I Knew He Just Wasn't That Into Me When He (fill In The Blanks).

Ooohhh this will be fun! (and kind of sad too :sad:)

I finally knew he wasn't that into me when:

- he kept seeing the other woman he was dating even though he said he really, really liked me (Ike) :rolleyes:
- he went on a vacation cruise with his "friends" and didn't ask me to join him (Tyrone) :rolleyes:
- after several years of dating, I had only spent 1 night over his house (Tyrone) :rolleyes::rolleyes::wallbash:
- he broke up with me to marry someone else who had better financial resources $$$$ (Mark) They are now divorced. :grin:

But after all this and more, GOD IS GOOD!

He moved those other men out the way and now I have a wonderful SO who has done nothing but gain my trust and love.
 
it took him 4 hours to go get champagne on our wedding night while I waited in the hotel room :perplexed. The store was right next door :nono:.
 
when I caught a girl at his house and he ran out of the garage and hosed me and my bff down w/water :perplexed
 
Jas123 said:
what did he possibly use as an excuse???????
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He said that the police pulled him over for no driver's license :rolleyes:. Why would you even drive to a store that across the street? And what the hell would the police do with you for 4 hours if they are not going to arrest you :perplexed. I didn't believe any of it. Years later I learned the truth was he went to celebrate his marriage with his boys :perplexed. They came first during our entire marriage.
 
I got his Dear Jane card in the mail along with a 3 foot bouquet of exotic flowers.

I thought it was going to be a love note :nono:
 
When he called me at 4 in the morning talking about come over its an emergency. I get there and this fool wanted me to cook breakfast for him and his boys because they were too high and hungover to do it.


When his friend remembered by birthday and he didn't.
 
gymfreak336 said:
When he called me at 4 in the morning talking about come over its an emergency. I get there and this fool wanted me to cook breakfast for him and his boys because they were too high and hungover to do it.


When his friend remembered by birthday and he didn't.
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When my male best friend gave me $100 for my b-day and he threw some cheap skirt and tank top into a bag, unwrapped and gave it to me at the end of the day.

I think i threw the skirt away i was so mad.
 
Tootuff said:
He said that the police pulled him over for no driver's license :rolleyes:. Why would you even drive to a store that across the street? And what the hell would the police do with you for 4 hours if they are not going to arrest you :perplexed. I didn't believe any of it. Years later I learned the truth was he went to celebrate his marriage with his boys :perplexed. They came first during our entire marriage.
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sometimes men are sooooo stupid:perplexed
i'm sorry that happened to you
 
brownelovely said:
.....when he showed up to my job with another girl. :wallbash:

.....stole my entire cd collection and left me with Whitney's greatest hits:perplexed

.....after I blocked my number, hung the phone up in my face once he realized it was me :ohwell:

.....moved to Atlanta and called to tell me, finally, after he'd been there for 2 weeks:nono:

This one is old but at the time it made me sooooo:sad:

...my ex signed up to go to prom with me, then decided to not go with me (mind u he didn't tell me) and decided to go with my arch enemy instead:wallbash:
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:lachen::lachen::rofl:
 
gymfreak336 said:
When he called me at 4 in the morning talking about come over its an emergency. I get there and this fool wanted me to cook breakfast for him and his boys because they were too high and hungover to do it.


When his friend remembered by birthday and he didn't.
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i think i might have caught a murder case:wallbash:
 
Tootuff said:
it took him 4 hours to go get champagne on our wedding night while I waited in the hotel room :perplexed. The store was right next door :nono:.
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What? What a jerk. What kind if friends encourages a guy to party in his wedding night?
 
RavenIvygurl said:
He told me that Hispanic girls were the prettiest girls in the world and he would really like to date them:huh: He didn't understand why he was attracted to me "you have the wrong features":huh:
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:nono: He was so mean.


UgliTruth said:
When I would come over (at night) and he wouldn't offer m any food or drink...

^^Wo. How could I have been so stupid
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No way! That is horrible.


Tootuff said:
it took him 4 hours to go get champagne on our wedding night while I waited in the hotel room :perplexed. The store was right next door :nono:.
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I know that hurt sweetie. I am so sorry.

*5+5 said:
when I caught a girl at his house and he ran out of the garage and hosed me and my bff down w/water :perplexed
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Now that's crazy!
 
- he said he had violated parole so he would be in jail for six months and I saw him downtown two weeks later.
- when he said he was on his way and never showed up.
- after we did the do he called and talked to his girlfriend all night (okay maybe I deserved this one)
 
When he was supposed to show up so we could go out, but told me he couldn't because he was moving beds for his mama...at 8 o'clock at night and it took him the rest of the night to do so.
 
MizzBrown said:
When my male best friend gave me $100 for my b-day and he threw some cheap skirt and tank top into a bag, unwrapped and gave it to me at the end of the day.

I think i threw the skirt away i was so mad.
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Sorry kneegros

He never gave me anything. He just gave me a hug talking about well, I will give you some birthday -d*** later :wallbash: Negative my friend. I found out he was sleeping with 3 other girls the very next week. That same friend called me after I found out and basically was like I know you love him but don't waste your time.
 
back in college many moons ago......I knew he wasn't that in to me when I received a call from someone saying my boyfriend at the time was screwing my roomate.....hmmm, how that I miss that....first taste of being played!

I knew he wasn't that in to me when got to dinner and he said he forgot his wallet....I paid for my food and left him there.
 
Jas123 said:
i think i might have caught a murder case:wallbash:
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Girl, can you believe I did it. :nono: I am so glad my simple days are over with. It didn't take me long to learn. Thank goodness I grew up. :lol: I decided to leave him and started dating his roommates older brother. :lol: Good times good times...he was a great guy
 
Jas123 said:
sometimes men are sooooo stupid:perplexed
i'm sorry that happened to you
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OcoLove said:
What? What a jerk. What kind if friends encourages a guy to party in his wedding night?
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When I iwas in labor with our son at 8 months pregnant he went over his friends house. I had been on bedrest for a month due to complications. After I giave birth (he actually made it to the hospital) he left saying he was going to work and I found out later he called in because 'his wife had just had a baby' and he went to celebrate with his boys again.

weaveologist said:
I know that hurt sweetie. I am so sorry.
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Thanks ladies. It was a very hurtful marriage throughout but I got out and now I have a good husband. We have been married for 9 years :grin:.
 
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