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I need to ingrain this into my head the next time I'm interested in a guy:

"Never fall for someone you have to crawl for. If they don't encourage you to fly.. tell 'em bye!"
 
The other day I saw this guy I used to semi date at Canal street. We had a very strange and unresolved affair. He was walking in front of me on the subway platform heading towards the same train. Why did I get all Matrix like and slip into the background with the quickness, get on a train going in the opposite direction and prolong my travel time by about 15 minutes? :nono:. The bad thing is, I think he noticed me...

More reasons for me to move to a new city. I run into old flames too often for my liking.
 
Me: text - "miss you :)"
Him:phone call (Female voice)- "Hello?"
Me: "Ummm hello???"
Her: "Why are you missing my fiance?
Me: "I WAS missing that dude who introduced himself to me as a single man, I apologize that you call him your fiance, sucks to be you."

Am I harsh... Ah well...
 
OMG, I can't believe I have a crush on someone at my job! What do I think I am, 18?

:lachen:

And I think he's been flirting with me, :lol:

Good thing I want to switch careers at the end of the year so if anything does happen, I won't be dating someone I work with... for too long ;)

It does feel nice to have a crush on someone :)
 
Strangefruittree said:
Me: text - "miss you :)"
Him:phone call (Female voice)- "Hello?"
Me: "Ummm hello???"
Her: "Why are you missing my fiance?
Me: "I WAS missing that dude who introduced himself to me as a single man, I apologize that you call him your fiance, sucks to be you."

Am I harsh... Ah well...
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:ohwell: I don't think that was too harsh. It's not your fault he's been runnin around behind her back pretending he's single. :nono:
 
Strangefruittree said:
Me: text - "miss you :)"
Him:phone call (Female voice)- "Hello?"
Me: "Ummm hello???"
Her: "Why are you missing my fiance?
Me: "I WAS missing that dude who introduced himself to me as a single man, I apologize that you call him your fiance, sucks to be you."

Am I harsh... Ah well...
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Wow...but it's true though, would suck to be her lol
 
I met a really nice guy on BlackPeopleMeet, a site that I've had horrible luck with in the past.

38, no kids, never been married, works 2 jobs, owns his own house and ready to settle down. And not too hard on the eyes either! We spent about 2 days pretty much interrogating each other and we have SO much in common, down to how long it's been since our last relationships.

It's going so well that I'm wondering what's gonna happen to eventually *** it up.:ohwell:
 
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MzLady78 said:
I met a really nice guy on BlackPeopleMeet, a site that I've had horrible luck with in the past.

38, no kids, never been married, works 2 jobs, owns his own house and ready to settle down. And not too hard on the eyes either! We spent about 2 days pretty much interrogating each other and we have SO much in common, down to how long it's been since our last relationships.

It's going so well that I'm wondering what's gonna happen to eventually *** it up.:ohwell:
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I know of a couple who met on BlackPeopleMeet last year and got married this past week. You never know. :grin: Sending good thoughts your way!
 
foxee said:
I know of a couple who met on BlackPeopleMeet last year and got married this past week. You never know. :grin: Sending good thoughts your way!
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Well, that's encouraging, thanks!

Rastafarai said:
Your negativity.

Try and be positive about it and enjoy the experience. Wishing you all the best. :grin:
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Thanks for the well wishes, much appreciated. :yep:

I know, I shouldn't be like that. It's just hard when you're so used to being disappointed. But I'm gonna try to be more optimistic, so as to not sabotage the situation before it even has a chance to progress.
 
MzLady78 said:
Well, that's encouraging, thanks!



Thanks for the well wishes, much appreciated. :yep:

I know, I shouldn't be like that. It's just hard when you're so used to being disappointed. But I'm gonna try to be more optimistic, so as to not sabotage the situation before it even has a chance to progress.
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Yep. Just take it slow. :yep:
 
I am glad someone is having luck on BlackPeopleMeet.com because I sure didn't. Maybe it's just not my time yet. I feel like Charlotte on SATC. "I have been dating since I was 15, where is he?"
 
