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My period is over and SO is coming over in the morning. He's gonna get humped on as soon as he walks in the door.
 
I'm glad they were discussing marriage & commitment in your bible study tonight, hopefully you learned something...

Want me to love Jesus? make me housewife :lachen:
 
Okay, so I think I have a crush.There as another one of those black ppl networking parties tonight and just when I walk in, I take a look down and read a text and I find out the guy that I was really hoping I'd see there was not going to go. I was so disappointed! It messed up my entire night :lol:

Seriously. I kinda just hung out in the corner and stared at my phone. I was one of *those* people. There was this other guy there who had just asked me out on a date a few hours prior, and he was trying to talk to me and make plans, but I could barely even stay focused on the conversation. I just wanted to go home and sulk :lol:

I don't like this. I think I just need to forget about him. This is very atypical behavior for me.
 
I often get so into my own head and over think things that I allow it to distract me from our relationship, which is not fair. I wish I could occupy myself more!
 
Well the tall light brown drink of water never called. I thought he would show up at my church but it was a lookalike.

When is it going to be my turn?
 
Reading the thread in OT where they keep mentioning multi dating. I've ALWAYS thought that was a good idea...but just never been able to do it bc I have a hard enough time just meeting one dude to go out with:ohwell:
 
my baby cousin just told me she is gettin married.....

I'm the oldest grandchild so yes I was feeling some kinda way. I can't even front, I was bit by the hater bug until she told me that she didn't have a ring yet and the wedding wasn't until summer 2013.....

I called my mother in a hurry and she reminded me that I was engaged at 23 too and we saw how that worked out... yea i know I still sound like a hater :lol:
 
Still getting over heartbreak, some days are easier than others. This is all for the best though, no contact is the only way.
 
Remind me to memorize your number...so I can know not to answer when I see you calling.

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barbiesocialite said:
my baby cousin just told me she is gettin married.....

I'm the oldest grandchild so yes I was feeling some kinda way. I can't even front, I was bit by the hater bug until she told me that she didn't have a ring yet and the wedding wasn't until summer 2013.....

I called my mother in a hurry and she reminded me that I was engaged at 23 too and we saw how that worked out... yea i know I still sound like a hater :lol:
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this b*sh...:censored:

now after talking to her I realize she was trying to one-up me and rub it in my face. I was tryna be happy for her, with all sincerity. Then I noticed her comments were taking jabs at me. Normally I'm a chill kinda chick. I can take it all in stride. Now I wanna punch this b*sh in the face!:hardslap:

I had enough and finally told this little girl: no ring, no date = LOSING

If that's engaged, technically I'm engaged too :rolleyes:

I had to call SO to calm me down :meditate:.... Now I feel better lol :love2:
 
I haven't mentioned Mark, my student teacher in a few weeks now. I've just been sitting back and observing him, trying to figure out if he's worth my time or not. I've just about made up my mind on a few things.

Something weird about me is I have a very weak stomach and the strangest things turn me off about people, even people that I have an intimate interest in. About 3 weeks ago, he was really sick with sinus issues and a few other upper respiratory issues. He asked me to stop by his place for something after I dropped my son off at school. I did. I get there and he has tissues everywhere. He's sneezing, blowing his nose, making those god awful throat noises- just ugh and he mentioned something about waking up to a nose bleed. All of this was just too much for my stomach. I immediately became nauseous and grossed out by him. :nono: Nothing has changed about him. He's still really handsome and a gentleman for the most part, but now I just can't do it.

What is wrong with me? I really liked this man before that morning, but now I can't imagine even kissing him because I became too grossed out by everything I saw and heard that morning. I feel bad (well not really) because he calls and calls and calls and most times I won't answer my phone. I only have the desire for a professional relationship with him now, nothing personal.

So now he thinks I have a boyfriend because I rarely answer my phone when he calls. His words to me this week-in a joking manner "I don't care if you have a new boyfriend. You are not going to get rid of me. I'm not going anywhere. So you might as well answer the phone when I call because I'm not gonna stop calling." Little does he know that I don't have a boyfriend, I just don't want to talk to him on a personal level anymore all because he grossed me out. Maybe after a few weeks my feelings for him will switch back over to the way they were before, but for right now, my heart is NOT having it.


