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babyu21 said:
I was really disappointed when he let me leave his place knowing my car was acting up and my gas was really low. You say you were concerned but your actions didn't. If you were concerned you would have followed me to the gas station to ensure my car would start up again with no problems.

This was a very telling situation and I am glad to know you aren't someone I can depend on. Luckily I got home with no problems but I was really disappointed with your actions.
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As disappointing as this is, be glad he showed you who he was. It is very telling. One thing I need in a man is his priority with my safety.
 
Deleted. Thanks for remind me why I gave up this dating thing 6 years ago. Back to my regularly scheduled programming.
 
Do_Si_Dos said:
OT: Soooio i saw lance gross and the sheriff from why did i get married....they are super fine... I got pictures, and i am sooo excited.

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I went to college with Lance. Used to break my neck to see him walking around campus.
 
I had a great time last night at his house. For some reason I could not find my bra but since I had a jacket on, I had to get dressed for my interview at home anyway. I just remembered I did not tell him about my missing bra, so I called his cell a few minutes ago.

I was like, "Hey baby! I think your bed ate up my bra. Look for it when you get home please." He said, "I am at my tax accountants office with some people. We will speak later. CLICK!" Why the hell does he insist on using speakerphone without telling me? He knows anything could come out of my mouth. LOL! Oh well.
 
Mortons said:
Deleted. Thanks for remind me why I gave up this dating thing 6 years ago. Back to my regularly scheduled programming.
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THIS..I said the same thing this morning..thank you for failing a simple test..so glad you did this NOW instead of later..Now, Im off to happy hour tonight..on to the next..
 
Got all dolled up today. Turned a few heads in my biochemistry class. Actually, they were too discreet to actually turn their heads, but I saw the eyebrow raise and the accompanying once-over. That's right; I clean up pretty good and I have very sexy (skinny!) legs when wearing heels if I do say so myself. Looking forward to the rest of the week. Hopefully I'll see Costco tomorrow too. :yep:
 
I wonder what he was doing before he knew me. After all, I've only known him for about 5 months of this year. So I asked him how he's changed over the course of the year. He said he's more focused, more outgoing and most importantly he has a really awesome girlfriend.

I tried to play it cool but I let a little "awww" slip.
 
Love Always said:
@NaeChail, does your brother have kids and is he married? If so, did he help you decide based off of his experience?
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Don't know how I missed this mention! Sorry!

But no, my brother is a teen lol. No kids, (thank God!!) and definitely not married :lol:. But I have raised him under my roof since he was a preteen and I was barely out of my teens myself. I took care of him before that too pretty much, but he was living with bum foster parents :ohwell:.

There's actually 2 of them. The older on JUST graduated basic training for the Army (not what i wanted for him; he was the fastest kid in the state in several track and field events and had scholarships out the wazoo but I'm proud none the less). And the one that still lives with me is...:nono::nono:. No matter how hard I try to give him a chance a life better than our parents had and even better than my own, he is bent on being a KANG. He runs around with a bad crowd, and I work 2 jobs and am about to go back to school...I can't keep an eye on a 17 yr old 24/7. He has SO much potential (high test scores, great reading/writing skills) and just doesn't want to do anything with it. And my bio mom has another kid that's about to be 5 that before long will end up living with me too (she and her new husband are a MESS...CPS knocks constantly).

I feel burned out and I am only in my early 20s. I'm raising enough of my mom's kids (myself included lol) to have any of my own. As of right now, I don't think I can deal with 18 years of this type of thing all over again, and then some, because even though they leave the nest, you never get done being a parent.

Sorry so long, lol....felt good to vent though :lachen::look:.
 
Hasn't been able to talk to you in *gasp!* a whole day, lol. And it is KILLING me. Man, I can't wait to get a new phone today. Hope you're not mad or think I was ignoring you!! Stupid technology, sometimes. lol. I really do miss you though. But IDK if I should tell you that.

The other one...OMG what a rough weekend. We'll be ok though..right??? Right??? You say so, but I'm like :/
 
VeryBecoming said:
@barbiesocialite i had this exact same, brief convo last week. don't run! i had to fight it with all my being :lol:


my new motto for this relationship is *** it, just live. going to stop analyzing everything.
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VeryBecoming

A few years ago you would have been right about me overanalyzing because it's in my nature but I don't think that's what' happening here.

I'm still not really talking to him. I told him I would call him back after he called on Sunday but then I changed my mind :look: He's texted a couple of times, tried to get me to Skype last night and apparently tried to call this morning (i was asleep; he left a text)....I've just been busy. :look:

Truth is, it's me not him.

I have more important things to worry about right now. I'm naturally self-absorbed and awful at multi-tasking. This/relationship/him is not my main priority. In fact, to an extent, I find it quite distracting. Looking at the big picture for long-term happiness, there are a couple of things I need to sort out and get right within myself and my life to be the woman *I* want to be and a future husband and children will need me to be.

My time is limited and my focus elsewhere. Now, if he wants to hop on board and adjust accordingly that's cool. If not, that's too bad, his loss. I'll fill his space with someone else that can handle it. either way I'm gonna K.I.M.:yep:
 
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