2017 Relationship And Dating Thread

[qchelle]

He did something that his mom (and me, too) didn't like. We had dinner with her recently. Yo she being sooo petty lmao she was picking on him the whole evening I felt bad. "Aren't you gonna ask qchelle what she wants to drink?" "Get her a plate!" "What kind of pants do you have on?...oh, I don't like those. Those are ugly" "why don't you do something with your facial hair?" etc I was crackin up. She clearly wasn't feeling him at all that evening.

So now. He being petty, too. His mom is getting married at the end of the month. He's a groomsman (or whatever they're called). Im a hostess. There's a gathering for the wedding party at his mom's house this weekend. I'm going. I'm excited! So now he talkin bout he don't know if he going

cuz the best man (the fiance/husbands best friend) wants to have a get together (mini/old man/low key bachelor party) with the men on that same day! So he using that as an excuse to not go to the wedding party gathering. He would rather hang out with his mom's man than his mom. What in the petty hell?

And so my confusion is how tf is the best man having this on the same day as the gathering?! Cuz it only consists of SO, his bro, best man, and the fiance/husband! Allegedly, according to SO, best man asked for everyone's availability in April and this the only weekend they all free. Niccas! No, yall are not free! I swear niccas ain't ish yo

I hope his mom shuts this all the way down

 

[qchelle]

SOs best friend is having a bday thing next weekend in Baltimore. We're doing an escape room thing. SO told me he booked us a hotel, cuz he don't feel like arguing about me driving his drunk ass home. Good. Points for him for thinking ahead lol.

I hate driving his stupid drunk ass. He be fartin in the damn car

 

[toaster]

SOs best friend is having a bday thing next weekend in Baltimore. We're doing an escape room thing. SO told me he booked us a hotel, cuz he don't feel like arguing about me driving his drunk ass home. Good. Points for him for thinking ahead lol.

I hate driving his stupid drunk ass. He be fartin in the damn car

I missed these updates.

 

[prettyinpurple]

OK, April will be fine. I'm worried about May, and possibly, July. Sigh.

What do you mean?

SOs best friend is having a bday thing next weekend in Baltimore. We're doing an escape room thing. SO told me he booked us a hotel, cuz he don't feel like arguing about me driving his drunk ass home. Good. Points for him for thinking ahead lol.

I hate driving his stupid drunk ass. He be fartin in the damn car

Ooh I need to arrange an escape room outing with friends. Tell me how you like it!

 

[sarumoki]

We were supposed to have a cute night in together to celebrate three months of dating. Instead, I got sick and started throwing up. #bummed

 

[Rocky91]

Uhm ya'll open relationship ladies upthread spill the beans on what made you want to do this!??? This is unusual for the woman to initiate so I'm very curious. What if he gets attached to the other 'nany, or wants to keep doing it when you're over it, ya'll must be some secure as heck ladies. Teach me!

@qchelle @Rocky91

Hey @Fine 4s i didn't mean to ignore this!
I am extremely secure, maybe even arrogant. i ain't worried.
i think that i am not all that inclined to be monogamous, but he is truly one of my soulmates (i believe that you have several), so i want to make it work with him and this is a solution.
i find it funny how ever since we officially decided we are going to be in an open relationship, my little wandering eye has calmed down anyways it's still on the table, but i'm not pressed.

 

[Rocky91]

we are leaving for Cuba on Sunday! i am soooo excited, i love vacations with him.

 

[qchelle]

What do you mean?


Ooh I need to arrange an escape room outing with friends. Tell me how you like it!

Just some slight foolishness that's happening.

And will do! I've never been to 1 so I'm excited!

 

[BrownSkinPoppin]

He got me exactly what I asked for my bday

 

[BGT]

He asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday morning. I'm so happy!

@hopeful when you let go of trash and find treasure less that one week later!

 

[LovelyRo]

I keep hanging out in the Singles' thread like I'm not in a relationship now.

 

[MCMLXXXIV]

I keep hanging out in the Singles' thread like I'm not in a relationship now.

I did the same thing for awhile.

 

[crlsweetie912]

I keep hanging out in the Singles' thread like I'm not in a relationship now.

Girlllll.....

 

[qchelle]

Girlllll.....

They kicked me out lol

 

[qchelle]

I keep hanging out in the Singles' thread like I'm not in a relationship now.

It's a great thread! Lol I like it in there.

And single people post in here, too. But the single people who post in the singles thread is more litty and active lol

 

[LovelyRo]

It's a great thread! Lol I like it in there.

And single people post in here, too. But the single people who post in the singles thread is more litty and active lol

Lol... IKR. I think I'll post in both.

Girlllll.....

It's interesting over there... lol

 

[crlsweetie912]

They kicked me out lol

Girl but you been booed up for a long time. I'm still new...

 

[qchelle]

Girl but you been booed up for a long time. I'm still new...

Ikr. I lasted a good 6 months

We gon liven it up over here! Lol

 

[Fine 4s]

Lol... IKR. I think I'll post in both.



It's interesting over there... lol

Don't follow her lead @All4Tris!!! it's confusing....I had to ask her why was she in there? Like talking long talks too...lol
@crlsweetie912 is right she been booed up for a long time. So maybe you get a pass lol

 

[Fine 4s]

Ikr. I lasted a good 6 months

We gon liven it up over here! Lol

The talks are more serious....it's either I'm happy, we broke up or what do you think *yawn*
The single ladies is more about the search, the juicy date stories etc. Aaaaaaand then there's you. lol

 

[qchelle]

The talks are more serious....it's either I'm happy, we broke up or what do you think *yawn*
The single ladies is more about the search, the juicy date stories etc. Aaaaaaand then there's you. lol

The talks are almost nonexistent lol.

Oh, I've stopped posting in the single ladies thread. No more me.

 

[crlsweetie912]

We have the best conversations. Talk about everything even the ugly stuff. It's so refreshing.
Yesterday he told me he told his sister about me. So apparently I'm meeting the family at Christmas... They gather in Houston.

 

[qchelle]

I like that he makes me talk to my parents more. He always answers when his parents call...I don't except when he's around lol. He'll just answer my damn phone when he sees mommy or daddy calling -_- which is annoying, but good lol.

 

[prettyinpurple]

Ikr. I lasted a good 6 months

We gon liven it up over here! Lol

Aww have we only know each other ~6 mos? Seems longer than that

 

[LovelyRo]

I miss my boo... I'm currently working (at his house) waiting for him to get off work.

 

[sarumoki]

I hate that me and my bf go to two different schools and that our schedules don't match up. Last week was midterms for me and I was in my "Grr I'm busy don't talk to me mode", this week I'm on spring break but it's his midterms this week.

 

[LovelyRo]

My (married) ex is in town and he wants to meet for drinks. Am I supposed to clear this with my SO? I'm new to this. Me and the ex typically hang out when he's in town... we just catch up.

 

[crlsweetie912]

My (married) ex is in town and he wants to meet for drinks. Am I supposed to clear this with my SO? I'm new to this. Me and the ex typically hang out when he's in town... we just catch up.

My rule of thumb is always if he did it would I want him to ask me first or tell me about it.

 

[qchelle]

My (married) ex is in town and he wants to meet for drinks. Am I supposed to clear this with my SO? I'm new to this. Me and the ex typically hang out when he's in town... we just catch up.

Wow your ex has a very nice wife lol.

 

[quirkydimples]

I keep hanging out in the Singles' thread like I'm not in a relationship now.

Same here. I guess this is my new home...