I Knew He Just Wasn't That Into Me When He (fill In The Blanks).

I knew he wasn't that into me when:

1) he said he liked me and that I was pretty but he kept asking about my friend
2) he said he'd call me back and he didn't
3) I asked him why he never took me anywhere and he said that since I"m not paying his bills I can't tell him what to do.
4) he lied about his so-called ex-girlfriend being pregnant
5) he told me that he could never see us in a relationship because I'm immature
6) he never asked me about school or how my week went
7) I asked him to take me to the store and he said he would but I would have to hurry up and get out of his car because he didn't want anyone seeing us together
8) he talked about all the things he did for his ex-girlfriends- WHO WERE WHITE, ASIAN, OR HISPANIC- yet he never did the same things for me
9) he constantly talked about a White girl who dissed him yet he claimed he was over her
10) he told me I should gain weight so my butt could be bigger
11) he showed up whenever he felt like it but when I showed up to his place when I felt like it then it was a big problem
12) I told him a stranger threatened my life and he laughed about it
13) he kept talking about how hot Rachel True is and how her hair drives him wild. Rachel is attractive, but still!
14) he kept talking about all the women who hit on him
15) when he set a date for us to go out on Thursday, called on Wed to confirm that we would still go out, and then stood me up.
16) I saw him out in public and said hello to him but he ignored me
17) when I asked him for $30 and he said no but a week later he brags about the 2nd flat screen TV he bought

Unfortunately, that's just the tip of the iceberg. And these are all different guys by the way. I had a really good male friend who treated me really good- to bad he passed away so soon. I knew he was into me:

1) When he would call me a couple times a week to ask how I was doing
2) When he was upset that my family didn't get me anything for the holidays, so he drove all the way to where I live to give me money and then asked if I needed more.
3) he would give me money without me asking and got mad when I told him I didn't want him giving me anymore
4) When he would drop whatever he was doing to take me to the store and waited until I was finished.
5) When he told me that I was beautiful and he loved hearing my laugh because it made him feel good
6) When he let me drive his brand new car.
7) When he said he loved me and would always be there for me.
8) When he acknowledged me for working so hard to make my life better.
9) When he would tell me about his past and his friends and family.
10) when he would show up 15 early on the day he said he would come so we could go out

Didn't mean to spoil the thread. . .
 
I can't believe you all went through this.
Ya'll are nice.
good grief.
 
I knew he wasn't that in to me after 9 months of dating he invited his ex and her daughter to stay at his place when they came in town for a visit....
 
I knew he just wasn't that into me when he:

-while we were on vacation, he bought souvenirs for another girl.

-he went to Freaknik with his friends and came home and bragged about how he was the winner of "who can get the most numbers" contest.

-when I came home and he was babysitting his "friends" baby. um yea

-when he got a big ole attitude when I didn't sleep with him and as we were watching tv, he stretched and was like well I have to get up early.

:blush:
:nono:
 
Sorry kneegros

He never gave me anything. He just gave me a hug talking about well, I will give you some birthday -d*** later :wallbash: Negative my friend.



When we done the deed and he said "Whatchu finna do?.." :/

-when he told everyone I HAD had sex with him and didn't. Then when confronted tried to be like "well, you have to admit...you did look at my dick..."

When he told me that he couldn't hang out with me on Christmas day because he had to go smoke weed with his boys...:nono:

OMG!! :lachen::lachen::lachen::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 
When he said he didn't have any money to get me anything for my birthday, so got me a dollar store card and a dinner combo from the chinese spot but four days later called me bragging about how he bought $2000 rims for his car with cash. :perplexed

When he forgot to pick me up after I had surgery, so I had to call a cab. I kept calling him, but the calls went straight to voicemail.
 
He told me that Hispanic girls were the prettiest girls in the world and he would really like to date them:huh: He didn't understand why he was attracted to me "you have the wrong features":huh:

WTF????

When he sent a "send to many" i love you girl message to me and my friend

When he told me that all black girls are good for is sex....now this pissed me the **** off:hardslap:....he was another hater of his own damn race, talking bout he would die to have a Latina...shizzz I was so blind

So Latina's are the ish now?:ohwell:


Anyways, I knew he wasn't into me when: :offrant:

