***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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:nono: Why didn't I give you a chance when you showed an interest? Why didn't I take you seriously? Now you're taken....and happy. I missed my chance.
 
Incognitus said:
:nono: Why didn't I give you a chance when you showed an interest? Why didn't I take you seriously? Now you're taken....and happy. I missed my chance.
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If he's happy you ain't miss your chance. The right one is still looking for you

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^^I like to think that there are many people out there that could make one person happy. We, too, could have been happy together. Then again, I'm recovering from a bad relationship and bad breakup, so... It's just on of those "what if" nights.
 
Now *cough* for my updates...

non-relationship RT:
-Went to pick up some clothes at the tailor's. My tailor is a little Asian lady... So, she makes me try on the skirt I'm picking up and as I'm examining it, she pats my butt... and giggles... :shocked::confused::look: I respond: haha... thinking UM!??!?!:confused:

She's been giving me discounts on my alterations when I beg for them (pretending to be a student:look:) With that butt pat, I'm gonna need more, danggit.

On another note, I haven't been in the mood to go to bars/clubs/bars in ages... I don't really enjoy it anymore... maybe it's this city... doesn't have the best nightlife for Black people. But anyway, this former coworker who has expressed interest in me keep asking if I'm coming to his party tonight. I so don't wanna goooo. Plus, all my close friends are out of town... I know a couple of people who want to go, but eh... dunno. I'm thinking about just showing up to the pre-party at his house and then disappearing and going back home:lol:
 
I wish I had a group of 2 or 3 female friends to dress up with and go out..I feel frisky and social right now and would love to go and just have a nice time.If a dude approached that was nice looking I would possible respond..Im just feeling glam.
 
GoddessMaker said:
I wish I had a group of 2 or 3 female friends to dress up with and go out..I feel frisky and social right now and would love to go and just have a nice time.If a dude approached that was nice looking I would possible respond..Im just feeling glam.
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I felt the exact same way last night...............

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I really like him, but.........he moves entirely too slow for me. I am on a mission, and he may miss this train.

Two weeks ago, I told him I wanted more than he could offer me, so I need to move on.

He texted me earlier this week.

Him: I miss u

Me: ok. Where did that come from?

Him: It's a natural emotion when enjoy having someone around, and then they arent there anymore.

Me: oh

Him: I am glad you are still talking to me.

Me: just barely.

Him: I understand.

Me: yeah, I guess. You are cool. It's your work schedule that I cant deal with.

Him: I understand. I hate my schedule as well.

Me: so I take it u've heard this before?

Him: yea

Me: you will make space in your life when you meet a girl that's special enough to u.

*No response*

Next day

Him: you have me going through withdrawals.

Me: ?

Him: I really miss you and I can't shake it.

Me: yeah and that's by choice.

Him: ?

Me: you're a smart boy. Figure it out

Him: what do you want me to do?

*I didnt respond. He really confuses me.

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Nah, I don't think it's confusing. He knows what you want, but doesn't want to commit to it. He's hoping you'll fall for the "I miss you" without him definitively committing to what you need. You're clearly putting it out there, and he's avoiding taking the bait.

Don't dismiss this guy just yet but limit your energy towards a relationship with him as well. But he needs to come better than that. Don't mention your expectations anymore. You've been loud and clear and he needs to act on it. Meanwhile, explore other options.
 
I want to see you today. And I won't. For a FEW days....guess I will find something to do with myself.

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Do_Si_Dos

Continue to stand your ground! It sounds like you already told him what you need in a relationship. If he wants to see you, he knows what he needs to do!
 
Thanks freelove and 3XUVaGrad

I am in the process of dating others. He really throws me for a loop because he wanted more out of our friendship not me. I know he likes me but I also understand he may not like me enough to give me what I want. As much as I think it could work between us, I have decided to keep it moving. If he misses me like he says, he will figure out how to make space for me in his life. If not, oh well, his loss not mine.

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Do_Si_Dos said:
I really like him, but.........he moves entirely too slow for me. I am on a mission, and he may miss this train.

Two weeks ago, I told him I wanted more than he could offer me, so I need to move on.

