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I'm OVER him! YAY!!!!!!!! :woot:

I said to myself a couple of weeks ago that I couldn't wait for the day when I'd wake up and it wouldn't even occur to me to think of him. And now, I'm there!

Only reason why I thought about it is because of this forum...LOL!!!!
 
I was fine being alone until I took a freaking trip and everyone seemed to be coupled up...I was lonely for brief period after that too...not the intense loneliness that I experienced in college but enough to make me evaluate some of my thoughts about single life and the fact that I've gotten comfortable with it....I've pretty much decided that I probably won't ever get married (that could change of course) but sometimes you just want companionship.
 
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Went on a coffee meetup this past saturday, thought it went fine but no call back. Its ok. There is always a reason. Im glad I didnt call/text afterwards either. Im getting a thicker skin which is good.
 
My heart is breaking. :(
First guy i've liked in two years.... and i'm going to have to break it off.
Been seeing/dating him for a month so far, and last night, had a mini 'the talk'
and it looks like all of his efforts were just so he could take a trip to panty land....

(lol, good thing he never made it on that journey)
 
I really hate his work schedule. We haven't talked much lately because he's either working or at home sleep. Ugh, I'm trying my best not to show how irritated I am cuz I know he can't control his squadron's scheduling but idk how I'm gonna deal with this if we become official. Idk how I'm gonna decide I wanna be official when I hardly get a chance to get to know him better...
 
metro_qt said:
My heart is breaking. :(
First guy i've liked in two years.... and i'm going to have to break it off.
Been seeing/dating him for a month so far, and last night, had a mini 'the talk'
and it looks like all of his efforts were just so he could take a trip to panty land....

(lol, good thing he never made it on that journey)
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I guess I am gonna have to be a pure ***** to get any man to respect me.
Nice girls do finish last....:crying3:
 
Ok, why is your brother all of a sudden so interested in us getting back together? Why is he calling me and texting me? Why is he telling me that I shouldnt let go of what we had? Something's fishy and I'm not ABOUT to get caught up in no mess.
 
So you finally called and said that the reason you havent called is because you were upset that I laughed when u said ur family had a "going to jail" party for your cousin.....ummm i guess....
 
Wow....three people I know have gotten engaged just this week. One girl is getting married to a guy who initially asked me out before her 2.5 years ago. He just stood there...staring at me like a piece of meat. She's the kind of girl who would find that sort of possessiveness endearing...I only saw it as creepy.
 
Marriage is based on mutual love, respect, an trust. Am I ready to love, respect, and trust another human being with my heart. That's something to ponder.
 
I am so over my ex boyfriend. I thought I wasn't, but I am. I just have no desire to see or deal with him. On the other hand, I got hit on by a 22 year old who I didn't know was 22 years old until today. I don't want to be picky, but that is just TOO damn young. Sorry. He's cute, but I don't babysit anymore.
 
I just had a really bad breakup...I'm trying so hard to get it off my mind and chest, but it's so hard. The last couple of days have been really unproductive because of it.
 
I do like you...alot... but i will not let myself show it to you..I have been down that road before of always going head first into a new relationship only to be left hurt in the end...this time YOU are going to be head over heels over me...and if that doesnt happen...Someone else will see the beauty in me and love me...

Tired of always giving my heart to people who dont deserve it...
 
Ugh, he makes me sick but i kinda heart him lol. He doesnt know this but as soon as he gets back from TDY he WILL be coming over to see me and i WILL tackle him and plant elevendy billion kisses all over him lol friggin jerkface.
 
I felt butterflies with this guy for the first time today. Wow

In the beginning there were not many sparks--which is a first for me. I thought he was cool and that we could have fun together as friends.

Fast-forward to about a month later and we're cuddling. We both fall asleep and I wake up feeling something that catches me by surprise. It is the spark. I've never really been into cuddling, but I like cuddling with him.

I feel like I need to back away for a bit and gain my composure. Years ago I was young and just dating for fun, but now I am in my early/mid twenties and I'm feeling things I've never felt before. I'm scared.
 
i don't want you to make my heart skip a beat , i want to you to be the one that keeps it beating... all i ask for is honesty ,loyalty , friendship and spend a little time with me just to be able to build something but if it can't be done then the foundation for it is already broken.
 
can someone explain to momma what is definition of the 20/80 rule? i know this is a random thought forum, but i just want some clarity on this....
 
ThatJerseyGirl said:
can someone explain to momma what is definition of the 20/80 rule? i know this is a random thought forum, but i just want some clarity on this....
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Paraphrased from the Why Did I Get Married movie...
In most relationships, you get 80% of what you need.
Then comes somebody who's offering the other 20%
The 20% looks good cause you ain't getting it.
Then you leave 80% for 20% :ohwell:
 
crlsweetie912 said:
Paraphrased from the Why Did I Get Married movie...
In most relationships, you get 80% of what you need.
Then comes somebody who's offering the other 20%
The 20% looks good cause you ain't getting it.
Then you leave 80% for 20% :ohwell:
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oooooooo ok....gotcha. dayum, u did dat short sweet n to da point....!!! thanks crlsweetie!!
 
Give me tips on how to avoid this man before I get sucked into eternal damnation. I'm serious because I just know something more is going to happen sometimes I want to laugh and other time I was to freaking cry because it's gotten that bad.

I told my BFF and she told me to just shake it off. I'm trying to avoid him and even turned my phone off but now I'm sitting here at work with the "somebody shot my puppy face." Why oh why did I get involved with this man.
 
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