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itismehmmkay said:
Well you don't know lying really

#theseh*crazytoo
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yeah but... any woman who has access and gumption enough to check your text message and return calls on your phone, at 9 AM on a saturday.... Come on son... He betta not say my name or even look at me... Hell... If he is keeping company with ms LOca, he need to work that out before he comes my way...

I have a few crazies under my belt, and have successfully rebuked them mofos prior to getting it going with anyone else... i need the same courtesy
 
Remember when I said it hurts right now but this is the best decision for me? Well I was right, and I'm loving my life right now. Getting rid of you helped me realize that I deserve more.

On another note:
D I enjoyed twisting your dreds last night and the long convo. Your sending good vibes and I'm glad we are on the same page. looking forward to bowling this week!
 
I've gotten more compliments and kind words from this dude in 2 days than I did the entire 9 months I was dealing with this last one.

He text me this morning to say hi, but I didn't hear back for hours after I responded. When he finally hit me back, he said his day was crazy but I was on his mind. When I asked what he was thinking about, he said how much he was enjoying getting to know me, how much he's looking forward to meeting me and how pretty I am. *swoon*

ETA: 1st date has been set up. We're gonna meet for breakfast on Saturday since that's the soonest we're both available.

Keep your fingers crossed for me! :)
 
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MzLady78 said:
I've gotten more compliments and kind words from this dude in 2 days than I did the entire 9 months I was dealing with this last one.

He text me this morning to say hi, but I didn't hear back for hours after I responded. When he finally hit me back, he said his day was crazy but I was on his mind. When I asked what he was thinking about, he said how much he was enjoying getting to know me, how much he's looking forward to meeting me and how pretty I am. *swoon*

ETA: 1st date has been set up. We're gonna meet for breakfast on Saturday since that's the soonest we're both available.

Keep your fingers crossed for me! :)
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:yay: Keep us posted!
 
Guy #1 is really trying to put in work. This is going to be very interesting. He hasn't asked me out....yet. I know it's coming, or at least i think so.
 
it's the chase. for men & women alike it seems. i really want to send him an anonymous letter saying "date someone else and/or find something to do in your free time & she is yours." although i'd probably have to also tell him to explore the naughtier side of the internet and self entertain before coloring as well. *sighhhh* he may be a lost cause, but i think he'd be good for her. hot, a gentleman, would be a great bf....yet somehow he messed everything up. :ohwell:
 
so my man is transcribing right now and we have been skype vid chatting for the past hour. but not actually talking cause he's working. im doing other stuff but i keep clicking to his window to watch him work. it's so sexy. (although so weird). i guess this is like spending time together? kinda? lol.
 
Why do you insist on making me mad? Why be inconsiderate? We've come a long way from where we were 4 years ago...no backtracking....

*sigh* Can't stay mad at you long, though...lucky for you, I love you.....
 
Something is going to give very soon. I just hope it works in my favor. But I wont sweat it...Ima just lay low, live my life and keep my options open. Truth is R, I want you BAD!
 
Blah! he really boils my pee!

I really need to stop over thinking this and let it ago, otherwise I'll never be free of this mess and I won't have any peace of mind. To hell with him!
 
this guy that i know who is married shared the following:

he wish he would have stayed single and just had girlfriends;

the big house they live in wasn't his idea (she wanted the big house, not him), as they have one child - no more;

she doesn't keep herself up anymore;

she doesn't have sex often - always have headaches, etc.

and when they do, it's not that great.

chile...i lit one of my newports n was like...:ohwell:

da hell u tellin me for. u don't like where u at, go move into a smaller house or apartment, and go find someone who fufills ur needs. i'm not an advocate on stayin when ur not happy. it's bu'shyt to me.
 
Ok, I am like a kid on Christmas Eve right now. I am so excited about tomorrow. He is such a sweeheart. Today he text me just to say he was thinking of me. If he isn't genuine in his interest in me, then he deserves a friggin Oscar for real!
 
MzLady78 said:
Ok, I am like a kid on Christmas Eve right now. I am so excited about tomorrow. He is such a sweeheart. Today he text me just to say he was thinking of me. If he isn't genuine in his interest in me, then he deserves a friggin Oscar for real!
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Awww... I love it! Glad you have a date tomorrow! Enjoy some pancakes and hash browns! :D
 
The kid is trying "something different" on Sunday over coffee... His italian baby blues are sumthin else... :) And the fact that he loves cold fried chicken makes my knees week :)
 
Can we enjoy anything? Everything is freaking struggle. I shouldn't have to feel like I'm dragging you toward a life with me if you really do love me. I'm kind of exhausted with playing to you while my needs go unmet (you are not my child) and I have to feel guilty for having emotions. The current social climate has me scared to let you go--mom says I should though. You are kind of a catch, just maybe not mine. I know you wanted to live together to see if you really want to marry me. Now you're more sure than ever that you want to get married and I'm ready to run in another direction.
 
Ladies, looks like we have a winner!

The date was perfect. He was on time, opened doors, walked me to my front door at the end- a perfect gentleman. A little more shy and reserved than what I'm used to, but I think that might be what I need. I haven't done well with high profile, charismatic guys in the past. But I'm really pleased with how everything went. He asked if I would want to see him again and I said definitely. :yep:

Oh, and the food at the restaurant we went to was great as well. Chocolate stuffed french toast = heaven, lol. Its not far from me, I'll definitely be going back.

So yeah, it was a good day. :)
 
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