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After last night....I dont know...we just dont have chemistry...and u leaving for 2 months put a damper on the little that we had...smdh
 
don't you hate it when somebody look ok in their profile pic but they get on their webcam and its like :look:

and they try to turn the convo sexual :ohwell:
 
Okay, so my iTunes was on shuffle and Martha Munizzi's "Glorious" came on after Ne-Yo's "say it" ...do we stop, and change, or keep going..
 
Ok after your call Saturday night. I'm starting to believe you may have a mental illness. Your crying couldnt be more fake...I had no sympathy for you. Hearing your voice crack as you talked to me was quite amusing. And believe me I was surprised at my own reaction because I do still have feelings for you. But God has answered my prayers and has shown me who and what you truly are. At this point, you seem to have no ability to right your wrongs. I feel sorry for that woman because she in essence is stuck with your trife life behind. I, my friend am the most fortunate one in this situation and I thank God for that. I dont know how much help there is for sociopaths...but I do know that they have to want the help. Good luck my friend...but your luck has finally run out with me.

Felt good to finally get that out. I am officially done with this subject, lol.
 
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Angel_Face said:
Ok after your call Saturday night. I'm starting to believe you may have a mental illness. Your crying couldnt be more fake...I had no sympathy for you. Hearing your voice crack as you talked to me was quite amusing. And believe me I was surprised at my own reaction because I do still have feelings for you. But God has answered my prayers and has shown me who and what you truly are. At this point, you seem to have no ability to right your wrongs. I feel sorry for that woman because she in essence is stuck with your trife life behind. I, my friend am the most fortunate one in this situation and I thank God for that. I dont know how much help there is for sociopaths...but I do know that they have to want the help. Good luck my friend...but your luck has finally ran out with me.

Felt good to finally get that out. I am officially done with this subject, lol.
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Angel Face,

I can honestly feel your strength in this post!! You are most DEFINITELY going to be alright!

(((hugs))))

:)
 
dang, I forgave you through all the BS, the cheating in the lies:wallbash:. so we agree after a four months of not speaking we will work on it. i go to see guy X who was the picture while you were gone to break things off because i am building with you. i lie to you because i know you reaction was not going to be good and you would not believe me story. lie falls apart. i tell the truth. and apologize for the lie. BUT WE ARE NOT IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. you tell me you no longer want to try to work on things because you cant trust me. after i forgave you for all the things that you did and said to me and now you cant forgive me for something that was soo minor. you dont love me, you dont know what love is. your loss. dont come back this time. if you leave, dont bother to call me again. this ship has sailed.
 
On another note, this year on Valentine's Day, for the first time in over 10 years, I will be Valentineless.
My daughter overheard me saying this to a friend. When I got off the phone she said, "Mommy, I'll be your Valentine." It brought tears to my eyes.
 
This year, I think I'll buy myself some chocolates for Valentine's Day :lick:

that's the only thing that holiday is good for :ohwell:
 
Kimberly said:
I need a few opinions but I don't want to start a thread :look:

FH and I were looking at an amatuer porn site the other night. He clicks on a post and when the girls pictures loaded he was like "uh-uh" :nono: "no" "uh-uh"

I was like "what is it? what's the matter?"

"that girl knows she is too big to be posting pics like that" and he quickly closed to go on to the next one.

My issue is...to me...that chick and I pretty much have the same build :perplexed I felt so uncomfortable after that I slept with my clothes on, didn't want him to see me naked, was trying to cover myself when we took a shower (we always shower together).

He asked what was wrong and I told him...he says "no, you are no where near that big" "I love you" "I don't think you're overweight" "I've never said that you needed to lose weight" "you are beautiful and sexy"

Did I over-react? I asked him what he would think if I had reacted that way to a picture of someone his "size" and he agreed that he probably would have reacted similarly... :ohwell:
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you & that chick may be the exact same size/weight/height/etc, but when a man loves you and sees you thru those "loving" eyes it's completely different hence the bolded... i agree with the advice that hopeful gave
 
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i'm stuck with him because i swore that i would never cut him off & i would always be his friend.
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since when is he more important than you... also, you can be his friend from a distance... a long, long distance (if you still choose to)
 
A motorcycle? Really? Are you trying to make me a widow before we even make it down the aisle? I know I could have said "no" but I'm not your mother and you are not about to spend the rest of our life together blaming me for not letting you have this thing you've always wanted. It's your money, you work hard, you take care of me and my three kids...so who would I be to tell you no? Just please be careful...at least until I have all of the life insurance in place...
 
Do all things that are meant to be really come around again?

Who's to say that tomorrow will be there?
 
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he tells me he's fallen in love with me but instead of saying he can see me being his wife, bestfriend & soulmate etc...he says he can see me being his 3rd baby mama.

negro is you serious?
where they do that at?
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lmao!!! :lachen::lachen:
 
*Sigh* Tonight, for some reason, is a really rough night. I miss him and can't stop thinking of all the things that went wrong...even though I know there's probably not much I could've done differently.
 
SO is so not romantic...hell, he's barely complimentary.

This will be the first Valentine's Day. I have a feeling he's not going to acknowledge the holiday, not even to amuse me.

I'm not a V-Day fan, but I'd rather him attempt to do something

Even former SO said he should make some effort...

I'm debating on whether I should bring up Sunday to see if he plans on doing anything...
 
Valentine's day can cause un necessary problems in relationships w/o communication. Make sure to communicate. DOn't expect him to do everything you think he should do..he might have ZERO idea of your expectations.

Now, I have voiced my desires. Gave options...said you pick. He said he would handle all the arrangements. Now I will sit back and see what happens. One thing for sure..I will be going out on Vday w/ or w/o you. lol. No last minute plans Boo.

Major things happening lately. Usually when I think of my wedding I just think of how fabulous I will look and just getting through a serious formality. Something SPIRITUAL for sure...but I never had any emotion behind it...

I just had a day dream and it was me in the white dress hair pinned up turning the corner and coming down the isle and I saw my husband..and I was just CRYING boo whooing. And I'm not a crier...:nono: But, it was very emotional. I felt it...Like whoaaa...could this man be the one? I also saw me in the hospital w/ him and our baby. I AM SO NOT THE ONE FOR CHIL'REN! :nono:

My friends are shocked I'm even talking to this about a man and my relationship. I keep everything close to the vest. WOW! I'm shocked too.
 
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