ETA: And I have been in long relationships with guys that have been sick before and have even help nurse them back to health, but all of his "stuff" just sent my nausea into overload. Weird, I know. :look:
 
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Me and Zdubs Quote of the Day:

Me: If I look at my grades right now, I will probably get the urge to throw myself out the window.
Zdubs: *looking around* Good thing there are no windows in here.
 
deltadreamland said:
I haven't mentioned Mark, my student teacher in a few weeks now. I've just been sitting back and observing him, trying to figure out if he's worth my time or not. I've just about made up my mind on a few things.

Something weird about me is I have a very weak stomach and the strangest things turn me off about people, even people that I have an intimate interest in. About 3 weeks ago, he was really sick with sinus issues and a few other upper respiratory issues. He asked me to stop by his place for something after I dropped my son off at school. I did. I get there and he has tissues everywhere. He's sneezing, blowing his nose, making those god awful throat noises- just ugh and he mentioned something about waking up to a nose bleed. All of this was just too much for my stomach. I immediately became nauseous and grossed out by him. :nono: Nothing has changed about him. He's still really handsome and a gentleman for the most part, but now I just can't do it.

What is wrong with me? I really liked this man before that morning, but now I can't imagine even kissing him because I became too grossed out by everything I saw and heard that morning. I feel bad (well not really) because he calls and calls and calls and most times I won't answer my phone. I only have the desire for a professional relationship with him now, nothing personal.

So now he thinks I have a boyfriend because I rarely answer my phone when he calls. His words to me this week-in a joking manner "I don't care if you have a new boyfriend. You are not going to get rid of me. I'm not going anywhere. So you might as well answer the phone when I call because I'm not gonna stop calling." Little does he know that I don't have a boyfriend, I just don't want to talk to him on a personal level anymore all because he grossed me out. Maybe after a few weeks my feelings for him will switch back over to the way they were before, but for right now, my heart is NOT having it.


ETA: And I have been in long relationships with guys that have been sick before and have even help nurse them back to health, but all of his "stuff" just sent my nausea into overload. Weird, I know. :look:
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Thanks for the update...I was wondering how your situation was coming along.

This may seem like an odd question, but I'm not trying to be rude. Um, how do you manage when your son is sick? I mean, kids can be quite gross when they're young. I'm just wondering how you managed while having such a weak stomach?

Part of me thinks this may be a deeper issue. Perhaps a fear of the potential relationship? I have a friends who finds the strangest issues with a man once she realizes he's serious about her. Just a thought.
 
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Incognitus said:
Thanks for the update...I was wondering how your situation was coming along.

This may seem like an odd question, but I'm not trying to be rude. Um, how do you manage when your son is sick? I mean, kids can be quite gross when they're young. I'm just wondering how you managed while having such a weak stomach?

Part of me thinks this may be a deeper issue. Perhaps a fear of the potential relationship? I have a friends who finds the strangest issues with a man once she realizes he's serious about her. Just a thought.
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No, not an odd question at all. My son seems to be the exception to the rule-a mother's love.:drunk: And you would think that with me being a school teacher and the mom of a 5 year old that these things wouldn't bother me. And in most cases I'm fine, but I just don't know what struck me the wrong way with him-almost like I was looking for something. I think I was looking for a reason to not like him and I grabbed onto the first thing that stood out. It's easier for me, being his mentor, to not like him. Thanks, you just made me realize something. Professionally, we're still fine, but I've just chosen to jump off cloud 9 with him for now....
 
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Have you ever met someone that you knew you would always love, but could never be with long term?

I don't know if it was worth it...

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Wow what an douchebag.he finally realizes i dont want him and now he straight up avoids me when i pass by. this negro about faced and went the otherway when i was about to pass him and say hi! *** him! he can go eat a bag of dyks!
 
deltadreamland
Girl don't make me hurt you! You cannot dump our, I mean "your" sweet boyfriend/assistant. You stop this foolishness. Sometimes my hubby of 24 years grosses me out. My daughter and I both look at each other and silently mouth eww lol. Men can just be gross sometimes. Don't let this run you off, not this. Now if you are afraid word will get out about you guys or there is something else more serious, but I'd hate you to throw everything away over this one gross out experience. All men, all people, can be gross sometimes. Nobody's perfect. But he seems to adore you and you two have so much in common. Remember what happened in Moonstruck? If I were your friend IRL I would smack you and say, "Snap out of it!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x-fkSYDtUY&feature=youtube_gdata_player
 
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