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How could you possibly be my husband when you decide to go out and get the one tattoo that I despise the most? After I already told you how I feel about those type of tattoo's...you still went out and got it?

Is this showing that you are the man you do as you please? Do I not treat you like you are the head? Do I not submit? Do I not let you wear the pants?

Of course I do. But, I am your helper...I am a provider of wise counsel(sp). You look like a complete and utter IDIOT.

With a huge cross on your back. :nono:

I wouldn't have even held it against you if you got something stupid like a name....or some stupid saying. But, a CROSS? I despise tattoo's of crosses AND YOU KNOW THIS..

And the way you break the news is by sending me a TEXT MESSAGE? W/ a pic of your STUPID tattoo?

Are you kidding me? ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

It's more difficult then ever for me to see how you could possibly be my husband. You already had 2 strikes against you...and now you go off and do something that I am so vehemently against.

Crosses on your body dont't show your level of committment to God. YOUR LIFESTYLE BOO...IT'S YOUR LIFESTYLE.

Pray my strength in the Lord, because I have no idea what I'm going to say or how I am going to react when this man calls me. :nono:

All I could say via text was... "Mr. (Last Name)....Lord Jesus..What are you doing?.....smh."
 
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Mr. High School Crush. The moment I stopped calling and responding to your text. You come a running. You ain't all that, your short, you have a limp, your broke, you have baby momma drama and you like to lie about your age (he's 35; but telling everyone he's 28). Plus, you told me you sleep with hookers/strippers!! EWWWWW

So why would I give you the time of day?
 
we went on our first date....the sexual tension and chemisty off the meter...he ask to see me again.....why did he cancel because he has to get his daughter on an off weekened....dating men with children and you don't have any is ...I won't say hard but I am so ready to see him again! like yesterday!
 
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Mr. High School Crush. The moment I stopped calling and responding to your text. You come a running. You ain't all that, your short, you have a limp, your broke, you have baby momma drama and you like to lie about your age (he's 35; but telling everyone he's 28). Plus, you told me you sleep with hookers/strippers!! EWWWWW

So why would I give you the time of day?
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:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
it doesn't matter what age a man is, they are all a trip. i've been striking out a lot but that wont stop me from keeping my heart open, i 'll never know when Mr. Right will decide to waltz into my life but i wanna be ready when he does.
 
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Mr. High School Crush. The moment I stopped calling and responding to your text. You come a running. You ain't all that, your short, you have a limp, your broke, you have baby momma drama and you like to lie about your age (he's 35; but telling everyone he's 28). Plus, you told me you sleep with hookers/strippers!! EWWWWW

So why would I give you the time of day?
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Dudes kill me...they have too much power man...too much. Any woman with equally damaging criteria would NEVER be so confident to come running after nobody. NEVER.
 
oh I love him...50 minutes before he gets off work...I've been patiently waiting all day...I think I'll do the 30-day Shred and take a shower so I can be ready when he comes through the door...
 
okay John Legend look-a-like after I stopped talking to you and months have gone by to randomly start texting me again and then ask me if I'm still with my b/f? So I say why and you reply "oh no reason" BULL SH!T NINJA! Ugh. I don't care if ur cute and going to school for a very lucrative career....ur still a douche. I just cant be one of those chicks that put looks b4 personality. We had nothing but a few things in common & sexual tension. Sorry but your not worth it. My b/f is the greatest and your not even in the same galaxy as him.


On that note...why is my SO so romantic and why is it so hard for me to just take it and not be so damn skeptical. Ugh my ex ruined me I swear, ole scheming a$$ ninja.
 
I love it when a man considers your feelings and SHOWS you that he cares and loves you. Love is action and I am seeing him work :cloud9:
 
he tells me he's fallen in love with me but instead of saying he can see me being his wife, bestfriend & soulmate etc...he says he can see me being his 3rd baby mama.

negro is you serious?
where they do that at?
:ohwell:
 
That's some of the craziest stuff I have ever heard. Girl you need to get away from him as quickly as possible :driver:

newports said:
he tells me he's fallen in love with me but instead of saying he can see me being his wife, bestfriend & soulmate etc...he says he can see me being his 3rd baby mama.

