creolebeauty said:
I know where you are coming from. My sister is about your complexion and everyone in my family considers her "dark." In school she was called high yellow like the rest of us, but in our family she is the darkest one. Mind you I come from a very fair skin Creole family (most look White or very close.)
I get lots of attention from Middle Eastern, Indian, and Hispanic men. Usually the think I am part of their racial group. When I tell them I'm Black the lose interest. I get the thug White guys sometimes. They try to talk extra hip to impress me. Black men approach me the most. About a year ago I was attracting thugs and "ballers".........now I get approached by professional Black men (I lost 15 lbs, the thugs aren't feeling me any more, Yeah!!!!!!!) My boyfriend is an attorney. I don't think he would have approached me when I was 15 lbs larger.
I can't begin to tell you how many Greek, Italian and Middle Eastern men I've had approach me thinking I was "one of them". Often they'll speak to me in their native language and think I'm screwing with their heads when I tell them I'm not [insert whatever group] and I don't understand the language.
A Greek man in Starbucks got angry with me for "denying my heritage!" when he kept speaking to me in Greek and I kept insisting I was not Greek and didn't speak it either. It was all I could do to not laugh in his face.
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