-he said he would call but three hours later I'm still glued to the phone waiting for his call and NADA!:rolleyes:
-he talked more about my sister than me (and this happened with two different guys):yawn:
-Invited me to his place and then a week later announces me that he's having a baby with another woman:drunk:
-was flirting with me at the club, invites me to his birthday party that will take place in a week, I show up and he's there with his Asian girlfriend:ohwell:
-I found clothes, shoes and lingerie *with skid marks* of his ex in his appartment:perplexed
-He would phone with at least one of his exes every single night...in my presence...before or after we did some coloring...in Bajan:yep::spinning:
-Had pics of his exes on his laptop...as souvenir I guess:confused:
-was always interested in stuff about the LGBT community, and once asked if his body didn't seem feminine to me :busted:
-threatened to throw me out of his apartment once and started dragging me out over some dumb ish (in the middle of the night!):(
-Called me names whenever we had an argument :gunner7:
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-went to Barbados and met with his ex, went to the beach with her, but came back and swore nothing happened...and expected me to believe that:rolleyes:
-constantly sent his ex money because ol' girl was a poor baby mama (no the baby was not his, otherwise I would've understood) and really needed help...and had no one else in the world but him:rolleyes:
-refused do to some coloring with me sometimes:over18:
-introduced me to his grandparents and they start callin' me his exes name:eh:
-swore that if it came down to choosing between me and his career (overseas) he would pick me...and DIDN'T!:realitycheck:


Oh well, you live and you learn.
 
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all different dudes

...when I got the 2am drunken booty call

...when he said "let's take separate cars to the club" and he lived 3 blocks away

...when I came by to see him and he was laying on the couch scratching his fat belly, watching the big screen, and farting talking about "what you gonna make me to eat?"

...when we went some where with a friend of mine and they spent the whole night flirting with each other (dumped both of them)

...when he had to call and "calm down" some other chick on our date
 
Can't believe I forgot two of my favs...

when on our first date he told me he had placed a photo personal ad in Playgirl magazine because he was having a hard time meeting women....yes I did look it up and yes he was butt naked. wee wee showing and all.

When we had been corresponding through a online dating site for a couple of weeks when one day I get a message from him titled "warning about ****". Turns out dude's fiance had found his online profile, cracked the password, and sent me a message to warn me about what a loser he was.
 
Same dude "the first love"...

He asked me to let him interview me for a paper. I drove 2 hours to meet him and after the interview he left me hanging in the library and never came back.

He would call to make plans for me to come down but then insist I stay at my friend's house.

Refused to let me spend the night when I refused to sleep with him- my dumb arse ended up sleeping on a pile of blankets at an acquaintance's house down the street.

Invited me to dinner only to have me meet some new girl he was "friends" with (I wasn't even mad because he made this poor child sleep in the car all day long and wouldn't let her stay at grandma's- Lord he ruined that poor child's life. Last thing I heard she went to jail on account of something stupid he convinced her to do)

Had a gay friend of ours come up go me telling me how much he loved my bf and how he loved cuddling with him in bed and asked if he thought the two of them could be together... :perplexed

Damn that was embarrassing. :blush:
 
Sorry kneegros

He never gave me anything. He just gave me a hug talking about well, I will give you some birthday -d*** later :wallbash: Negative my friend. I found out he was sleeping with 3 other girls the very next week. That same friend called me after I found out and basically was like I know you love him but don't waste your time.

:nono: :nono: :nono:
 
Hmm, forgot to add this one to my very long list....

I knew he wasn't that into me when he planned on attending a Halloween Party that he goes to every year and told me that I couldn't go b/c the person throwing the party doesn't like you to bring people. :huh:

Fast forward 2 years later...

Stupid me became "friends" with him b/c he told me I would always be the most beautiful girl he ever dated. And do you know at Halloween that year, he had the nerve to send me a picture of himself and another girl at a Halloween party - I am assuming the one he always went to. :nono:

End of friendship. I regained my intelligence. :rolleyes:
 
When he told me my facebook profile picture was ugly. LOL.

When his baby's mama called me and told me they were living together.

When he came to my house and brought himself something to eat but didn't ask me if I wanted anything.

When he almost left me at a bar because I rode there with a group of friend which happened to include two men.

When he let a chick answer the phone when I called. I just thank God I was changed by that time because the old me would have stuck my foot up his a?!.

When he stopped answering my calls and called me four months later talking about how he was going through things because he had found out his daughter wasn't his.

These aren't all the same men.
 
I knew he just wasn't that into me when he Started hanging out with "her"


I knew he just wasn't that into me when he never called me back......



I can laugh about these things now because I've found something so much better. But then??? I was a sad rejected chick:blush::perplexed
 
I knew he wasn't into me when I made trip out to see him (3 hour drive) and his phone was off the whole day...yes ladies. The night before it was smooth sailing, and the next day he was MIA.
 
When he said he didn't have any money to get me anything for my birthday, so got me a dollar store card and a dinner combo from the chinese spot but four days later called me bragging about how he bought $2000 rims for his car with cash. :perplexed

When he forgot to pick me up after I had surgery, so I had to call a cab. I kept calling him, but the calls went straight to voicemail.


How did he explain himself?
 
What in the world?


Yes.. he went into deep detail about it too.. tombout how he wanted to sleep with his sister:ohwell:, how he wanted a father daughter relationship:nono:, did i ever want to sleep with any family members:sad:...


i had to report him. I met that winner on plenty of fish
 
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