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Do I like him? Okay, I know I like him but do I like him enough for this to go somewhere? We can talk for hours...I hate talking...and when I get silent, he brings up another topic so we can start talking again. He looks at me like there's no one else around. But...does he feel the same way? And he smells sooo good. If he did, would we be able to be together? *sick feeling* Ugh, no. I wouldn't trust him.
 
Oh so u thought the call and then hang up trick would work....dude leave me alone...such a waste of my 2010 time...ughhhh
 
Tough couple of days...but still pulling through. Thank goodness I'm continuing to become clear as to why he was NOT good for me. I've NEVER met a person who thinks that if they didn't actualy intend to hurt your feelings, then your feelings can't possibly be hurt or they think you're being "unreasonable" or "weird" for having hurt feelings. Wow...
 
i am feeling like trash today. is this the end of our story or is this just another bump in our road?? still holding on to faith in God that he knows what best for me, and in the end whats meant to be will be. But I wish I can just just skip past the terrible feelings and get to my happy ending
 
So thankful for all of the 'real' advice from some LHCF'ers. Yes, some ladies do throw unnecessary stones. But there are some jewels out there, too. May be hard to swallow but a lot of us have BEEN THERE and don't want you to have to be there too. :huggle:
 
i rejected him so bad he said he dont even want the c00ch no more. i didnt want to hurt his feelings but he was thinking i was playing hard to get.

i guess he'll take me seriously now because i'm not one of his "fans". the fact that he has successfully distributed his penis all across winston salem like the swine flu was a way bigger turn off than having 2 baby mama's.

he's not a bad guy & i trust him 100% as a friend but i find it slightly impossible to trust a "retired ho" to be 100% faithful to me & nobody else.

in further news...casual sex is so overrated to me.
friends with benefits aint what it used to be.
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He sent me flowers...for Valentine's Day :look:

Why is it when your pleas fall on deaf ears and you back away from a man, they come back running and start acting correct?

This is the first romantic thing he has done and we aren't even together anymore.

What does he want from me? :wallbash:
 
Ummm how are you going to be upset with me cause I set high standards for myself and that's what I'm looking for in a mate? Dude keep it moving. :spinning:
 
I'm I going to regret not having a traditional wedding ceremony. You know, the one with bridemaids and a big party and cake. I've always thought the JOP is the way to go but now I don't know :nono:
 
LunadeMiel said:
I'm I going to regret not having a traditional wedding ceremony. You know, the one with bridemaids and a big party and cake. I've always thought the JOP is the way to go but now I don't know :nono:
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Can't you still do something small w/o bridesmaids and a party? Is that tacky? I really want a small wedding w/ maybe at best a maid of honor and that's it. Weddings are really expensive, and quite frankly, I really don't want the hassle of organizing one at all. Maybe you could do something really small?
 
LunadeMiel said:
I'm I going to regret not having a traditional wedding ceremony. You know, the one with bridemaids and a big party and cake. I've always thought the JOP is the way to go but now I don't know :nono:
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First of all CONGRATULATIONS Luna :dance7:and welcome to the club:grin:. If you're having second thoughts about the ceremony, you can still have a maid of honor/witness at the JOP. Then have a big bash later. Keep us posted.
 
My First EVER Anniversary!!

He got me a camera...so that I might accurately document my natural hair journey.


That and he got tired of me using his Iphone:perplexed
 
Rastafarai said:
He sent me flowers...for Valentine's Day :look:

Why is it when your pleas fall on deaf ears and you back away from a man, they come back running and start acting correct?

This is the first romantic thing he has done and we aren't even together anymore.

What does he want from me? :wallbash:
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Aww how sweet :grin:

What kind of flowers are they? I would love to get some tulips on V-day. I love tulips.
 
LunadeMiel said:
I'm I going to regret not having a traditional wedding ceremony. You know, the one with bridemaids and a big party and cake. I've always thought the JOP is the way to go but now I don't know :nono:
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This is what I'm worried about. I don't want to regret not doing a big wedding. :ohwell: I'm wondering if you already did the JOP ceremony maybe you can do a big wedding on your 1 year anniversary?? That's what I'm thinking of doing if we decide to get married sooner than later. :yep:
 
How are you going to get mad because I accepted a Valentines Date and intend to keep it? a) the guy made reservations b) You told me you was going to be out of town and I havent heard from you in a week c) We're not in a relationship!

I keep it straght no chaser and dont play with anyone's feelings. I've been telling you the same thing for the past 3-4 months, stop acting brand new. I never wanted to hurt your feelings but you seem to be far more emotional than me so I guess it was bound to happen.
 
you mess up BAD, and I roll out for four months. i mess up, now you need sometime to get over it. i will give your space, but if you dont come to your senses soon idk if i will still be around when you are ready.
 
jerseygurl said:
First of all CONGRATULATIONS Luna :dance7:and welcome to the club:grin:. If you're having second thoughts about the ceremony, you can still have a maid of honor/witness at the JOP. Then have a big bash later. Keep us posted.
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This is def something I would look into. I'd like to celebrate w/ my loved ones.
 
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