rafikichick92
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The only good thing that has come out of Drew's and my date late Thursday is me staying off FB as much as possible in an attempt to avoid him. And when I am on FB, I thank God for the offline function.
Interesting talk with SO last night....now I'm confused about what I want. It gave us both something to think about.
Would I be willing to make a sacrifice in order for our relationship to go to the next level and not be resentful of my decision, if it came down to it? Honestly, IDK is how I would answer right now.
This LDR seems like it's going to be harder than I thought on SO. Although, it's suiting me just fine for the moment and I'm not pressed about the future, SO seems to be shifting a little, and not in a good way. We'll see what happens....
Still looking forward to his visit though!
The only good thing that has come out of Drew's and my date late Thursday is me staying off FB as much as possible in an attempt to avoid him. And when I am on FB, I thank God for the offline function.
oh doom! What happened???
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Interesting talk with SO last night....now I'm confused about what I want. It gave us both something to think about.
Would I be willing to make a sacrifice in order for our relationship to go to the next level and not be resentful of my decision, if it came down to it? Honestly, IDK is how I would answer right now.
This LDR seems like it's going to be harder than I thought on SO. Although, it's suiting me just fine for the moment and I'm not pressed about the future, SO seems to be shifting a little, and not in a good way. We'll see what happens....
Still looking forward to his visit though!
NOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHY ME?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!
I went to sleep for a few hours after getting off the phone and when I woke to a text that said "I Love You"
no you don't. trust me.
today is already not my day.
LOLOL I like how you talk...you should go into writing.
And what did you end up saying????
Love this.In this very moment I'm in is pure happiness. I'm excited about my relationship with myself. I just discovered some very fascinating things about my background, heritage, my capabilities...I'm also having a creative burst. But I realize that I have been too focused on everybody else...well My FH. I love him to death, but I need to get some of that back to me.
He'll live.
I just cant help but be kind-hearted and a lover by nature. Its not me that needs to change. It is not a flaw.
Perhaps he should be the one to make a sacrifice, especially if he is the one who is pressed.
Personally I think he should be the one to move, UNLESS he's given you a ring, set a wedding date, and is okay w/ providing for you totally until you find a job and get settled.