) go......she ain't coming back or coming around, let her arse go homie......
. So happy for you and your beautiful little girl. She is just so pretty and precious. Happy for your dh too because he is blessed to have a beautiful, smart wife and adorable little girl
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Then you create an environment for the right people, men AND women, to enter. And they help uplift you and help you become better at knowing what you want. 
@MzLady78....another thing...not trying to be all up in your biz or anything, LOL, but let all those loser guys who are adding NOTHING to your life in a positive way, go. They drain your energy and hold you back. When I say let them go, I mean cut them off completely. Don't talk/text/email/IM/Skype, etc. It's not beneficial to you and all it serves is a reminder of how lame these guys are and how that's all that out there when that's not true.
Things you're going through....I have sooo been there and not that long ago either. When I cut off all that dead weight that was weighing me down, I felt soooo much better. It kind of startles you at first, because even though the guys were draining, you had a male to talk to, but once that wears off, quickly, you start to feel stronger, because you made a conscious decision that is a step in the right direction. Once you eliminate the losers, it's liberating, truly
Sorry, I went off on a diatribe, but that's my 2 cents. And any advice I can offer, I'll gladly pass along. As BW, we all have a common struggle in one form or another, so if we help each other, we can be as strong as we've always been.
Ditto!!! Shoot folks thought I needed the shotgun
Oh, it's fine, I always welcome input for you ladies.
I totally agree. This isn't even the recent dude, this is the knucklehead from 2 years ago that I used to refer to as Mr. Iraq. I just got finished saying to someone that I'm too forgiving and I need to stop letting these fools back in (in any form) because they always show themselves to be the same exact person they were before we stopped speaking.
I hate to be all in your business @MzLady78 but I don't know why you pay these men any attention at all.,,.a non-factor is just that, a "non-m*thaf*ckin-factor"....IMO, it's fine that they pay you attention but acknowledging their existence is a whole nother issue.... The fact that any of them are notable enough for you to discuss is very telling... I wouldnt be talking about the vegas thing til dude actual paid for the ticket and a suite, until then he is just blowing hot air
@MzLady78....another thing...not trying to be all up in your biz or anything, LOL, but let all those loser guys who are adding NOTHING to your life in a positive way, go. They drain your energy and hold you back. When I say let them go, I mean cut them off completely. Don't talk/text/email/IM/Skype, etc. It's not beneficial to you and all it serves is a reminder of how lame these guys are and how that's all that out there when that's not true.
Things you're going through....I have sooo been there and not that long ago either. When I cut off all that dead weight that was weighing me down, I felt soooo much better. It kind of startles you at first, because even though the guys were draining, you had a male to talk to, but once that wears off, quickly, you start to feel stronger, because you made a conscious decision that is a step in the right direction. Once you eliminate the losers, it's liberating, truly
Sorry, I went off on a diatribe, but that's my 2 cents. And any advice I can offer, I'll gladly pass along. As BW, we all have a common struggle in one form or another, so if we help each other, we can be as strong as we've always been.
Let's just say that his name was Andy Cosby. Her name is Anna Cosby and the profile picture looks weird--it's black and white and old...almost as if it's not a real person. I hope this is a coincidence and this fool isn't just 100% grade A crazy. Because that's just ridiculous on so many levels.
I was just talking to a friend who I think is similar to you, you have a HEART. something I wish I had, and admire. I make strong connections with other people, but unforunately it's easy for me to change my mind, detach and leave them. My feelings are very surface in what I am able to display to others, regardless how I feel deep down
I don't even know if I'm capable of falling truly and sincerely in love. You clearlly have that ability, something which I respect and envy
I was just talking to a friend who I think is similar to you, you have a HEART. something I wish I had, and admire. I make strong connections with other people, but unforunately it's easy for me to change my mind, detach and leave them. My feelings are very surface in what I am able to display to others, regardless how I feel deep down
I don't even know if I'm capable of falling truly and sincerely in love. You clearlly have that ability, something which I respect and envy
I'll probably delete that last sentence cause I know how it goes down on here. But I just don't express everything on here, but I feel you completely and you articulated exactly how I feel. barbiesocialite 1st bold...This is me...all day, everyday. I'm working on it though. I feel I may have some slightly sociopathic tendencies.
2nd bold...I used to say that ALL the time. I found out that's not true, though. You really do have to learn to completely trust someone else and let down your emotional barrier. But you and I are >>>>>>here<<<<<<
), it's a legacy thing; femme fatale or *****. thats why the women in my family have such a low divoce rate and high infidelity rate bc we put ninjas through guilt trips and emotional chokeholds it is what it is, but if I'm ever going to have a meaningful relationship I need to get a grip on this ****.....
I'll update when I hear back from them
barbiesocialite@chocolat79
naw girl, I'm a borderline all day errday (after researching the therapy methods of my past shrinks I realized that's what they were diagnosing
this makes me feel bad about my horrible idea (where my homegirl told me to 'take a seat') of marrying my new guy friend as a starter husband.....
I just cant with you 
I was just talking to a friend who I think is similar to you, you have a HEART. something I wish I had, and admire. I make strong connections with other people, but unforunately it's easy for me to change my mind, detach and leave them. My feelings are very surface in what I am able to display to others, regardless how I feel deep down
I don't even know if I'm capable of falling truly and sincerely in love. You clearlly have that ability, something which I respect and envy
