***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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Last night with well we will call him "Beautiful Smile" was hands down the best date ever.. I loveeeeeeeeee the dating scene!
 
I think Im ready to make a friend..and build..not sex,making out,boning,anything non Godly but just clean,pure fun that leads to clean pure courtship that leads to a clean pure,proper wedding and then leads to a naughty,dirty honeymoon
 
Fallen Angel said:
I think Im ready to make a friend..and build..not sex,making out,boning,anything non Godly but just clean,pure fun that leads to clean pure courtship that leads to a clean pure,proper wedding and then leads to a naughty,dirty honeymoon
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I hear that!!!! Sounds like a plan :lachen:
 
i've been noticing this alot lately with my age group : buying you gifts all the time , always paying for dates , giving you money etc all the time is out of the equation .. DOES NOT COMPUTE!
The art of courting is dying
 
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KPH said:
when i told you i would call you back, that didn't mean to wait 45 minutes and and call me talking about "YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO CALL ME BACK, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" Mr. Harris you knew good and well I was just hanging up and had no intention of calling you back. GO AWAY AND STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Woo wee, I have a Mr Harris that is turning my head and heart all upside down too...you aren't in MI are you:look::lachen:
 
WTF.....is there ANYBODY that stands by their word anymore? I'm so dayum tired of lip service! All I hear when you talk from now on is :blah:
 
"They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would no doubt have continued with us"....1 John 2:19

If this isn't the truth....hmmm
 
You know, you're actually a good guy. I appreciate all the eating out. It's my absolute favorite thing. Dim sum was delicious yesterday. The movie was cute. You even bought bottles of wine which I know you weren't drinking for me. Thank you. It's just one thing you're missing . . .
 
KPH said:
when i told you i would call you back, that didn't mean to wait 45 minutes and and call me talking about "YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO CALL ME BACK, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" Mr. Harris you knew good and well I was just hanging up and had no intention of calling you back. GO AWAY AND STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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You are a girl after my own heart. I love reading your response so much like what I would do:grin:
 
Glad I finally let you go out of my life. It's been one month. I don't miss you. Have no urge to talk to you. I am opening my life and experiences to someone who wants something real.
 
BlackApple said:
Glad I finally let you go out of my life. It's been one month. I don't miss you. Have no urge to talk to you. I am opening my life and experiences to someone who wants something real.
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A few more prayers and a little bit more time...and I will be exactly where you are in my heart. I'm there in action.
 
So you though i was joking huh
I remember telling you like everyday that you cant expect me to act right with you if you are not planning on treating me as your equal.

Now i told you if you cant fork out the dough im not going there with you again i learned my lesson you are a mean arse man so now you have to pay like you weigh if you cant you gots to get the stepping cause its a recession aint no free position sorry

Kick rocks son im not picking up any issues right now so fall the fluck back cause if you not going to do right someone else will im only talking once this time
 
:sekret:So I go to an old FWB's facebook page and see him in a picture with my ex. Oh dayum, Nappy smashed the homie.:sad:

Note to self: Check facebook pages first even if it's only physical:ohwell:
 
I guess I knew we would end up like this but OH Gawd, why does it hurt so bad? I am such a wuss too, crying out of nowhere WTH? I need somebody to hold my hand (it was usually him but now its because of him)....when did I turn into a mushball like this?
 
Page says he's missing his "boo bear," I wonder who that is:ohwell:

Hopefully he's referring to a family member or his dog :look:
 
i wish i could just get over you and move on with my life already but obviously its not that easy...the hardest thing is knowing you truly love someone that is not good for you and has hurt you on numerous occasions and you have to put in work to actually get over hem. it makes you feel sooo stupid at times. i cant wait till this is all over....and i am back to my single self. i will keep praying abt it!!
 
This emotional rollercoaster is sooooo wack...One day its all happy joy joy and the next its really dull..I have Mary J "Be Happy" on repeat..that's all I want.. I am oh so tired of being ALONE!
 
On another note, earlier today I heard this TWICE which was odd... "Good things come to those who wait". I have some hope.
 
i'm going back to this journey of truly knowing myself.. hopefully if you catch up on the way we can go from there but right now everything is taking a back seat ..its all about me ,my wants & my needs .
 
You tell and show that you love me. But I cant help but wonder is it too late? I know people make mistakes and should be forgiven but im not sure if im willing to forgive completely. :ohwell:
 
Starting to feel a little bad that my SO knows that I know, that he's going to propose soon. Starting to rethink telling him the kind of ring I want, rather than getting a surprise. But I only feel bad because I'm thinking of his feelings, because I know it will be something I like.

I really really hope he doesn't let it get to him, and that he sees that everybody does things differently.
 
Ughh this feeling of the Unknown sucks! I don't know what I have done. I just wish I could just feel better.

On another note, just because I apologized does not mean I want to talk to u. I'm still not attracted.
 
Dayum Dayum, Dayum....He'll be here on Monday. I'm not ready for this challenge.

I'm stronger than I think, I'm stronger than I think, I'm stronger than I think, I'm stronger than I think, I'm stronger than I think, I'm stronger than I think....
 
Where did you come from? What kind of person would I be if I chose security over...***oh sigh***I know FH loves me and he does show me everyday...so why am I still allowing myself to be open to the past? Do I go with the man that presents these romantic notions of love knowing that our life together will either be a continuous struggle except that if we are to have anything it'll be up to me to provide the bulk of it? Or do I go with the man that can provide financial security and stability even if he has been occasionally emotionally detached from me in the past...focused on his career and etc.? Am I a bad person for wanting a nice house and trips/vacations and shopping and really nice dinners out not to mention private schools for the kids and the ability to provide them with everything they need and a lot of what they want?

I had a conversation with my mother few months ago. She said that she chose love over money...and now the love is pretty much gone. So, now, there's no love AND no money. :perplexed

Respected family friend told me that the "hot and bothered" only lasts for so long. That there were other men that she had loved more than her current husband but HE was the one that could give her they kind of lifestyle she wanted to live. She loves him, of course, but it is what it is.

Strange, I believe that both men love me very much...and even stranger that I love both of them and can see myself married to each one... :perplexed

What is wrong with me? This isn't normal.
 
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