I looove retail therapy. I might have a spending problem. The man I marry needs to be miser. I need a frickin Scrooge.
I do too. For some reason I am greatly comforted at grocery stores and big box stores like Wal-Mart. Nothing expensive, but all that little stuff adds up. I definitely need a saver.
I hate that you treated me wrong and you are probably happy and with someone else right now, and I treated you well, and I feel unhappy and unwanted.
Taking a break from all of it. Mostly becuase I'm busy with deadlines for work and admittedly because I don't want to make yet *another* mistake. I am tired of screwing up, let God bring the next guy into my life and in the meantime I am being still.
Does this make sense? There's someone who gets an A++++ for being emotionally supportive and available and devoted. But I find myself saying, "That's nice, but I'm looking for more pragmatic things like a secure career (not necessarily a lot of money, but stable)." I know it's not an either-or, but I just feel like I'd happily take less emotional involvement for a better practical fit.
ETA: He quit a master's midway because it wasn't his passion. Then he was let go of two positions after that because the employers didn't think he was a good fit. He claimed they were micromanaging him, but also said he felt like he shouldn't have to answer for the decisions he made.
I'm trying to decide if this is something I can try and talk to him about or if I need to KIM. I don't believe in trying to teach or change grown men. But I've seen patience ultimately work out in other situations. Hmm..
I don't want to start a thread....
Is it ever okay to color with you ex if you are not sure that you are getting back together?
I don't want to start a thread....
Is it ever okay to color with you ex if you are not sure that you are getting back together?
I don't want to start a thread....
Is it ever okay to color with you ex if you are not sure that you are getting back together?
Yes, @MzLady78 is right.....and here's your first one... NOOOOOOOOOO dont do it.
No but seriously been there done that...it does not work.
I want my ex back so bad! I emailed him saturday after not talking for months. Everything that was tear us apart is fixed not and it just seems so bitter sweet to have all the good stuff happening and he's not here. He was there for all the crappy parts of the last two years. He should get to enjoy the good parts. This has been the worst hurt ever.
I knew it!
It worked in my case, but again, I don't know if that's because it had been so long since we were in a relationship and there really wasn't anything there as far as feelings. Not to mention I found him completely undesirable as a mate because there were certain things he was still into that I didn't want any part of. So, we did what we did and kept it moving.
Yep, that's key to not getting caught back up in feelings ...I think she may want him back though.
Ok, so somehow I read her post as if you are sure you're not getting back together, but I see that she said if you are not sure you're getting back together.
In this case, I would agree it's probably not a good idea.
He wants to get back together... but I don't. All I want to do is color, but I don't want to take the effort to meet someone new.
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