2023 52 Weeks To Being Divinely Feminine

[Plushottie]

This hits a bit with some content I read in another thread not related to this but for me concepts. Self concept is such a driver and it dictates so much of our response to the world. When you deeply believe you are feminine it just unlocks fluidity.

 

[snoop]

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@Plushottie
@Chicoro
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Week 7: Level Up Your Look

Let's take this week to develop our feminine appearance using what you already have. Men are very visual creatures point blank. They love to see someone balance out their masculinity with feminine aspects. To embrace your femininity....embrace what no one can take away...the fact that you are a woman. Take the time to enjoy wearing stereo-typically feminine wardrobe items like form fitting clothing, dresses, pencil skirts, low heels, bows, poofy sleeves, pink, sheer blouses, pearls, lace camisoles, flouncy tea length skirts and the occasional ruffle. Incorporate a good bra such as Wacoal, wear jewelry EACH DAY. Put on at LEAST simple makeup such as natural gold eye shadow, tinted moisturizer, mascara, and lipstick/lipgloss.


This is the Formula Given in most Level Up Groups
(People please chime in on anything I missed)
Teeth- Teeth straightened and whitened twice a year. Wear crest white stripes or Dr. White weekly.
Hair- Sleek and Polished. Invest in a straight long wig, a body wave wig/weave, a fun wig (blond, colored, bob and etc.). Wigs/Sew-Ins allow you to look good every day.
Lips- Bold colors. Invest in a nice red lipstick, a berry color, and a nice nude).
Skin- Needs to be CLEAR and dewy. Go to a dermatologist as needed and drink WATER and apply sunscreen to keep it clear. Invest in a self-tanner bronzer lotion that moisturizes and helps you glow.
Clothes- Wear few jeans. Wear mostly dresses. Dresses are one and done. They help you look flirty and feminine without trying hard. Try dresses with one solid color. Invest in a red dress and a classic black dress. Incorporate some fun dresses such as a leather one for flair. Heels only when on dates...no flats.
Makeup- Full face including lashes. Blend Blend Blend your eyeshadows. Blush, highlighter, eyeshadow, lipSTICK (it's bolder than lipgloss), and nicely waxed eyebrows (bimonthly).
Eyes- Eyelash Extensions to look doe eyed (take them off with oil)
Jewelry- You need a nice plain diamond pendant, tennis bracelet, and stud earrings. If you can't afford the real....get a sterling silver set and rock it until you get the money.



Week 7 Challenge
1. What's your feminine makeup routine?
2. Strive to dress feminine and wear a dress for at least 3 days this week and take in the results of people around your -- men and women.
3. What are some celebrities or pictures of women that you just LOVE their feminine style? Post a pictures!Could you emulate it?

 

[Chicoro]

I refuse to do any of this during the week. It's just not possible. I walk everywhere and it is too cold to wear dresses and too tiring to wear heels. These activities are just no feasible for me and my life.

But, on Saturdays, I take time out in the morning to put on makeup before I go grocery shopping. I wear bright red lipstick at 9:00 am in the morning. No lashes or wigs or jewelry, and no dresses. But, it works for me.

One man did a triple take in my direction Saturday as he pushed his grocery cart while in front of me. He looked back at me 3 times. I liked it. Another man's face just lit up while I was on the bus stop. I wear a hat and shades because I have melasma and can't be in the sunlight uncovered without further damaging my skin. All you could see were my red lips. He said something to me but it was in French. I don't know what he said I just smiled and nodded rather noncommittally. His eyes and face lit up even more.

The week prior to this, I had on my lovely Saturday make-up and I was sitting in a gourmet, pizza restaurant, right under a bright light. A gentleman came in and interacted with the people behind the counter. I was watching him. He peeked around the corner to look at me and when he saw that I was looking right at him, he quickly pulled back.

The results are GREAT when I take the time to put on make-up. I feel so pretty and feel really good. But, I am a Saturday make-up wearer.

I love summer because that's when I can wear cute dresses when I am out and about.

 

[Plushottie]

@Chicoro I feel you take these suggestion and use what’s usable for you. Like for some doing overly feminine dress doesn’t work but I will say your gorgeous face and all so you have that to your advantage, not all are blessed that way.

