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Angel_Face said:
Yeah, I agree with the bolded. Our coping skills have always been better than theirs.

Mzlady, you are beautiful...trust me the right one will find you and never let you go.
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Thank you so much, that's really sweet of you to say. :kiss:

I hope we ALL find a great guy.
 
MzLady78 said:
I really wish things had worked out between me and D. I was a little disappointed that he didn't come down to the Tuesday night spot last night, I wanted to see him. It's probably better that way though. The effect that he still has on me after almost a year is crazy. I guess I'll always have a soft spot for him.

I did see other dude, though. He passes by the spot on his way home, so he asked me to come out and say hi. IDK, he has this shy demeanor that really makes me think he's just scared, and not necessarily being shady. I've always felt like guys don't bounce from being hurt like women do, a lot of times they just shut down emotionally. Still, I can't allow myself to keep being shut out and treated less than I deserve because he can't move past that. If he's serious, he's gonna have to do a lot better, and in the meantime, I'm going about business as usual.
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:bighug::bighug:

You know what I think? I think you really may need to move out of that Red Sox state. Even small Connecticut has better options than Beantown. :perplexed
 
Things between him and I couldn't have been better. The weekend was fabulous and each day it gets better, though, I still see her being a problem. She cannot take the hint that he no longer wants her in his life. She knows he has moved on, but she has not. She keeps blowing up his phone and asking if he still wants her. Why can she not take a hint?

It appears she is still hurt over the fact that she was indeed the rebound chick. That aside, I know where his heart lies and he is not afraid to declare our commitment to all who ask. Him and I are here to stay. Whoever has a problem with that can kick rocks.
 
Rastafarai said:
:bighug::bighug:

You know what I think? I think you really may need to move out of that Red Sox state. Even small Connecticut has better options than Beantown. :perplexed
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Lol. You're probably right. The pool here is so shallow you can barely stick your pinky toe in it!

My girl that just got married wants me to move to CT, where she is. She's convinced my future husband is there. I think she forgets that her husband moved there from Baltimore to be with her, lol.
 
A.) I repeat... Men are simple

cute, sexy, smart, cut, beautiful eyes, Christian... but still simple

B.) He is a pretty boy and I am pretty much a wash and go kind of girl. I feel some kind of way about this :ohwell:
 
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MzLady78 said:
Lol. You're probably right. The pool here is so shallow you can barely stick your pinky toe in it!

My girl that just got married wants me to move to CT, where she is. She's convinced my future husband is there. I think she forgets that her husband moved there from Baltimore to be with her, lol.
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Bristol, CT...

I keep telling ya'll... Bristol, CT.... ;)



There are hundreds of single black men working at ESPN and not enough women (period) to go around... yeah, it's Bristol, but these are all young and employed black men....

Seriously, one of the dudes told me that they wish more black women could come up there...
 
I got called out for being afraid of being in love and wanted to explain but didn't know where to start...
 
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Bunny77 said:
Bristol, CT...

I keep telling ya'll... Bristol, CT.... ;)



There are hundreds of single black men working at ESPN and not enough women (period) to go around... yeah, it's Bristol, but these are all young and employed black men....

Seriously, one of the dudes told me that they wish more black women could come up there...
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I live in CT and there are A LOT of single educated black men here. Also, there are tons of univesities and companies located here :yep:
 
yea that 1 year itch is creeping. Im not even as enthused as i once was. Dont know if its just a phase..or im just tired...pms..or what. But i will see him in 2 days. hopefully my emotions change. How weird.
 
Bunny77 said:
Bristol, CT...

I keep telling ya'll... Bristol, CT.... ;)



There are hundreds of single black men working at ESPN and not enough women (period) to go around... yeah, it's Bristol, but these are all young and employed black men....

Seriously, one of the dudes told me that they wish more black women could come up there...
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She is so right! and they don't mind traveling.

They are usually not from CT so they are always looking for somthing (or someone) to occupy their time.

I went to a fish fry the ESPNers (thats what I call them) had last weekend and good lawd there was a lot of eye candy.
I was trying to get my best friend to come find her a husband:lachen:
 
poochie167 said:
yea that 1 year itch is creeping. Im not even as enthused as i once was. Dont know if its just a phase..or im just tired...pms..or what. But i will see him in 2 days. hopefully my emotions change. How weird.
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D*mn I remember so many moments like that in my previous relationship. And the feelings never changed. Eventually I had to break up with him...it took me 3 years to make that decision because I felt like my reasons for wanting out were so, so petty. But they never left...so I did.

Wow, I must still feel guilty...:ohwell:
 
dcohen1217 said:
She is so right! and they don't mind traveling.

They are usually not from CT so they are always looking for somthing (or someone) to occupy their time.

I went to a fish fry the ESPNers (thats what I call them) had last weekend and good lawd there was a lot of eye candy.
I was trying to get my best friend to come find her a husband:lachen:
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All so true!

My brother is one of the ESPNers (he wasn't there though), so I'm always seeing pictures of them going out, hanging out, maybe going into Boston or NYC for the day.

The only problem is that they all have serious sports addictions. :lol:
 
Ughh...I'm happy you're here, and I love spending time with you. But the fact that you're here is driving me NUTS because I can't stop thinking about you and whether or not I'll get to see you again before you leave! :wallbash:

I wish I could quit you...


...

Okay, not really...:look::lick:
 
Bunny77 said:
Bristol, CT...

I keep telling ya'll... Bristol, CT.... ;)



There are hundreds of single black men working at ESPN and not enough women (period) to go around... yeah, it's Bristol, but these are all young and employed black men....

Seriously, one of the dudes told me that they wish more black women could come up there...
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Bristol, CT eh? I have a friend who lives in NJ, so I know that's not too far from there. I'll have to let her know and check it out...then maybe she can get me an "in"....LOL
 
I've been thinking about getting back into on-line dating. I went to Match and did a search just to see whats out there these days. I was not impressed. I think I'll hold off...
 
*contermplates organizing an LHCF road trip to Bristol, CT*

I need to do some house cleaning. There are people in my life who are just taking up space and serving absolutely no purpose - males and females.
 
There is a really cool/casual bar there that everyone goes to ..Ive been on a Thurs/Fri which is a second home to many ESPNers..its called Bleachers..fyi:yep:



MzLady78 said:
*contermplates organizing an LHCF road trip to Bristol, CT*

I need to do some house cleaning. There are people in my life who are just taking up space and serving absolutely no purpose - males and females.
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Duchesse said:
I'm in NYC......pm if you do want plan one....yes, I'm serious. :sekret:
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The next time I go up there to Bristol, I'll let you all know so we can meet up. :)

(Don't know when that will be, but I promise I will post something on here when I'm headed in that direction.)
 
I'm laughing on the inside b/c my ex finally understands what he put me through (because he's now experiencing it). :giggle:
 
Mr. Harris is being harrassed by the chick he said he didn't have a relationship with. She got my telephone number off his caller ID and now she's calling me telling me "I WON"
 
KPH said:
Mr. Harris is being harrassed by the chick he said he didn't have a relationship with. She got my telephone number off his caller ID and now she's calling me telling me "I WON"
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See, this is the ish right here that will get the brakes beat off you.

I wish a chick would call me about some dude..
 
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