This is really interesting. I'll never forget the time I was out with this "preppy" investment banker and his close guy friends/ fraternity brothers. 2 of my friends had met us for dinner ( Trini girl and 1/2 Black 1/2 Puerto Rican girl).
After they left I was helping my date with something really small and his friend blurts out, "That's why I really like Black girls."
Totally random. He then proceeds to tell me about a Black girl he dated and how sweet and caring Black girls are, especially when compared to White women.
I mean, I had to laugh. Not b/c we aren't sweet. Most of the women I know are like the church women the poster above mentioned. I laughed b/c men of our own race, choose to put us down as a whole and then one women of another race will come along and convince them that her race is "better" or gentler or whatever (as this guy was doing).
ETA: the guy above (from VA) agreed, as did all his buddies and I've heard this "Black women are so [amazing]" theme lately. Not that I'm complaining! One of my absolutely wonderful, sweet, caring guy friends-- a late-30s White guy from the Midwest-- said something to the tune of, "Well, you know," Black women have a reputation of being strong, but sweet and catering. I hadn't really heard that sweet part so much. He then starts telling me about how we're a complete package, in a "Well, duh, that's the stereotype" kind of way.
I could really get down with this whole new stereotypes thing.
Of course, these are guys I know; if they'd thought I was going to be a witch I wouldn't know them at all or hear their opinions.