negro is you serious?
where they do that at?
:ohwell:
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:nono:
i shouldve ran months ago but i'm stuck with him because i swore that i would never cut him off & i would always be his friend.
:rolleyes:

this dude is like the human form of temptation. he's one of those pretty boys who think they are gods gift to women & spreading his seed is a blessing. i'm trying to live a more spiritually enlightened lifestyle & ol boy is trying his best to break me down.

lord why do i have to be so nice?
pray for me yall cuz this dude is a trip.
:wallbash:
 
newports said:
:nono:
i shouldve ran months ago but i'm stuck with him because i swore that i would never cut him off & i would always be his friend.
:rolleyes:

this dude is like the human form of temptation. he's one of those pretty boys who think they are gods gift to women & spreading his seed is a blessing. i'm trying to live a more spiritually enlightened lifestyle & ol boy is trying his best to break me down.

lord why do i have to be so nice?
pray for me yall cuz this dude is a trip.
:wallbash:
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Girl the DEVIL is a lie cool that dude down with some ice water
 
newports said:
:nono:
i shouldve ran months ago but i'm stuck with him because i swore that i would never cut him off & i would always be his friend.
:rolleyes:

this dude is like the human form of temptation. he's one of those pretty boys who think they are gods gift to women & spreading his seed is a blessing. i'm trying to live a more spiritually enlightened lifestyle & ol boy is trying his best to break me down.

lord why do i have to be so nice?
pray for me yall cuz this dude is a trip.
:wallbash:
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Let him go!
 
Angel_Face said:
What's with these dudes in North Carolina?
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lmaoooo girl nc dudes is on some straight up nonsense. i thought it was a local thing in my area but boy was i wrong. its like every other guy i run into has atleast 2 baby mamas then they look at me weird when i say i dont have kids but on the other hand i look at the girls fightin over the title of "#1 baby mama" so its not all their fault.

kinda makes me want to go to a sperm donor & skip all the drama
:rolleyes:
 
newports said:
:nono:
i shouldve ran months ago but i'm stuck with him because i swore that i would never cut him off & i would always be his friend.
:rolleyes:

this dude is like the human form of temptation. he's one of those pretty boys who think they are gods gift to women & spreading his seed is a blessing. i'm trying to live a more spiritually enlightened lifestyle & ol boy is trying his best to break me down.

lord why do i have to be so nice?
pray for me yall cuz this dude is a trip.
:wallbash:
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I would never tell anyone this. What if he completely acts a fool? Please don't make this promise to anyone else. But maybe you were just joking? Anyway, I would not be bothered with any man who talks about me being his babymama, I am serious girlfriend/ fiancée/ wife material, period, and so are you.
 
I need a few opinions but I don't want to start a thread :look:

FH and I were looking at an amatuer porn site the other night. He clicks on a post and when the girls pictures loaded he was like "uh-uh" :nono: "no" "uh-uh"

I was like "what is it? what's the matter?"

"that girl knows she is too big to be posting pics like that" and he quickly closed to go on to the next one.

My issue is...to me...that chick and I pretty much have the same build :perplexed I felt so uncomfortable after that I slept with my clothes on, didn't want him to see me naked, was trying to cover myself when we took a shower (we always shower together).

He asked what was wrong and I told him...he says "no, you are no where near that big" "I love you" "I don't think you're overweight" "I've never said that you needed to lose weight" "you are beautiful and sexy"

Did I over-react? I asked him what he would think if I had reacted that way to a picture of someone his "size" and he agreed that he probably would have reacted similarly... :ohwell:
 
^^^I don't think he meant anything by that. I probably would have reacted the same way you did but I can tell from what he said about it that he loves you and your body and that's all that matters. Take your clothes off tonight and continue to take your showers together, enjoy being loved, you are blessed.
 
hopeful said:
^^^I don't think he meant anything by that. I probably would have reacted the same way you did but I can tell from what he said about it that he loves you and your body and that's all that matters. Take your clothes off tonight and continue to take your showers together, enjoy being loved, you are blessed.
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Thanks :hugs: I was wondering if I was just really tripping or what...especially when he looked so hurt...we'll be alright tonight :wink2:
 
i hate playing the what do you want for dinner game. Now he just said he cant cook steak sandwiches, how easy is that??
 
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