C(squared)
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I'm trying to mention CarmelCupcake but the silly thing isn't working...
So what about the rest of you ladies...do you often get approached by white men? If so, where?
Strange you should ask, I don't get approached by WM. I will be a compliment, smile, conversation, flirtin, ect but rarely does that lead anywhere. I don't know why? Maybe is as was said before, WW are a little more aggressive and they make it known they are interested while I want to be persued.
I'm talking to a really nice WM now and at first he didn't call and I kinda felt like he was waiting on a nug. I gave him one and now he texts and calls at appropriate times and asked days in advance (like your supposed to). I think the difference of the aggressor is a cultural thing as well.
C Squared, what area do you get approached at girl so i'll know. Thanks
So what about the rest of you ladies...do you often get approached by white men? If so, where?
What's this wigger thing that you guys are talking about?
I get how it rubbed you the wrong way but I don't think he means anything by it....I think he just means he thinks black guys have swagger and if he tried to be like that people would laugh....Like he knows his game is whack......
I've done the "wigger" thing (sorry ladies I know that's not a nice word but I'm answering her question) and to ME it's when they talk to you in a fake "black" street accent, they only listen to hip hop, they dress a certain way (street), they resemble that Situation guy from Jersey Shore LOL
I agree with the other ladies, I'm sure he meant nothing by it. I've been approached that way LOL my DH does it to me all the time when we are at the gas station and he's pretending that we are flirting strangers LOL
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@ Ediese. I don't think he was trying was trying to be politically incorrect, he was just making an observation that for the most part holds true.
More often then not, WM are sooo much more passive when it comes to approaching woman then BM. BM tend to be more of the "cat callers" where as WM feel the need to swoon a girl and make her think he is a good guy. They seem to run on nerves vs. ego. Its quite cute actually. OBVIOUSLY there are exceptions to every scenario, but I do think it serves true for the most part
I also think he was kinda testing the waters. Trying to see your reaction and figure out if woman prefer men to be aggressive while approaching them, as opposed to the "nice guy" thing. I say give him a chance He seems to be interested.
Sorry to pop outta the wood work like that. Just wanted to toss my 2 cents.
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F-o-r-u-m! LOLI know this is off topic but Arosieworld, what do the stars in your avatar stand for?
So what about the rest of you ladies...do you often get approached by white men? If so, where?
It's very interesting that you've brought this up because this has been my situation too. I've never been approached IRL by a white guy. I live in Houston btw........What's this wigger thing that you guys are talking about?