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Is it really that hard for you to believe that I am over you and don't want ANYTHING to do with you anymore? I don't want you! No I don't have a new man, no I'm not playing games, no I'm mad at you and trying to hold out. I just don't want you dude. Keep it moving please!
 
why is it that some of the hottest and sexiest , amazing coloring having relationships end up being the most toxic?
 
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Wow.....someone else you "dated"......oh yeah...you were still dating her when we first started dating.....wow......and you wanted to marry her too.....happy valentines day to me.....
 
Brittster said:
Can't you still do something small w/o bridesmaids and a party? Is that tacky? I really want a small wedding w/ maybe at best a maid of honor and that's it. Weddings are really expensive, and quite frankly, I really don't want the hassle of organizing one at all. Maybe you could do something really small?
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We're thinking just close family. I don't think I would do maid of honor if e do JOP. My MOH will be 8 months pregnant when I'm getting married :(
jerseygurl said:
First of all CONGRATULATIONS Luna :dance7:and welcome to the club:grin:. If you're having second thoughts about the ceremony, you can still have a maid of honor/witness at the JOP. Then have a big bash later. Keep us posted.
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Thank You :grin:

gabulldawg said:
This is what I'm worried about. I don't want to regret not doing a big wedding. :ohwell: I'm wondering if you already did the JOP ceremony maybe you can do a big wedding on your 1 year anniversary?? That's what I'm thinking of doing if we decide to get married sooner than later. :yep:
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We may end up having the bash a year later.
 
I wish he hadn't called this morning, I wouldn't have answered the phone, but since my mom did and passed me the phone I figured it was someone I wanted to hear from. :nono: I asked him not to contact me again and I hope that he won't. I think he doesn't want me to get all the way over him, but I will. :yep:
 
The IM from the Februrary 12th: "Happy Birthday, Merry Chirstmas, Happy New Year and Happy Valentines Day" lol....is he serious? I need to delete that yahoo account. I've had it since '98.
 
Well, I spent another Valentine's Day as a single woman but I felt so satisfied. I can only give God credit for that.

And I hope everyone else had a good one.
 
This whole thing is really testing my faith...why do people have to lie so much. But I have to be greatful to God for showing me this....I could have been married to a sociopath..........
 
Yesterday was sooooooo much fun! You really do spoil me. It's a shame. But I love it!!! It feels SO good to be treated the way I deserve to be treated! It's almost unreal! If the past few months are any indication of how our future will be, I know we are going to have a wonderful life together. I can't wait to be your wife! :love:
 
he told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. i can't imagine a future without him. i'm head over heels in love.

& this time last year, i never would have seen it coming!

single ladies: don't be discouraged. your knight in shining armor is coming. all the bad seeds are nothing but preparation for the right one.
 
Aw, boo, you are such a bad dresser sometimes you make me look stylish. :lol: bulky old jacket, baggy jeans, and timberlands are not appropriate for every occasion. Totally not appropriate for a V-Day dinner. If we're still together in the near future after I start working, I'm going to gift you with a pair of dockers and a fitted jacket.
 
I am so lucky...He gave me the biggest bouquet of yellow, white and red roses.
AND he sent my mother a huge fruit basket for V-day.
Ah...I am in heaven :cloud9:
 
Why am I always conflicted in my relationships with others platonic or not!! It sucks to question all of your relationships and witness the relationships and friendships others have and question why don't I have that!
 
Ugh, I talked all that ish to my girl on the phone about being done with this dude.

Then I ran into him later that night at the bar and all that talk went out the window. Even got him to take me home instead of the person I came with. And after he kissed me, it was really a wrap. I haven't been able to stop thinking about him since.
 
I see you are starting to make little steps. They really are duly noted. I see your effort in the most smallest of things, and I want you to know that I notice and appreciate it :kiss:
 
Yesterday was my first Valentine's Day in six years in which I've been alone. :( Church was comforting, but I still felt a little empty.
 
I broke up with the my boyfriend the day before Valentines Day. I truely felt bad but it was time for it to come to an end and it didn't make sense to fake it thru Vday just to end it the day after. I'm looking forward to being single for a lil bit. Now I can focus more on working out and getting my life in order. :)
 
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It gets worse and worse. And you keep texting me talking about you don't want to lose your "friend" WTF....Friends don't LIE to each other, cheat, steal and stomp on each other's feelings. You can't even admit what you did. Why the fluck would I want to be your friend.....You are now dead to me....
 
crlsweetie912 said:
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It gets worse and worse. And you keep texting me talking about you don't want to lose your "friend" WTF....Friends don't LIE to each other, cheat, steal and stomp on each other's feelings. You can't even admit what you did. Why the fluck would I want to be your friend.....You are now dead to me....
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Un friggin' real...

How did this all come out...did he eventually tell you or did someone else have to?
Again...I'm so sorry you are going through this. You already know that I know how you feel.
 
Angel_Face said:
Un friggin' real...

How did this all come out...did he eventually tell you or did someone else have to?
Again...I'm so sorry you are going through this. You already know that I know how your feel.
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I know the girl...another one at our church...he seems to be a serial azzhole....SMDH. I see this girl every week. She knew we were friends but didn't know when we started dating. She works with the singles ministry so her and I started talking and she invited me to go out Saturday to dinner and a movie. She asked me about my last relationships and I told her a few things, never even mentioned his name. She says dang, that sounds a lot like the last guy I dated....It all came out. He still denies EVERYTHING. It didn't go as deep as our relationship, but he still lied cause he was still seeing her when he and I started dating.... I feel sick......:wallbash:
EVERYTHING he said to me he said to her, just all lies.....a string of lies.....
 
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