be VERY analytic.... ). So, I'm working on this. I want to be taken care of, to feel LIGHT in energy AND personality.
) man wear pearls lol. Idk...I just feel like my "look" is taken up a notch when I wear pearls. At my religious event this weekend, this woman even remarked that I reminded her of a "beautiful Barbie doll, especially with those pearl earrings and necklace" lol I swear, this dressing more feminine thing has people acting out of their mind and saying the craziest complimentary things!! I've been meaning to add to this thread for a minute! I'm still reading her blogs and have been focused on my fashion as of late like some of you. I'm pretty feminine as it is but have been wearing lighter colors and more lacy fabrics. I'm from New York and most of my wardrobe is black/gray..,.plus I teach High School (80% boys) so I try to be mindful of my clothing while at work.
The reactions I've gotten since embracing a lighter more girly fashion are actually hilarious. One of my rude arse boys said the other day "I never thought I'd see the day that Ms.D would get a man"
Omg, your students should be ashamed of themselves! 
LOL! Isn't that a shame that people think that when women are dressed nicely?? I know what you mean about the NY wardrobe lol.. I used to work in DC for years, and yes...blacks, grays, tan, and crisp white shirts, etc were pretty much staples in my wardrobe lol The Darker hues and power suits were more "in" on the east coast. But now that I live in Southern CA where the sun shines basically 24/7 lol, I'm "lightening" things up a bit. I'm just experimenting with different colors, different types of styles, etc. It really does make a HUGE difference!