 

[Plushottie]

Ok so reading the weeks activities I laughed loudly as it’s so dated and generic. Every woman doesn’t look good in dresses some actually look more shapely in tailored pants. The wig/weave thing is why so many look generic. I’m big on image consultations and really dialing into your current state.
When you don’t know what hits for you, your bound to look a mess and disjointed. If you are a lady then invest in your body for you and all things will flow.

 

[Chicoro]

@Chicoro I feel you take these suggestion and use what’s usable for you. Like for some doing overly feminine dress doesn’t work but I will say your gorgeous face and all so you have that to your advantage, not all are blessed that way.

Thank you for the lovely compliment! I appreciate it very much!

 

[snoop]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat

Week 8: Rock Your Wardrobe
Let's take this week to develop our feminine appearance using what you already have. Men are very visual creatures point blank. They love to see someone balance out their masculinity with feminine aspects. To embrace your femininity....embrace what no one can take away...the fact that you are a woman. Take the time to enjoy wearing stereo-typically feminine wardrobe items like form fitting clothing, dresses, pencil skirts, low heels, bows, poofy sleeves, pink, sheer blouses, pearls, lace camisoles, flouncy tea length skirts and the occasional ruffle. Incorporate a good bra such as Wacoal, wear jewelry EACH DAY. Put on a simple makeup such as natural gold eye shadow, tinted moisturizer, mascara, and lip liner.

Week 8 Challenge
1. What's your feminine makeup routine?
2. Strive to dress feminine and wear a dress for at least 3 days this week and take in the results of people around your -- men and women.
3. What are some celebrities or pictures of women that you just LOVE their feminine style? Post a pictures!Could you emulate it?

 

[snoop]

Sorry for the late posting.

I started taking a look at all of the challenges to see how I can reorganize when and what we do. I'm hoping to have something for Sunday.

 

[Chicoro]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat

Week 8: Rock Your Wardrobe
Let's take this week to develop our feminine appearance using what you already have. Men are very visual creatures point blank. They love to see someone balance out their masculinity with feminine aspects. To embrace your femininity....embrace what no one can take away...the fact that you are a woman. Take the time to enjoy wearing stereo-typically feminine wardrobe items like form fitting clothing, dresses, pencil skirts, low heels, bows, poofy sleeves, pink, sheer blouses, pearls, lace camisoles, flouncy tea length skirts and the occasional ruffle. Incorporate a good bra such as Wacoal, wear jewelry EACH DAY. Put on a simple makeup such as natural gold eye shadow, tinted moisturizer, mascara, and lip liner.

Week 8 Challenge
1. What's your feminine makeup routine?
2. Strive to dress feminine and wear a dress for at least 3 days this week and take in the results of people around your -- men and women.
3. What are some celebrities or pictures of women that you just LOVE their feminine style? Post a pictures!Could you emulate it?

Wearing makeup helps! My melasma makes me look like I've been punched in both eyes. It is literally black under my eyes.
Wearing makeup makes me look and feel cute. I have a 'crush', and every time I've seen him, I have looked cute with my lovely makeup. I know nothing about the man except that he is beautiful, to me. I did not have a on dress, but I had on something fitted that showed my little curves.

Also, I was at a professional function where some executives were present. They were former, professional athletes and work in the administrative area for a professional, sports franchise. These men tend to be middle-aged. I had on my regular clothes, which is usually a pair of leggings, pullover turtleneck sweater that hits my waist, a hoodie over that and knee -hi boots with a low heel. Usually, I cover it all over with a frumpy, over-sized zip up sweater that is about two inches above my knees. I removed the frumpy sweater. After I removed my sweater, one man was looking at me as if I were a delicious snack or treat. It was not an inappropriate gaze, but I could tell he found me physically attractive. I had on NO makeup, had on eye glasses and my hair pulled back in my usual bun. He also made efforts to catch my eyes and he made DIRECT eye contact with me several times during the function. I just smiled, looked away and kept it moving. It was an interesting experience.

 

[snoop]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat


Hi ladies,

We're at week 10. I know that this challenge started a bit rough, but I think that we can get through it even if we have to cut a few weeks out this year to make it happen.

