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MzLady78 said:
Thanks, girl! :kiss:

I'm keeping my fingers crossed but we did have a convo today that made me a little nervous. For the first time, a guy is actually scared of getting hurt by ME, as opposed to the other way around. I didn't really hear from him much the rest of the weekend, even though he insisted he had a good time. So when I asked him about it today, he said he's trying to be careful because he doesn't wanna get played. I hope he doesn't end up being one of those guys who refuses to let someone get close to him because he's scared. Hell, I'm scared too, but I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, you know?

But we'll see how it goes. I'm keeping my options open but I'll give him a fair chance.
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I just hope he follows up with a date 2 invitation :grin:. It's a good sign that he's opening up to you and I assume that despite his fears he is still willing to seek out a relationship. After all, he entertained the idea of meeting you and putting himself out there. :D

I can't wait to see where this goes. :grin:
 
I am finally ready to give up on you. Caring about you is not doing me any good so i am done. I should have known that when you told me that you loved me last year that it was a lie, someone who claims to love me wouldnt treat me like this. You have gone from talking to me several times a day to not talking to me at all. I need a break from you to get over you. I hope I have the strength to do it.
 
All I want is a half-gallon of Hagen Daaz, re-runs of Platinum Weddings and a box of Kleenex. :cry:

I'll dust myself off tomorrow :sad:
 
I'm an idiot :( all this time.... why did I do that myself. You live and learn I guess, but still.. I feel like such a mug!!

It's not about him now.... it's more about, ME! And yes, I'm beating myself up for being a fool, not because he didn't want me, he's a selfish, self-centred, user! he won't change.

Get it together, J! it really isn't the end of the world. you'll learn.
 
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Seriously, when are you going to learn? STOP chasing after guys who do NOT want you! It's positively BAFFLING that you do this when you've got SEVERAL other men sweatin' you right now. WHY do you always pine for the one that's not interested?

...and then you go and lose interest as soon as some other unattainable arsehole comes along...sheesh!!!!
 
i just made a blog about how i hate how much responsibility my baby has to his fam. and how his brothers always fck something up. this fool tried to fight my baby over a basketball game. i cannot stand this kid. he is so selfish. he fcked up a chance for his mom to go out and have a social life for once, now he threw a basketball at my baby's face. his face is cut up (he wears glasses), stomach cut, knees bruised, and his hand is sliced. his older brother is a lot bigger than him. wtf. why would you get that violent with your brother when you are that damn old over a stupid basketball game. jlqkenmvkuxxc
 
[QUOTE=Rei;11376678]feeling really ugly and discouraged right now[/QUOTE]


U r absolutely beautiful...

I beg of you not 2 let any human being make you feel that way.
 
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Look I'm moving on oh oh oh
Loved you, lost you
Thought I'd give you
All the best of me
We departed
Broken hearted
I need to be free

Chrisette Michelle
 
Helpmeblongagain said:
[QUOTE=Rei;11376678]feeling really ugly and discouraged right now
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U r absolutely beautiful...

I beg of you not 2 let any human being make you feel that way.[/QUOTE]

Rastafarai said:
God don't make ugly. Please don't put down yourself. :sad:
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OrangeMoon said:
Girl don't make me whoop you. Please shake it off and think positive thoughts. *hug*
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thanks, i just feel like nothing I do is good enough...I put in so much effort this time and he is just like 'on to the next one'. I really wish I could be just as nonchalant
 
Rei said:
]thanks, i just feel like nothing I do is good enough...I put in so much effort this time and he is just like 'on to the next one'. I really wish I could be just as nonchalant
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Were there any red flags to indicate he wasn't as interested or committed to you as you were to him?

Don't try and be like anyone or anything but yourself. Don't let this experience discourage you from finding someone who can appreciate the efforts you make AND reciprocate the same. It's his loss, not yours. :yep:
 
Just when I meet the perfect man for me he has to move out of state for work. He left today and I can't help but be sad and wonder what is going to happen to "us". *sigh*
 
*sigh* I think I might have jumped the gun.

Communication with this guy has been minimal since Saturday. He says he's been busy, but how busy can you be that you can't send a text? You do go to lunch right. I know you work 2 jobs, but you do go home eventually, right? I'm not buying it, especially when just last week, he were sending me texts just to say you were thinking about me, even when he couldn't engage in an entire conversation. He said he had a good time with me so I really don't know what to think. :ohwell:
 
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MzLady78 said:
*sigh* I think I might have jumped the gun.

Communication with this guy has been minimal since Saturday. He says he's been busy, but how busy can you be that you can't send a text? You do go to lunch right. I know you work 2 jobs, but you do go home eventually, right? I'm not buying it, especially when just last week, he were sending me texts just to say you were thinking about me, even when he couldn't engage in an entire conversation. He said he had a good time with me so I really don't know what to think. :ohwell:
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Wow, I'm sorry to read this. I'm not going to lie, I'd feel the same way you do especially if he was different last week.

And if he told you that he has been busy since Saturday, it's safe to say that you inquired about not hearing from him as often. He knows how you feel. So the ball should be in his court now. Give it some time to see what happens.
 
Been noticing my SO has turned into my dream guy. Last night I asked him If he had a near death experience or something(trying to figure out what caused the change in him). He laughed and said no, but I had a dream that I didnt have my "renew" in my life and I was lost; now I am grateful. *kisses my forehead* ~Feels great to be appreciated~
 
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