I just found this post on another message board.
I was a little stunned. In my experience, if you're dating it's well known that the guy is going to pay. If not, it's not a date. His situation is a little different since the girl suggested that they do something together, rather than him as her out. But then I asked myself, how would I feel if someone took me out to dinner and wanted me to pay? Um... Well I think he wants to be friends. After a few more dates, I think he's hard on cash.
And then after a few months, and he says that we're dating or boyfriend/girlfriend, and he still won't pay I'd say he's cheap or triffling. There are some girls that prefer it that way. But honestly, what does it say when a man that wants to date you won't pay?
I went out for a dinner date with this girl recently and we had a nice dinner. Once we were done though, I got the check from the waiter and told her what her half was. The look she gave me was murderous and after that it was a very awkward goodbye.
I really hate that as a guy you're expected to pay for a meal. I'm in university and I'm studying not making money why should I foot the girl's bill as well?
I was a little stunned. In my experience, if you're dating it's well known that the guy is going to pay. If not, it's not a date. His situation is a little different since the girl suggested that they do something together, rather than him as her out. But then I asked myself, how would I feel if someone took me out to dinner and wanted me to pay? Um... Well I think he wants to be friends. After a few more dates, I think he's hard on cash.
And then after a few months, and he says that we're dating or boyfriend/girlfriend, and he still won't pay I'd say he's cheap or triffling. There are some girls that prefer it that way. But honestly, what does it say when a man that wants to date you won't pay?
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