cheetarah1980
Well-Known Member
I don't feel like going back and quoting the earlier post about the majority of black men "fawning over white women" and the statistics to prove it.
I will say that while more black men date/marry outside the race than black women, the absolute number of black men doing it is still relatively small. 92% of married black men are married to black women. That means less than 1 in 10 black men are "rejecting" us (if you look at it that way). I get really tired of hearing about how black men have abandoned us and we need to date outside our race to make it even or whatever.
As for the topic at hand. Personally, I'm not comfortable dating white men who ONLY date black women. It's not that I have an issue with them finding black women attractive, it just seems odd to me to date one at the exclusion of another. Personally, I'm not into white men who like me because I'm black. I prefer for them to just think I'm a beautiful woman (with my black features being a part of it) who they find interesting. Mostly, because that's the way I look at them (well not the beautiful woman part).
I will say that while more black men date/marry outside the race than black women, the absolute number of black men doing it is still relatively small. 92% of married black men are married to black women. That means less than 1 in 10 black men are "rejecting" us (if you look at it that way). I get really tired of hearing about how black men have abandoned us and we need to date outside our race to make it even or whatever.
As for the topic at hand. Personally, I'm not comfortable dating white men who ONLY date black women. It's not that I have an issue with them finding black women attractive, it just seems odd to me to date one at the exclusion of another. Personally, I'm not into white men who like me because I'm black. I prefer for them to just think I'm a beautiful woman (with my black features being a part of it) who they find interesting. Mostly, because that's the way I look at them (well not the beautiful woman part).