I am starting us at week 5 and if all goes well we will finish this challenge in a way that works for us all, even if a few weekly challenges short. Here is my proposed outline for the next few weeks with the original week numbers beside in case you want to take a peek. I'm going to try to "scrub" the challenges as best as I can so that they are less centred on serving our male counterparts, though hosting or making people (men, women, and children) feel comfortable and nurtured, is a big part of femininity.

I took a look at the previous outline and am proposing a new order to the weeks. I would like us to start with inner work (self, identity) and then move outward (clothes, the home, our friends/family/nature/etc.) since I think that understanding what femininity means to us will help us to showcase to others our feminine powers.

Let's Get It Started
Week 1: Create Femininity Goals (Find an accountability partner) (1)
Week 2: Print or buy a planner (2)
Week 3: Be present (3)
Week 4: Self love: Accept you for who you are (4)

Let Me Introduce You to Someone Special…You
Week 5: What is your Feminine Archetype (29)
Week 6: Who Do You Admire (36)
Week 7: Join a Group of Like-Minded (37)
Week 8: How to be a Feminine Networking Star... Wherever You Are (39)

Getting To Know You
Week 9: Shadow Work (52)
Week 10: Affirmations: Affirming our Femininity (40)
Week 11: Meditation (new)
Week 12: Yoni Eggs (41) and Waist Beads (42)



I don't want to re-invent the wheel since I was never really a "leader" of this challenge and very much learning as I go. Please bear with me as I work through the kinks and bumps.

 

[snoop]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat


Week 5: What's Your Feminine Archetype

Every woman has a feminine essence about herself that makes her different from the rest. It's important to KNOW why you are different from the rest and what your gifts are to use them in the most efficient way to interact with men and women and get exactly what you want out of life. Discover your Feminine Mastery Archetype to reveal your natural gifts and the most prosperous way to express your Divine calling.

These archetypes explain how the world sees you. The lover, the mother, queen, maiden, Huntress, wise, and mystic. There are major differences between these women, but they all share one common thing....they are feminine in their own right and have their own feminine superpower. What's your feminine superpower?

Week 29 Challenge
1. What's your Feminine Archetype? Please take the quiz at: http://www.womenlovepower.com/seduction-archetype-quiz/
and report which Feminine Archetype are you. (A previous thread about this quiz can be found here:
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/a-fun-quiz-to-identify-your-feminine-archetype.834309/ )
2. What makes you seductive as a feminine woman and who is your target? This can found with a simple google search or skim through The Art of Seduction
3. How can you use this information to develop your feminine being and use it to get what you want?

 

[Chicoro]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat


Hi ladies,

We're at week 10. I know that this challenge started a bit rough, but I think that we can get through it even if we have to cut a few weeks out this year to make it happen.

I am starting us at week 5 and if all goes well we will finish this challenge in a way that works for us all, even if a few weekly challenges short. Here is my proposed outline for the next few weeks with the original week numbers beside in case you want to take a peek. I'm going to try to "scrub" the challenges as best as I can so that they are less centred on serving our male counterparts, though hosting or making people (men, women, and children) feel comfortable and nurtured, is a big part of femininity.

I took a look at the previous outline and am proposing a new order to the weeks. I would like us to start with inner work (self, identity) and then move outward (clothes, the home, our friends/family/nature/etc.) since I think that understanding what femininity means to us will help us to showcase to others our feminine powers.

Let's Get It Started
Week 1: Create Femininity Goals (Find an accountability partner) (1)
Week 2: Print or buy a planner (2)
Week 3: Be present (3)
Week 4: Self love: Accept you for who you are (4)

Let Me Introduce You to Someone Special…You
Week 5: What is your Feminine Archetype (29)
Week 6: Who Do You Admire (36)
Week 7: Join a Group of Like-Minded (37)
Week 8: How to be a Feminine Networking Star... Wherever You Are (39)

Getting To Know You
Week 9: Shadow Work (52)
Week 10: Affirmations: Affirming our Femininity (40)
Week 11: Meditation (new)
Week 12: Yoni Eggs (41) and Waist Beads (42)



I don't want to re-invent the wheel since I was never really a "leader" of this challenge and very much learning as I go. Please bear with me as I work through the kinks and bumps.