He texted me earlier this week.

Him: I miss u

Me: ok. Where did that come from?

Him: It's a natural emotion when enjoy having someone around, and then they arent there anymore.

Me: oh

Him: I am glad you are still talking to me.

Me: just barely.

Him: I understand.

Me: yeah, I guess. You are cool. It's your work schedule that I cant deal with.

Him: I understand. I hate my schedule as well.

Me: so I take it u've heard this before?

Him: yea

Me: you will make space in your life when you meet a girl that special enough to u.

*No response*

Next day

Him: you have me going through withdrawals.

Me: ?

Him: I really miss you and I can't shake it.

Me: yeah and that's by choice.

Him: ?

Me: you're a smart boy. Figure it out

Him: what do you want me to do?

*I didnt respond. He really confuses me.

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I'm glad you told him the bolded-bolded. I believe this too. It's sad but true. When Guys know what they want, they stop at nothing to get it and KEEP it. It's also good that you are stating what you want. In stead of going along with his program to just "see what happens"...
 
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I got out of the party limo at a red light. I just feel so pathetic for doing that. Everyone was asking me to stay, or at least wait until we got to the club, but I insisted I had to go...

Haven't had much alcohol in 3+ months, by choice. I'm not a strong drinker, so the hiatus seemed to have made me very sensitive. I didn't eat much today and had too much to drink by my standards. On the way to the club, I started feeling sick, like my stomach contents might come up. Weird thing abt me is that I haven't vomited since age 8, so I panicked when I felt the feeling and was like: I have to go.

Ugh. I feel stupid. I thought I might vomit, but I of course didn't. It's just that the feeling freaks me out. I just think that I looked super weird to the group, and it's eccentric as heck that I hop out of a limo at a red light. I can't imagine and dread the questions that'll come.

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CarLiTa Yeah, that's kinda weird but I mean, drinking makes people do weird things :lol: Your friends will probably just clown you about it a little. Someone should have left with you. How did you get home?
 
CarLiTa Please quit being so hard on yourself. If you had thrown up on everyone in the limo or just thrown up in front of them you would really have been embarrassed. It is not a big deal that you got out because you weren't feeling well. I would have done the same thing. When my stomach gets upset I always need fresh air.
 
nicki6 said:
@NYAmicas

That guy wears blue contacts and has a tongue ring:scratchch

He definitely has the GHEY in my book!:lol:
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nicki6

Nooo!!!!!:lol: I'm in the deepest denial that shall ever be had. Thanks for your input as well, it also helps further why he's getting the responses he's getting. He lives away from me so maybe if I got to observe him in person.
 
*warning non-relationship rant ahead*

I really hate that you called me to go out with you tonight when i'd already made the decision to not go out. I got in the mood, got dressed and was ready to have a great time. Why did you have to f*uck up my mood by being so petty? The first stop we made was lame we both agreed. We went to another place to enjoy the dance club but you couldn't get over yourself well enough to enjoy the experience or let me enjoy the experience after you literally dragged me out for the night to accommodate your desire to go out.

Gosh i can't stand you right now, i don't want to see your face for the next several weeks. You've been crossed off my list of people to go out with alone.... This is the second time you've pulled this sh*t and i know now it is a character trait.

If i ever decide to go out with you again, someone else has to be around in case you pull this bullsh*t again. I thank goodness another friend from the program who came out tonight other wise i'd be even more bitter than i am right now lol. She and her buddies made my night and made me not regret going out after all. I even enjoyed a brief preview into swing dancing and I so want to take classes now:grin:. Can't wait for Thursday:yep:

I refuse to let you or anyone else color my graduate experiences. I am so done depending on other people to go out or to have fun. From here on if you don't want to go out or learn new things or enjoy yourself, please kindly go home.

I'm going to make the most of my 18 months here and i want to meet as many people as i can in the process so i leave this campus knowing i have a diverse and wide network of individuals to call my acquaintances and friends. Yep, i'm going solo from here on out. If you want to join my train you're welcome. If not then go home and don't try to ruin my experiences with your bad mood. I am too done. Too done after tonight.:spinning:
 
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