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That was kinda deep in the movie...I remembered it. I wish I was at home so I could youtube the scene from the movie....Great scene.
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Very deep. Maybe a thread should be started. Are you getting the 80 or the 20..... I asked because I overheard a convo where this guy told this girl that she was gettin 20% of his time, blah blah blah and that all of his other time was devoted to other things like his mom, his house, etc. I was standing there like..."what...." so that it was why i asked a question. who would ever settle for just getting 20% of someone? almost like he was doin her a favor...see, das dat bullshyt ri der....
 
one day i'm going to have to share the mr. harris story with you all because I need some advice. he won't go away.
 
we've been dating for 3 months now and he's kind of amazing. idk whether this is real and i should allow my feelings to grow or whether i should pull back for self preservation out of fear of being hurt in the long run.
 
I'm ready to chat and mingle but I guess it hasn't become top of my list bc I just won't get out of the house..I think Im going to try to prepare for the summer and try the meetup.com and just going random places where menfolk with substance relax
 
Never be desperate, never! Never EVER be desperate for a man! Can I reiterate this? It is not worth it. You come in a bag lady with one sack and end up pushing a grocery cart of the stuff. It is not worth it!
 
After all this time it feels like nothing has changes. I wonder if this is that whole, "if it's meant to be let it go and if it comes back then it's yours scenario"...I kind of hope so but in the meantime I can't let my heart get too far ahead of the situation...
 
Pray for me. Mr. Harris is nothing like I've ever experienced. Kids dad knew when it was over it was over. He got mad, called me a few names and had his woman calll me some names but he knew it was over. Mr. Harris on the other hand won't take his foot completely out the door so I can shut it. I should kunta kente him and chop it off.
 
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Pray for me. Mr. Harris is nothing like I've ever experienced. Kids dad knew when it was over it was over. He got mad, called me a few names and had his woman calll me some names but he knew it was over. Mr. Harris on the other hand won't take his foot completely out the door so I can shut it. I should kunta kente him and chop it off.
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humm.....so, tell us bout dis hea mista harris chile.....

did u say kunta kentee him? roflmbaooooooooo!!!!!

he prolly won't take his foot completely out da door cuz u keep opening it!! da work ain't hard chile....
 
I've had three people today tell me I always look "perfect". Honestly need to work on that. People who look too put together are not approachable. Again, explains a little (okay...a lot) as to why things are the way that they are.
 
I feel like the church as a whole isn't supportive of women who are in abusive relationships. Every situation can't be prayed away and in most cases, being submissive to an abuser leads to more abuse.
 
i get to see my baby tomorrow!!! so excited, i'm dancing around the house like this:

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I think the most valuable lesson I've learned is that not all emotions need to be acted on. The SO and I broke up, and while I'm okay with it most of the time sometimes I get these twinges of pain when I'm reminded we're just friends... I have to remind myself NOT to act on them. Wait it out. This too shall pass.
 
I must admit I felt some small triumph when I mentioned hanging out with someone tomorrow and he immediately responded "WHATEVER" before catching himself and going back to the normal conversation... He he, jealousy much? Of course it doesn't mean anything. I'd be jealous too, but I don't want him back. :)
 
time to start doing what needs to be done:

at the first sign of shadiness- cut them off

smile more

don't make excuses for them

be clear about what I want and based on their response decide whether to keep it moving or stay

relax.. don't think too much
 
We are friends, but he says something more is "coming soon," and that "he's got me." I can't help but anticipate it, but I have no idea what's going to happen...

...just happy someone is trying to make me smile.
 
Why is this married man blowing up my phone? Can I call you tomorrow? Um..seriously? It's so sad that his wife is so clueless.

Why did my ex just call to ask me if he can swing by to pick me up so I can spend the night? Wtf? When since do you know me to be the booty call type a gyal?

Sometimes, I can't stand men! I'm officially on an indefinite break.
 
Mr. Harris has had a good talking too and yes, I shut the door ALL THEY WAY and yes, he's still standing outside of it knocking.

The teacher was told that I don't see a future with us and GOOD-BYE (freak).

The married guy (friend for life) was told I wasn't comfortable being his friend any more and because it's been 26 years of us knowing each other I am WALKING AWAY FROM THIS FRIENDSHIP (he's now playing the victim). *wonders what would his wife think of him trying to hold on to this friendless friendship*
 
How young is too young? I was approached by a really hot guy at the bookstore. Polite, interesting, well spoken, and it helps that he is really handsome. Too good to be true? I wasn't sure of his age. I thought 27. Mind you I am 32. He is.....22. Is that too young? Am I Stella already?
 
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