I think this fabulous! I appreciate the thought, effort and time you are putting into this for us. Correction, you absolutely Are a leader and leading us. I struggle with this challenge because personally speaking, I need it. You are doing great! And I appreciate all this work you have done. I’m here for the ride even if I’m the ‘ghetto passenger’ in the backseat getting on folks’ nerves.

 

[Plushottie]

I think this fabulous! I appreciate the thought, effort and time you are putting into this for us. Correction, you absolutely Are a leader and leading us. I struggle with this challenge because personally speaking, I need it. You are doing great! And I appreciate all this work you have done. I’m here for the ride even if I’m the ‘ghetto passenger’ in the backseat getting on folks’ nerves.

There is nothing ghetto passenger about you. This process pulls a lot out and resistance helps us like a boundary like ok this is a soft spot. I can say in my female path course the last 2 months have been completely ghetto but I’m better for it.

 

[Plushottie]

I’m good w the new plan as the old things aren’t as relevant to all. My heart hurts about the archetype quiz I know the creator of it has passed away so young and gorgeous lady.
If my memory serves me I was the sophisticate as I’m quite sage but also fluid in reserve. However with the course I’m doing I’m working on releasing my suppression in my essence.

 

[Chicoro]

Participants -
@snoop
@TrueSugar
@Plushottie
@Chicoro
@tinkat


Week 5: What's Your Feminine Archetype

Every woman has a feminine essence about herself that makes her different from the rest. It's important to KNOW why you are different from the rest and what your gifts are to use them in the most efficient way to interact with men and women and get exactly what you want out of life. Discover your Feminine Mastery Archetype to reveal your natural gifts and the most prosperous way to express your Divine calling.

These archetypes explain how the world sees you. The lover, the mother, queen, maiden, Huntress, wise, and mystic. There are major differences between these women, but they all share one common thing....they are feminine in their own right and have their own feminine superpower. What's your feminine superpower?

Week 29 Challenge
1. What's your Feminine Archetype? Please take the quiz at: http://www.womenlovepower.com/seduction-archetype-quiz/
and report which Feminine Archetype are you. (A previous thread about this quiz can be found here:
https://longhaircareforum.com/threads/a-fun-quiz-to-identify-your-feminine-archetype.834309/ )
2. What makes you seductive as a feminine woman and who is your target? This can found with a simple google search or skim through The Art of Seduction
3. How can you use this information to develop your feminine being and use it to get what you want?

That quiz is about 150 questions!!!! Be prepared to spend some time answering! Also, I couldn't print the results. So I took a picture of it.

 

[snoop]

I think this fabulous! I appreciate the thought, effort and time you are putting into this for us. Correction, you absolutely Are a leader and leading us. I struggle with this challenge because personally speaking, I need it. You are doing great! And I appreciate all this work you have done. I’m here for the ride even if I’m the ‘ghetto passenger’ in the backseat getting on folks’ nerves.

Girlfriend, there ain't no bus because





But I'm willing to be ghetto fabulous with you all the same.

 

[Chicoro]

Girlfriend, there ain't no bus because





But I'm willing to be ghetto fabulous with you all the same.

Girl, I assumed and meant the backseat of the CAR that YOU driving!

 

[Plushottie]

Redid the quiz and can see my self inventory helped. I’m the Ingene but only .5 difference from what I scored before the sophisticate. I’m going to have to merge the two bc being honest w self about who I am has been hard.

 

[Chicoro]

Redid the quiz and can see my self inventory helped. I’m the Ingene but only .5 difference from what I scored before the sophisticate. I’m going to have to merge the two bc being honest w self about who I am has been hard.

I don't understand what you've typed here. Could you clarify? I am nosey and want to know.

 

[Plushottie]

I don't understand what you've typed here. Could you clarify? I am nosey and want to know.

Yes. So there was .95 difference in my highest secondary type. My types are the ingene at 79.5 and the sophisticate at 78.1. Last time I did that test it’s been at least 3 yrs, I wasn’t intuned, relied on analytical mind and wasn’t intuned with my body. Now after some recent chats that I had pushed me to be honest w what I want and what I like. I’m also into knowledge but would prefer to be a sex object light and airy. It’s so against societies expectations.

