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It's been over 3 months and I'm still not over it or him. No phone call or contact in about a month but I'm still hoping I hear from him on my birthday :nono:
 
P...I am feeling u now...Look forward to crossing paths with you tomorrow since I did not get talk to you the last time I came up to your college. Imma be patient with u because you are very guarded but so open. A real cool guy...aw I have a crush on you! Plus your conversations are always stimulating, makes me think!
 
We broke up over a year ago. Suddenly we see each other and all of the emotions from 3 years of dating come flooding back and you pour out your heart to me. You come across like you wanted us to be together and say that you want me to be the mother of your children. But you're dating someone now. Why would you do that? What is your point? You can't have your cake and eat it too b/c I am NOT that woman. I love you so much but I will always have my self respect and dignity. If you really love me and want me, you know what you have to do.
 
Update on da Youngin...

I invited him ova my house... I didn't realize he was so tall...or I'm just that short.

He gave me a hug. I had a cute sexy dress. He commented on my legs :)

He told me my crib was laid and that he liked it.

Then, I invited him into my bedroom. We laid across my bed and talked, laughed, etc.

I behaved myself.

He has nice lips. Matta fact, he got lips made for tits n clits yall....

Very well mannered. I changed clothes in front of him (I'm comfortable in the skin I'm in). He still behaved (that was my test). He came up behind me, grabbed my waist and started kissing up my neck. I think imma be in trouble.

Then we left together.

Imma take my time with this one because he's young. Just like when a cat catches a mouse, the cat will play with the mouse before devouring it....

I'm da cat..he's da mouse :)
 
I am so tired of you taking me for granted. You barely talk to me within the last 3 days and expect that today I will just be all happy and excited to see you and that you feel like talking to me now??? Guess what I will always be busy where you are concerned now, if you want me you have to work for my attention.
 
I'm ready to be happy yet for some reason i feel like i need closure or something..idk . i feel like my last relationship truly messed my heart up
 
really son you know im done these are the text


Him:I miss you
Me: DELETE
15 minutes later
Him: Sorry to bother u
Me:to self sure shakes head DELETE

Next day
Him: I just want to know if you still love me
Me:to self oh yeah DELETE

you are now permanently DEFLUCKINGLETED im done

Now yow have my brother BBMing me for your arse stupid he has no control and cant help your stinking arse

YOu are now the weakest link Good Bye
 
Glad you recognized that. It really is just a moment. We are ><.
yup. I had to realize that its their loss and that this wasn't really my fault, it never was , the cheating , the lying, the back and forth, the excuses,blaming distance the entire time but not making an effort while i was trying to was them. whatever is meant to be shall be . i'm a great person and i refuse to be unhappy about the demise of the relationship.
 
why is he still trying to kiss me after i told him i just wanted to be friends? leave me alone, leave me alone, leave me alone!...i definitely smell a wolf.
 
My fourth date went well the other night but the kiss was a bit of a letdown.... How do i move past my 'type' and allow myself to let men into my life who are conducive to stability, long term happiness and dependability? Does passion grow over time? Will i ever be able to move from mandingo to man?? lol
 
I'm HAPPY! My heart is no longer breaking with each minute passing. I don't cry when I see you or sit up at night thinking about you and what I "thought" we had! THANK YOU LORD for removing all of that so I could LIVE again! :reddancer:
 
I've been talking to my ex & considering ending the break we are on. It was iniatiated by me to do some soul searching. I read Steve Harveys book, Think Like a Man Act like a Woman. I made out a list of all my requirements of my potential lifetime mate. Then I realized my ex has met all but one of the requirements (he's not over 32)! I realized that he is a good man. I have been all up in the relationship threads & y'all are giving me advice without even knowing it :yep: Hell, I wouldn't mind pro creating with him in the future :) I think I'm going to give us another try....
 
Stupid...just stupid. Why the heck did I ok this? I have to block out so many thoughts just to be kind enough to do it. God please advise me.
 
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