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Why? What happened?
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We live in two different countries and could only make plans to see each other just 2 or 3 times in the next 2 years. It's too hard to sustain a loving relationship when you can never see or touch the other person. :nono: We both really care for each a LOT. So we're just going to stay friends for now. It hurt to realize it, but we just can't be together. It sucks to come to that conclusion, but we don't have a choice. :wallbash:
 
He says he's infatuated with me/really likes me/is hooked on me... This would be great if only I felt the same way, but I don't. His insecurity grates on my nerves and his immaturity is putting me off. I just had to admit to myself that though he was nice, smart, and was giving me the attention that I needed, I am not physically attracted to him and I can't overlook that any longer. The End.
 
Lord i just want to know when is it my time to be happy relationship wise ,i'm starting to question if something is wrong with me. i know i might just be having a moment and that there's nothing wrong. i have soo much love to give and have such a big heart ,i've been taking this time to love me more and i'm not trying to rush or be impatient and i'm truly happy for everyone else but sometimes i can't help but to ask"what about me?"
 
BGT said:
We live in two different countries and could only make plans to see each other just 2 or 3 times in the next 2 years. It's too hard to sustain a loving relationship when you can never see or touch the other person. :nono: We both really care for each a LOT. So we're just going to stay friends for now. It hurt to realize it, but we just can't be together. It sucks to come to that conclusion, but we don't have a choice. :wallbash:
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Sounds like you two made the right decision. Sorry it didn't work out though. (((hugs)))
 
Don't let other people into your relationship. There are just two of you. Not you, him, your best friend, his frat brother, Facebook, etc.

I didn't realize one comment on FB would send you into a sensitive, overload/tailspin... Okkkkaaaay....

You live and learn.... :ohwell: :)
 
----------------------I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!-------------- AND JESUS DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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ok so i'm sitting here eating yogurt after I finished praying and i realized that this time of being single is so i can use it to be molded into a better form of myself for the next time i'm in a relationship, so I'll have even more to offer but I can't seem to understand why i keep having these moments of sadness or doubt.
 
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Lord i just want to know when is it my time to be happy relationship wise ,i'm starting to question if something is wrong with me. i know i might just be having a moment and that there's nothing wrong. i have soo much love to give and have such a big heart ,i've been taking this time to love me more and i'm not trying to rush or be impatient and i'm truly happy for everyone else but sometimes i can't help but to ask"what about me?"
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MAN YOU COULDNT HAVE SAID IT ANY BETTER ME AND YOU ARE >here<!!
 
Sexi6tresses said:
ok so i'm sitting here eating yogurt after I finished praying and i realized that this time of being single is so i can use it to be molded into a better form of myself for the next time i'm in a relationship, so I'll have even more to offer but I can't seem to understand why i keep having these moments of sadness or doubt.
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trying read the book in the meantime finding yourself and the love you want by iyanla vanzant. great book!
 
Got a text stating he wasnt into me. I didnt feel so bad- it happens. Im glad he told me instead of wasting my time. Now I just want to be happy and at peace
 
natstar said:
Got a text stating he wasnt into me. I didnt feel so bad- it happens. Im glad he told me instead of wasting my time. Now I just want to be happy and at peace
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Wow, guys actually do that? Well I definitely respect it. More of them should be upfront like that.


On another note:

I didnt know that ups and downs could be THIS sporadic. Just when I think I'm ok, I go and have a terrible weekend because I'm thinking about past good times.... But like Song of Serenity said in another thread, basically, "dont torture yourself with memories of what he USED to be like, go by what is happening right now"...And what's happening right now aint good enough for me.

I cant say this enough, some of you ladies be dropping GEMS on this board...the words seem so simple but they are right on time and carry big meaning. You all have NO idea how many women you actually save and uplift.


Love ya'll
 
Still talking...moving slow...I like him...I wish he would hurry up and let me know if he is interested or not...I refuse to ask!

He is a mans man!
 
Sexi6tresses said:
Lord i just want to know when is it my time to be happy relationship wise ,i'm starting to question if something is wrong with me. i know i might just be having a moment and that there's nothing wrong. i have soo much love to give and have such a big heart ,i've been taking this time to love me more and i'm not trying to rush or be impatient and i'm truly happy for everyone else but sometimes i can't help but to ask"what about me?"
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I feel like this. For whatever reason I can't seem to attract any quality guys. I don't what my problem is but I seriously need to find out because its been like this for years. I only get approached by guys I have no interest in and men that I am interested in do not return the sentiment. Its so frustrating!
 
Now, you want to have an attitude? Man please. I have to laugh at how you want to play victim now. You lied, for no reason and then had to chase that lie with more lies. I'm not even angry with you any more. OH WELL!!!!!!!!!
 
You know you really care for someone when you are happy that they are happy with someone else...well, maybe a little bit sad too. =(
 
I was googling this guy I like and his wedding registry came up... I knew he was divorced but wow, talk about awkward. xD
 
Its my bday today and I hope we have a a great time this evening. It's really sad that there's no one else I'd rather be with today.

What to wear?! How should I do my hair?!
 
wow, I was the last person to write in this thread?! Where is everybody?

It's 3 in the morning and today was definately a memorable bday.
He was perfect and made it very special. + there's nothing quite like birthday colourin.
 
last night realized i no longer recognize myself. my last relationship threw me for such a loop that I dont even know who I am anymore
 
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