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I like you and I know you are feeling me, but don't think that Im just going to let you have it easy. You have to show me that you are worthy of my time.
 
Uhhhhh, so I was on my way home from work and I passed his home. Him and his relatives were having a gathering or house party it appears. I think he was with his new lady but I'm not too certain. We made eye contact (unexpectedly) and we stared for a good 5 seconds. Some of his relatives also said hello to me on my way home. He said nothing...looked away, actually, as I got closer to him.

After two weeks of not hearing from him and him hanging up on me during our last phone call, I got two missed calls from him last night.

What does he want?
 
Strangefruittree said:
Me: text - "miss you :)"
Him:phone call (Female voice)- "Hello?"
Me: "Ummm hello???"
Her: "Why are you missing my fiance?
Me: "I WAS missing that dude who introduced himself to me as a single man, I apologize that you call him your fiance, sucks to be you."

Am I harsh... Ah well...
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This same sucker arse sucker had the nerve... to text me...
HIM: Hey
Me: no response
HIM: does this mean I cant see you anymore?
Me: Seriously, dont you have a fiance and 3 children to tend to
HIM: She is a girlfriend not fiance....
Me: Okay... since you won't, I will respect her for you, lose my number :wallbash:


He single handedly ruined my fantasy of sexy... Nothing could beat a tall blk man with the banging body and nicely manicured locks. This is what happens when you focus on the surface-you smash into a hard place cause it aint that deep SMH
 
I really am not interested in meeting him in person-but I will :( Im hoping one of these online dates I have works out. Anyways, the vibe in the phone isnt there. He's a bit intense for lack of better words and he talks too much. blah. Maybe my mind is just preoccupied with other stuff.
 
I wish I had the heart to tell you that I don't date men with gold teeth and lips blackened from one too many blunts. So I just smiled and said, " I'm good," when you asked me for my number.
 
Ughhh...

Why didn't I just ASK who she was rather than assuming things? But it's easy to assume sh*t when you didn't even bother to introduce me to her to begin with and you were being touchy feely with her. I mean, WHAT else was I supposed to think? You could've helped to end-run this mess by making a simple introduction "N, this is K. K, this is N. N, K is a really good friend of mine that I work with." I don't really know you yet and I don't know who your people are. I thought you were coming to see the game alone, which is why I came out - to hang out with you.

And then when you said you wanted to go hang with her for a bit, if I'm thinking you're trying to get at her, OF COURSE I'm going to get upset. It felt like you were COMPLETELY dissing me! So, yeah, you were obviously drunk if it took me getting to THAT point before you finally realized what in the hell was going on.

UGHHH!!!
 
I really don't want to kiss any more frogs...
I don't want to sift through bullshyt, or deal w/ the akwardness of stop talking to someone.
Ahhh, I do hv some anxiety about dating b/c of this.
I did briefly meet a dj I was interested in. I went home and googled him, realized he is quite popular and it kinda makes me not want to call b/c he's in the industry and we know how that goes... Also, he's around women and celebs allllll the time and works crazy hrs since he dj's parties all the time. Pat of me want to call him and part me doesn't.
 
the more i think about it, the more i realize that i truly love you and while it caught me off guard when you told me that you love me , i'm still nervous about letting my guard down.... but i can see us growing into something so wonderful and genuine.
 
MzLady78 said:
Ladies, looks like we have a winner!

The date was perfect. He was on time, opened doors, walked me to my front door at the end- a perfect gentleman. A little more shy and reserved than what I'm used to, but I think that might be what I need. I haven't done well with high profile, charismatic guys in the past. But I'm really pleased with how everything went. He asked if I would want to see him again and I said definitely. :yep:

Oh, and the food at the restaurant we went to was great as well. Chocolate stuffed french toast = heaven, lol. Its not far from me, I'll definitely be going back.

So yeah, it was a good day. :)
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MzLady, how did I miss this?!!!

I'm SOO happy the date went well!! Please keep us posted!! :grin::grin::grin:
 
Baby sister is engaged.

Always knew she would be first.

99.99% of me is :dance7::dance7::band2::bouncy::bounceline:




A small part of me is :cry:


One day it will be my turn. *dusts self off, puts smile on face, and faces the world*
 
Love Song for No One

Searching all my days just to find you
I'm not sure who I'm looking for
I'll know it
When I see you
Until then, I'll hide in my bedroom
Staying up all night just to write
A love song for no one

I'm tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here
So tired of being alone
So hurry up and get here

~John Mayer~
 
I likeD you...but you don't know what to do with me...if I continue dealing with you...I expect to over extend myself by teaching you how to treat me, helping you improve, and being disappointed. I will NOT do that to myself. I'm 25 as of tomorrow and I will always be single if Im not wise about choosing who I will commit to.
 
Rastafarai said:
MzLady, how did I miss this?!!!

I'm SOO happy the date went well!! Please keep us posted!! :grin::grin::grin:
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Thanks, girl! :kiss:

I'm keeping my fingers crossed but we did have a convo today that made me a little nervous. For the first time, a guy is actually scared of getting hurt by ME, as opposed to the other way around. I didn't really hear from him much the rest of the weekend, even though he insisted he had a good time. So when I asked him about it today, he said he's trying to be careful because he doesn't wanna get played. I hope he doesn't end up being one of those guys who refuses to let someone get close to him because he's scared. Hell, I'm scared too, but I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, you know?

But we'll see how it goes. I'm keeping my options open but I'll give him a fair chance.
 
Fedoralova said:
Guy #1. You're a nice guy and I know you're interested but you're not communicating much. I'm so perplexed by you.
Guy #2. You have so much to be thankful for yet you focus so much on the negative. So frustrating!
Guy #3. YOU must think I'm boo boo the fool. Keep trying, my dude. Some day you'll get it right.
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Almost 2 weeks later and nothing much has changed
Guy #1- Still baffling the hell outta me! I cant do much more talking. I've expressed. If you dont know what to do with that, I cant help you.
Guy #2- You're beginning to see the light and I'm happy for you. Do I see a future for us? Like I've expressed to him so much needs to take place in order for that to happen. We shall see! However my options remain open.
Guy #3- Who was this? Ohhhhhh yeah that dude! :rolleyes:Uhhhhh.........NEXT!
 
Welp, Mr. Harris has finally come CLEAN (so he claims) about it all but it really doesn't matter today.
 
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