***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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My SO...WOW...he's amazing and such a loving and caring man. I thank God for him. Heck, I thank God for everything because He's so awesome and I am so unworthy. Lord, bless my SO to have the opportunity to move home to be with family and friends. I look forward to that day and I am hopeful for that day.
 
Communication is imperative ...
It's good to hear you speak on how you feel about things sometimes. Now I wish you'd be so forthcoming when you are sober :perplexed :lachen:
 
That no good for nothing jacka$$ stood me up. 300 Friday nights will pass before I ever speak to him again. Lesson learned: If something is not sitting well with you and a potential love interest listen to it because you could save yourself a lot of embarrassment and shame.
 
What really pisses me off is when guys take four hours or more
to reply back.
And its usually with a: LOL or OK
WTF?
It's not worth it. *Deletes #*.
 
I had to reset my phone in order to get that idiot's number out of it. Jesus keep that fool away from me. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever date men that you work with you. Because if they stand you up you have to face them on Monday.
 
I'm snowed in all by my lonesome when I could be chilling, cuddled up w/ my Man...so much for trying to teach him a lesson :/
 
Went out last night with a guy I've been chatting with for a while. It's clear we'll just be on a cool, friendship type level. Nice guy, but definitely won't be any future there. I just don't think we clicked at all. Too bad because he's so cute. Oh well, on to the next one!
 
Every time I say I'm through with the dating thing someone of interest pops up and it ends up not working out! I'm caught in a vicious cycle that I wish would end ASAP!!
 
I wish I had a potential SOMEBODY to date.

I wish my friends will find a man so they will stop taking up so much of my time.

I wish I lived in a state that was a little more "livelier".
 
After standing me up on Friday, that fool had the audacity to send me a text message stating that he was sleep. Well hecks, you slept all day Saturday and well into Sunday. Sleep on. I'm through.
 
I broke up with him 2 weeks today.. After 5+ years in a relationship..We parted ways cordially.. no yelling, no 'hard feelings'.. But WHY do I not feel like I'm missing anything?
 
LOL, C, for reals??? Ok but remember this is what you asked for. I can't stand fake arse wanna be grown men who are actually lil boys. I wish he would grow the heck up.
 
I bet 99% of the ignorant negros were bred on an alien planet (Planet Ignor) and shipped here to earth to make it hard on good women to connect with good men :wallbash:. They are counterfeit / phoney:yep:. Not the real thing:nono:. Oh, they talk a good game and strut the right stuff. Just get to know their true character and guess what you realize that you are connected with something...:whois: He is that ignorant alien negro.
 
moonglowdiva said:
I bet 99% of the ignorant negros were bred on an alien planet (Planet Ignor) and shipped here to earth to make it hard on good women to connect with good men :wallbash:. They are counterfeit / phoney:yep:. Not the real thing:nono:. Oh, they talk a good game and strut the right stuff. Just get to know their true character and guess what you realize that you are connected with something...:whois: He is that ignorant alien negro.
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:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:
 
I've lost the use of my heart.....but I'm....still alive.

This song plays over and over and over in my head these days...I hate it now but I cant...stop it from looping in my mind. *sigh*

Wild, wild west....doin' my best....
 
HoneyLemonDrop said:
Aww, dont feel bad, I'm doing ok, actually. I was just sorta being silly...

Hope you're feeling a little better these days.
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I just meant that I feel bad that ANYONE has to go through the stuff we went through. I've been left pregnant by exes, cheated on, lied to...but this is the worst experience of my life. If it weren't for my children, I would probably be curled up in a fetal position somewhere. God is a keeper though! Every day get's a little better. Sometimes I take a few steps backward trying to figure out what happened, but.....:nono: I'm just trying to take things day by day.
 
crlsweetie912 said:
I just meant that I feel bad that ANYONE has to go through the stuff we went through. I've been left pregnant by exes, cheated on, lied to...but this is the worst experience of my life. If it weren't for my children, I would probably be curled up in a fetal position somewhere. God is a keeper though! Every day get's a little better. Sometimes I take a few steps backward trying to figure out what happened, but.....:nono: I'm just trying to take things day by day.
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I definitely can relate to taking a few steps back. The situation seems so surreal at times. But we cannot even begin to try to figure other human beings out. They do what they do and we sometimes get caught up in their mess. Everytime I find myself in a "wth" moment, I give it up to God...cus girl I cannot handle all my thoughts.

I will keep you in my prayers.
 
I really don't know what to say about this foolish man anymore. I'm so tired of hearing him pretend to sound pitiful on the phone and leave pitiful voice messages and send pitiful emails. I'm about ready to take my earrings off, come out the porch and straight curse him off but I believe that won't make a bit of difference, why because I've done this to another and he still CALLS and it's been almost 10 years since I acted a fool on him. Mr. Harris sings this i'm so confident song whenever his pitiful cries don't work. He's really starting to PISS ME OFF now.

He thought that everything would fall back into place after his last stunt and I may be at fault for not sounding ANGRY/HURT on the phone when I ended things which makes him believe he still has a chance. I figured stepping away like an adult would be alright but now i see i got to go 43rd on his butt.
 
KPH said:
I really don't know what to say about this foolish man anymore. I'm so tired of hearing him pretend to sound pitiful on the phone and leave pitiful voice messages and send pitiful emails. I'm about ready to take my earrings off, come out the porch and straight curse him off but I believe that won't make a bit of difference, why because I've done this to another and he still CALLS and it's been almost 10 years since I acted a fool on him. Mr. Harris sings this i'm so confident song whenever his pitiful cries don't work. He's really starting to PISS ME OFF now.

He thought that everything would fall back into place after his last stunt and I may be at fault for not sounding ANGRY/HURT on the phone when I ended things which makes him believe he still has a chance. I figured stepping away like an adult would be alright but now i see i got to go 43rd on his butt.
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Dang this dude is going hard over you...lol

Loving the way youre standing your ground though.
 
This guy has completely rearranged my thinking on love. Wow. He's what I've always wanted in a man & more. I've never felt so loved. I sometimes wonder if we fell too fast but this just feels right. At this point in my life, I've been around so many bad men that I'm surprised that such a good one exists. I'm not letting him go. Skip these insecurities & the baggage has been left behind. I'm going to love this man. Point blank. I've found some husband material.
 
why is that when your almost over a guy that's when he decides to pop up and you allow it because your bored and horny :ohwell::look:
 
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