SunkistDiva said:
I am glad someone is having luck on BlackPeopleMeet.com because I sure didn't. Maybe it's just not my time yet. I feel like Charlotte on SATC. "I have been dating since I was 15, where is he?"
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I've been there on and off for years now. It's a serious crap shoot. I kinda stumbled upon this guy just doing some half-azzed browsing one day and we clicked immediately. Just waiting for him to ask me out.

I so related to that line from Charlotte. I was about 15 when I started dating, and 17 years later and I'm still at it. :rolleyes:
 
MzLady78 said:
I've been there on and off for years now. It's a serious crap shoot. I kinda stumbled upon this guy just doing some half-azzed browsing one day and we clicked immediately. Just waiting for him to ask me out.

I so related to that line from Charlotte. I was about 15 when I started dating, and 17 years later and I'm still at it. :rolleyes:
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Wishing you luck! On paper, at least, he sounds like a good one!
 
gabulldawg said:
:ohwell: I don't think that was too harsh. It's not your fault he's been runnin around behind her back pretending he's single. :nono:
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ya know...
Dude approached me, asked meif i was with someone and thewhole nine... I asked him if he was involved with anyone, wife, baby mama, alla that.. he says yes he has a baby mama, but is not involved with anyone... Shameful... looked me right in my face and lied... looks right in her face and lies everyday...
But I feel great though, I thought I was being mean to him and putting him through the ringer for nothing... I sensed he was up to no good.... Ladies, when you smelll something isnt right... it isnt... thats why its so easy to be on to the next one...
I am truly sorry she doesnt realize she will be doing this for the rest of her life if she stays with him *kanye shrug*
 
Bunny77 said:
Wishing you luck! On paper, at least, he sounds like a good one!
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Thanks, sis! :kiss:

Yeah, I'm definitely feeling him, and more importantly, he seems to be feeling me. :yep:

I hope we can meet up soon and see if the chemistry is there in person, but I know it's hard with him working 2 jobs (he works both Mon-Fri.)

I'll keep you posted!
 
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Strangefruittree said:
Me: text - "miss you :)"
Him:phone call (Female voice)- "Hello?"
Me: "Ummm hello???"
Her: "Why are you missing my fiance?
Me: "I WAS missing that dude who introduced himself to me as a single man, I apologize that you call him your fiance, sucks to be you."

Am I harsh... Ah well...
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What's with these dudes??? They so need to knock it off
 
MzLady78 said:
I met a really nice guy on BlackPeopleMeet, a site that I've had horrible luck with in the past.

38, no kids, never been married, works 2 jobs, owns his own house and ready to settle down. And not too hard on the eyes either! We spent about 2 days pretty much interrogating each other and we have SO much in common, down to how long it's been since our last relationships.

It's going so well that I'm wondering what's gonna happen to eventually *** it up.:ohwell:
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Sending good vibes your way! It's hard out here...
 
Well, we had a miscommunication based on my assumptions, but we managed to clear it up with us both ending up laughing. He's everything I'm not.....keeping my fingers crossed.
 
YOU - I'm going to fall back because I'm not supposed to be talking to you anyway. :ohwell::perplexed

SO/BD or whatever I want to call you from day to day, needs to get it together. There's a lot of people pulling for you and I'm just like :nono:. There as so may things I could post but I don't want to put my business out there. OMG I just want to vent but I got myself into this situation. What I will say is two people wished me happy fathers day and they were dead serious...one was a neighbor and the other was my older brother. My brother has no clue what's going on (or atleast I didn't think he did) and the neighbor watches things but he must really be watching. :sad:
 
R, I'm going to find ways to distract myself from thinking about you. This is the only way to keep peace in my world.

I need to also check where my desires are really coming from. I've had some terrible experiences in the last few months.
 
Strangefruittree said:
ya know...
Dude approached me, asked meif i was with someone and thewhole nine... I asked him if he was involved with anyone, wife, baby mama, alla that.. he says yes he has a baby mama, but is not involved with anyone... Shameful... looked me right in my face and lied... looks right in her face and lies everyday...
But I feel great though, I thought I was being mean to him and putting him through the ringer for nothing... I sensed he was up to no good.... Ladies, when you smelll something isnt right... it isnt... thats why its so easy to be on to the next one...
I am truly sorry she doesnt realize she will be doing this for the rest of her life if she stays with him *kanye shrug*
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Well you don't know lying really

#theseh*crazytoo
 
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