***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

[sugahoney]

I dont understand how you can claim to love someone so much and say that they are the best girlfriend but still cheat on them...constantly. Can someone help me understand this???

 

[Aveena]

Dang he has parkinson's talk about a wake up call

 

[ChasingBliss]

I'm wondering what you are up to. You are doing everything in your power now to make sure I know you "love" me. Now we are soul mates??? Man your talk is beautiful. Nobody does it like you. Nobody...but I dont trust you at all.

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

I dont understand how you can claim to love someone so much and say that they are the best girlfriend but still cheat on them...constantly. Can someone help me understand this???

because that person (girlfriend) allows it. stop allowing him to do this and then it will end.

 

[chickle]

men are so simple, but i fear that is where the problems begin

 

[BlairWaldorf]

at this point , i really don't know what to do (sigh)

you can only love a damaged person for so long before they start to damage you and you don't even recognize yourself anymore. sometimes the best thing for you to do is love them from afar and the only way they can show you they truly love you is by leaving.

 

[Britt]

Coloring has been really good lately.
I don't know what it is, I can't say it's b/c things are great between us or that it's b/c I'm falling more in love or something... I think we just have a great chemistry in that area and I'm comfortable with him in that way.

 

[OrangeMoon]

at this point , i really don't know what to do (sigh)

you can only love a damaged person for so long before they start to damage you and you don't even recognize yourself anymore. sometimes the best thing for you to do is love them from afar and the only way they can show you they truly love you is by leaving.

ohwell: My sentiments exactly

 

[sugahoney]

because that person (girlfriend) allows it. stop allowing him to do this and then it will end.

Thank god it isnt me in that situation, but I dont think his girlfriend even knows that he cheats on her and if she does she is a bigger fool than i thought.

 

[*5+5]

Mr. Nu Nu is so persistent. It's been a month and I finally had to tell him I'm still not in the clear from my ex and he told me he felt it and that he plans to wait for me.

 

[ixoyegodisgood]

:scratchch I wonder if aiming for two dates this year is too lofty goal for me.

 

[BlairWaldorf]

:scratchch I wonder if aiming for two dates this year is too lofty goal for me.

i think you should go for it

 

[BlairWaldorf]

looking back on my last relationship , I realized that while I loved them deeply , I didn't love me the way I should have .I'm on that journey of self acceptance and unconditional love for self. The more you love yourself , the more you learn your value and worth , then the less likely you will tolerate mistreatment. I'm glad I'm learning this now.

 

[ThatJerseyGirl]

well call me a Cougar, cuz i met dis hea youngin and he is SO DAYUM FIONE and smelled so dayum good....

he's 28.

he told me that i had a "clapper" so i had to text my girl n ask her what dat meant...and she told me so I giggled... then i was turned on....

he asked for my number and i gave it. he's been blowin it up, but he has no idea how old i am.

as soon as i get my good hand on him....>>> imma ride dat poney like it ain't neva been rode before....

 

[KPH]

Welp, nobody was listening to me...as usual. Guess they think I was exhaling or just talking to hear myself talk. THEY ARE ALL STILL CALLING AND 2 HAVE BOUGHT TICKETS TO COME TO TOWN.

 

[Maracujá]

Hope all goes well.

 

[LivingDol1]

omg, i am about to meet my current crush somewhere..wish me luck. i am so friggin nervous.

i am so "alternative", i am just beginning to feel comfortable in my own skin, but he is like the alpha male...i am not sure how to describe him, but he is tall dark and handsome, lol. i already have trouble talking to guys in the first place, this is not going to be pretty

how did it go???

 

[DayStar]

Yea, you are cute

 

[BGT]

We finally admitted that we liked each other today. He asked me to be his girlfriend. I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO happy!

 

[song_of_serenity]

Hate arguments and the waiting for someone to say something first game. It's always me. Not this time.

 

[Jas123]

well call me a Cougar, cuz i met dis hea youngin and he is SO DAYUM FIONE and smelled so dayum good....

he's 28.

he told me that i had a "clapper" so i had to text my girl n ask her what dat meant...and she told me so I giggled... then i was turned on....

he asked for my number and i gave it. he's been blowin it up, but he has no idea how old i am.

as soon as i get my good hand on him....>>> imma ride dat poney like it ain't neva been rode before....

keep us updated
what's a clapper?

 

[Determined22]

4 years without a serious relationship...what is wrong with me? I'm dating so its not like I can't attract men...but clearly I'm ding something wrong.

 

[BGT]

keep us updated
what's a clapper?

I'm thinking a clapper is a booty that can clap.

 

[gabulldawg]

I'm thinking a clapper is a booty that can clap.

Yeah he's sayin she has a nice sized rump.

 

[LisaLisa1908]

4 years without a serious relationship...what is wrong with me? I'm dating so its not like I can't attract men...but clearly I'm ding something wrong.

Nothing is wrong with you. Stop thinking that it's about YOU and what YOU want. It's about what is FOR YOU.

When it happens, it'll be right, and you'll wonder why you worried about it in the first place. *hugs*

 

[Determined22]

Nothing is wrong with you. Stop thinking that it's about YOU and what YOU want. It's about what is FOR YOU.

When it happens, it'll be right, and you'll wonder why you worried about it in the first place. *hugs*

*hugs back* Thanks mama...I was having an "in my head" day...I needed that.

 

[Ashleescheveux]

Guuurl you crazy!

well call me a Cougar, cuz i met dis hea youngin and he is SO DAYUM FIONE and smelled so dayum good....

he's 28.

he told me that i had a "clapper" so i had to text my girl n ask her what dat meant...and she told me so I giggled... then i was turned on....

he asked for my number and i gave it. he's been blowin it up, but he has no idea how old i am.

as soon as i get my good hand on him....>>> imma ride dat poney like it ain't neva been rode before....

 

[carolinetwin]

I don't want to be with him any more.....

 

[youwillrise]

havent spoken to dude in about 4 days
and i'm not feeling bad about it

he works my nerves
never thought i'd say that about him
because we've been friends since middle school
he was always great (funny, intelligent, entertaining, etc)
i guess life kinda "got" to him and he became a trashole

oh well.

 

[dark_lovely]

I feel sad. Just when I take a step forward it feels like I take two steps back. Sometimes I feel completely lost when it comes to the decisions I make. I'm trying to listen to my heart but since its broken I can't hear it clearly.