***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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Xavier said:
Man when you click with someone it is an amazing feeling.

I posted about some guy a few months back and he seemed so perfect but ended up being a loser. I was so disappointed with my sad dating situation. I haven't had a SO in like 5 years.

Well wouldn't you know that I reconnected with an old friend from highschool(he contacted me on facebook) and we have been hitting it off. We are both so into each other. It feels so natural and easy with him. I am so excited about where things are going.
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Dont you hate that? lol...

Glad everything is working out...
 
My mommy is sooooo awesome. She's is picking up the tab for the entire reception. I'm also pretty sure she will pick up some others things too :yay:

People keep asking me if it's not too soon for FH and I to marry. We've been together "officially" for 6 months. By the time we are married we will have been dating for 10 months :giggle: They thought I was joking when I said I would not be someone's girlfriend for more than 1 year :lol: I gots deadlines and the clock is ticking....
 
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Interesting timing, but this random thought has nothing to do with the post above. xD (Congrats by the way!)

I've noticed 5 years is my "safe number" when it comes to marriage/kids. I used to always tell people that it wouldn't seriously enter my mind until 5 years from now, because that's when I'd be seriously ready for those things.. well that was two years ago :look: and if I ever think of saying, "Well, in 3/4 years..." I freak out and just go, "Yeah, uh... in 5 years..."

Not that I don't want them, I know I do, just 3/4 years seems too little time.
 
LunadeMiel said:
My mommy is sooooo awesome. She's is picking up the tab for the entire reception. I'm also pretty sure she will pick up some others things too :yay:

People keep asking me if it's not too soon for FH and I to marry. We've been together "officially" for 6 months. By the time we are married we will have been dating for 10 months :giggle: They thought I was joking when I said I would not be someone's girlfriend for more than 1 year :lol: I gots deadlines and the clock is ticking....
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Congrats on your wedding !
To the bolded... I hear that !
 
LunadeMiel said:
My mommy is sooooo awesome. She's is picking up the tab for the entire reception. I'm also pretty sure she will pick up some others things too :yay:

People keep asking me if it's not too soon for FH and I to marry. We've been together "officially" for 6 months. By the time we are married we will have been dating for 10 months :giggle: They thought I was joking when I said I would not be someone's girlfriend for more than 1 year :lol: I gots deadlines and the clock is ticking....
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Congrats. Good for you.

Other people should set a daedline also.

My brothers GF has been waiting 10 years. SMH!
 
Sometimes I love him so much, I just feel....FULL. My heart literally just feels full.
It scares me.
 
i feel bad judging him like that just because he has 2 baby mamas. i was engaged to a man who was a single parent of a handsome little boy & i loved them both so much.

he was just so boring tho
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Why do people say you're spoiled if you want things your way??? I mean who doesn't want things their way??? :spinning:
 
Xavier said:
HLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks! I didn't even know that was you. Hope things are getting better for you beautiful.:hug3:
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LOL, yeah it's me. I have my moments but for the most part, I'm just putting one foot in front of the other and expecting great things to happen in my (relationship/love) life.
 
luving me said:
Why do people say you're spoiled if you want things your way??? I mean who doesn't want things their way??? :spinning:
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I say the same thing. People will tell me "Freelove, you always want things to go your way!"

I mean.... who doesn't? :look:

I've been trying to be a less rigid about things tho
 
Mr. Harris (vm for me) KPH, please call me at home (sounding like he's been shot and left for dead in an alley)
me calling "Hey, what's up?"
Mr. Harris (in a teary voice ) I'm soooooooooooo sick. I've been throwing up, i'm so sick KPH, I need you.
me "drink some ginger ale. I will call you back later"

LOLOLOL
 
I don't get it.. When I want to hold a conversation with you that involves us, that could possibly fix our issues, better our communication with each other, gain a general understanding of our differences which could possibly resolve a lot of the conflict we have with one another ,and strengthing our friendship...all I get is an "ok"..REALLY DUDE... but let me say I dont want to deal with you and all of a sudden you have a lot to say.. you simple !@#$%
 
I decided never to answer the phone 4 my x again. I tried to be cordial and maintain a relationship, but I can't. Every time we speak...he tries 2 sell me the idea of "getting back together" and it opens up old wounds...n pours salt in them.

I really did want 2 keep in contact w/him, but I can't....while I dont want him...its difficult 4 me 2 move on with these "Hey, how u doing?" phone calls/text...I just can't...

he has hurt me so many times...on so many levels...a real friendship may not be possible....maybe in a year or so we'll be able 2 speak....
 
Tired of everything. I'm tired mentally, physically, emotional. I've seen so much crap that I'm beaten down and I'm losing hope. I'm 32, single, no propects and still attempting to get my career back, and I want to get an MBA. yet I feel like I will not have time cause I'm too old and by now I should be married, stable with kids and its not the case. Just tired. Mom gave me a deadline on new years. She said Diva....this year is the last year. In other word, I'm on a deadline to get married and I'm also passed my expiry date.
 
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