***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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omg thank God midterms are finally over! I've been so scatterbrained for the last week. Now I can put effort towards planning b-day... finally.

honestly all the stress was making me randy.
 
GoddessMaker said:
No more desiring dating nor anymore online dating sites.Just closed POF and will never try again.It's not for everyone esp me.Now if I'm meant to date a dude will have to approach or if not I will be dateless and never experience love and intimacy.
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If you don't get out much, or are an introvert, keep those accounts open. There is a limited chance I am gonna meet someone randomly because I tend to just do work and school outside of the house, so I keep mine up to help out. And it has helped :yep:
 
I am so looking forward to our anniversary, this man has no idea.

Even if it's a weekend getaway, I need that time with him.

This year I want to go to Vegas, so hopefully schedules will line up so we can make it happen.
 
lushcoils said:
It doesn't help at all if you don't get quality messages often.
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Hmmmm, seems a little short sighted. Putting yourself out there more (participating in the forums and sending messages of your own) would better serve the purpose of meeting people. Besides, there are people signing up daily. Just cause it didn't happen yesterday, doesn't mean it won't today.
 
Had a conversation with SO last night about my needs since we'll be in a LDR. Although we had to tackle some past, uncomfortable conversations, it worked out and everything is peachy keen. He said he has no choice when it comes to loving me. :love2:
 
that I don't need to be in love to get marrried Thread has me so baffle and confused!

There is a difference btw love being the only factor and love being a non mother-f*cking factor

I would never married a person JUST because I love them BUT I would never marry a man that I didn't love...
 
Just watched Oprah's life class with the lesson focusing on when someone shows you who they are,believe them. So true! Ladies stop wasting your time and energy on the men you KNOW in your gut are not good for you! Remove them! Don't allow them to drain your energy and further shorten your life! Such a simple lesson but we as women so often ignore it. General post, but I felt I had to make a public service announcement.
 
I've been extremely emotional lately it's probably because my birthday is next week and I feel like my life is passing on by. SO has been extra attentive, understanding and supportive I truly love and appreciate him for all he does for me.


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He said he knows what he's getting me for Christmas. All he would say is that it's round and in a size 7....as he stroked my ring finger.....:blush:
 
So excited for our dinner date tonight! I can't believe you told me you're bringing me something I've always wanted (a guy has never bought me flowers). Why'd you tell me??
 
They always, always come back. Will someone PLEASE send my exboyfriend/fiance a memo and let him know:

That he ended our relationship, not me....that I have NO intentions of EVER answering the phone when he calls me, so stop calling me...that losing him was the best thing that ever happened to me even though I didn't see it at the moment of breakup...that if he has anything that belongs to me, he can throw it away because I have no desire to see his face (keeps leaving me messages that he wants to drop something by my place that belongs to me)...tell him that if I haven't called looking for this "mystery" object, then chances are it's not worth much to me..bury it, burn it, hang it from a tree...idgaf.....

Tell him that I erased all of his tv shows off of my dvr, so stop hinting around in emails that he'd love to come over and catch up on the shows that were recorded MONTHS ago....and tell him to stop emailing me too....tell him he's holding a one sided email conversation when only one person is doing all of the emailing. Tell him that I don't miss him and I don't EVER want to see his face again.
 
One of my male friends is in love with me but I don't like him like that. I told him it couldn't work because of the distance but I think he's making an effort to move closer to me. I don't know what to do or what to say.
 
So my friend hooked me up with one of his friends and we have been skyping and talking daily for the past month, he sent me flowers for my bday, and I think I may actually like him. I have been so closed off with guys for so long that this feeling is foreign to me now!
 
Am I going to let him sleep in the bed with me tonight? Why does he always act so good when I'm upset wwith him?? Its sooooo tiring to uphold the 'angry' rules.
 
Mark thinks he's slick. He can sense when I'm not feeling him. He came to work last Thursday and handed me 4 cds full of music that he "made" for me. I just started listening to them today, but he has called me everyday since last Thursday asking me 'bout dem cds. I told him not to rush me and I'd listen to them when I was good and ready and to stop asking me about them. He laughed at me and called me stubborn and head strong. :lachen: He didn't care about me snapping at him in the least. I swear I don't care how much I try to push him away, he just keeps coming right on back...maybe he senses a challenge in me...idk. :look:

So I'm sitting here listening to the cd's now and they are just wonderful. Ugh! lol! How am I supposed to keep him at bay if he's gonna send me all these kinds of songs and stuff. Again...ugh! :yawn: So I called him and thanked him for the cds and told him they were just wonderful. I could see him smiling through the phone. :yep:
 
He can annoy me and I'll get off the phone but 5 minutes later i'm calling him back lol. I just can't stay away! :lol:
 
My sister is an idiot.. She is convinced that I'm a lesbian cause I haven't been on a lot of second dates since my last relationship ended 2 years ago. I can't possibly like being single. I should be dating a kang like her. You know a grown man who lives with his mama and quits jobs cause they drug test and he needs to smoke weed. I can't believe we were raised by the same parents in the same house
 
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