 

[Chicoro]

Yes. So there was .95 difference in my highest secondary type. My types are the ingene at 79.5 and the sophisticate at 78.1. Last time I did that test it’s been at least 3 yrs, I wasn’t intuned, relied on analytical mind and wasn’t intuned with my body. Now after some recent chats that I had pushed me to be honest w what I want and what I like. I’m also into knowledge but would prefer to be a sex object light and airy. It’s so against societies expectations.

Ah! Thank you for taking the time to clarify for me. I see. Interesting and good for you!

 

[snoop]

According to my results, I'm the Gamine (Maiden dominant and the Lover secondary). Interestingly, my astrological sign is Virgo.





POTENTIAL TO CAPTIVATE

• Posses idyllic child-like qualities (openness, playfulness, spontaneity, and sometimes mischievous, winsome charm)
• Manages to maintain her youthful charm in spite of adulthood
• Possesses an air of eternal effervescence
• Can lower other people's defences and elevate their moods (naturally drawing out the paternal aspects in a man's personality)
• When dominate maiden archetype is developed and lover archetype is active, displays an unselfconscious sensuality and lightness than enthralls

ANTI-SEDUCTIVE QUALITIES

• Maidens who remain in their "child phase" may find themselves with emotionally unavailable, "dark" men
• Can end up excessively compliant and sexually inhibited
• Physical or psychological loss will force her to face herself and fully mature

• A mature maiden takes control of her destiny, commits to goals, and creates a solid identity for herself, rather than relying on the approval of others
• Mature maidens can be incredibly creative, sensual, spiritual, and wise, all while maintaining their captivating youthful intrigue

I think that pretty much sums me up, though I think I'm more of a mature maiden than a youthful one. I should caveat this with I think that a lot of my creative and spiritual maiden qualities have been repressed for the last few years, and so this is something that I will put more effort into developing this year.

 

[Chicoro]

@snoop, I don't understand the part: You have reached X points of Y.... What is that talking about?

 

[snoop]

I have NOOOOO idea. I just took the screenshot so that I wouldn't lose the results.

 

[Chicoro]

My highest percent was the Sage. The Sage is considered like 'the boss'. I seem to be confused in every post. I have no idea what I am supposed to do with this information. I already knew this about myself before answering 130+ questions.

 

[Plushottie]

Ok this type is interesting and repression is such a hard pill.

 

[Plushottie]

My highest percent was the Sage. The Sage is considered like 'the boss'. I seem to be confused in every post. I have no idea what I am supposed to do with this information. I already knew this about myself before answering 130+ questions.

I am loling bc you def give me the sage. I think it’s useful in knowing areas that you can max out if needed. Mine I’m struggling with as it was the first time being honest.

 

[snoop]

I found that my explanation had information in relation to to men, but do you find that the information can help you to better relate to:

1. men
2. women

If so, how or how?

 

[Plushottie]

I found that my explanation had information in relation to to men, but do you find that the information can help you to better relate to:

1. men
2. women

If so, how or how?

I believe most info like this is geared for men relations as it’s the most intensive. I’m not downplaying relations w women but intimate relationships can be very life enhancing or limiting. I will say it did give me some clue as to why some women and I don’t mesh.

 

[snoop]

I found that my explanation had information in relation to to men, but do you find that the information can help you to better relate to:

1. men
2. women

If so, how or how?

I'm not entirely sure if it's my personality or my stature/build that comes across as "childlike" to people. With men and older women I feel like it triggers their paternal/maternal qualities when interacting with me. With (wyte) women my age, I feel like there is a bit more tension, moreso if men are around. I tend to hold back in situations like this and just watch the dynamic work itself out. It might be because they can't peg my age. Looking at me I think I look younger (last year, a teen in my virtual German class told me she thought I was in high school ), but I think that when I open my mouth I feel like I (should) sound older than people may think that I am.

I want to develop more of my creative side as I think that this will help me to express more of my creative and nurturing maiden qualities.