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mwedzi said:
Hmm, I mean, why not have a drink or whatever? No commitment. Keeping it casual, you know. But I have the same race-based suspicions you have for Indians in America. But why did this story remind me of my S African homestay brother, when I told him an Indian guy hit on me at the park (in SA), he told me all extra serious that I needed to watch out because those Indian guys really liked to do it in the butt. :rofl:
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wait... it's 7AM... did i read that right? oh yeah... i did :shocked: :dead:
 
mwedzi said:
Hmm, I mean, why not have a drink or whatever? No commitment. Keeping it casual, you know. But I have the same race-based suspicions you have for Indians in America. But why did this story remind me of my S African homestay brother, when I told him an Indian guy hit on me at the park (in SA), he told me all extra serious that I needed to watch out because those Indian guys really liked to do it in the butt. :rofl:
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Oddly enough, I've heard this before.....on several occasions. :perplexed
 
I think this older black man at work must have an affinity for legs... I wear a lot of skirts, not more than a couple of inches above the knee, and this is the 2nd or 3rd time that I've noticed that he doesn't even look at me in the eye when I first greet him:lol: his eyes directly go toward my legs... Smh. I also wear stockings most times, so it isn't like I look provocative. Or actually, maybe he's checking to see if I'm wearing heels. Maybe that's! his fetish.

I'm kind of amused by it... I guess it seems harmless. I don't know.

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This whole not responding to text messages thing worked for one of the guys that's interested in me. When he finally called he said, I see you don't like texting. Ding, ding, ding! The other guy hasn't texted me today... Maybe it worked out with him as well... Maybe he wasn't interested enough to call!

I feel like people text out of boredom at times. One guy I had been texting with since we started seeing each other texted me Monday asking if I was off... No hello, no how are you... Nothing! I'm assuming he wanted to hang out but I was busy so he never asked. I'm going to make a conscious effort to limit texting period in the future!!!
 
I just joined POF and so far it's been pretty good. I'm keeping positive and I'm seeing there are guys out there that are worth giving the time of day to.
 
Saw Zdubs randomly in the hall last night. Was having a leadership meeting in the hallway with one of the clubs I'm VP of when he comes walking out of the QSZ on his way home from studying for the biochem test (which I should have been doing too, but I digress). He of course doesn't see me, so I called out to him and he stops to say hey. I ask him if he's ready for the test and he says he thinks he is. I ask if he's going to make an 'A' and he says he doesn't know.

Right about this time, our University Coordinator who is handicapped and visually impaired and walks with a cane is walking up to join the meeting when she falls over (she has vertigo and randomly falls all the time). Zdubs sees her on the ground and drops his backpack and laptop to go run over to her when another one of the girls stops him and says, "She doesn't want attention when she falls". This girl and the University Coordinator have issues, so I say, "Screw that, come on, Zdubs" so I walk over to her (someone else has helped her up by now) and give her a hug and introduce her to Zdubs and the rest of the crew.

To his credit, when I introduced them, Zdubs remembered seeing her about 4 weeks ago with me when we were in the school club fair representing our club. I didn't even remember that he had seen her then. After the introductions, we chatted again about the test the next morning and then he went home ostensibly to sleep, but as I found out this morning, he really went home and watched the US-Ecuador soccer game! LOL.
 
He just told me this morning that although he doesn't talk about it much, I'm his future and no one else is in that category. :love2:
 
Y'all the proposal was so simple yet so sweet. He didnt get on one knee. In stead he sat next to me and faced me in the livingroom, just me and him...no family no nuthin....He was smiling so hard, ( love his smile cus his eyes smile too) THEN he addressed me by my whole name (never did that)...and asked "will you marry me?". I was all choked up, but I managed to I scream YESSS! and he put the (most beautiful) ring on my finger. I could not stop hugging this man and attacking him with kisses. He loved it. I loved it. That moment was the sweetest.
 
ChasingBliss said:
Y'all the proposal was so simple yet so sweet. He didnt get on one knee. In stead he sat next to me and faced me in the livingroom, just me and him...no family no nuthin....He was smiling so hard, ( love his smile cus his eyes smile too) THEN he addressed me by my whole name (never did that)...and asked "will you marry me?". I was all choked up, but I managed to I scream YESSS! and he put the (most beautiful) ring on my finger. I could not stop hugging this man and attacking him with kisses. He loved it. I loved it. That moment was the sweetest.
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:reddancer: I'm so frigging happy for you....I can't stop smiling! I wanna come to the wedding....:lachen:


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I sent someone a camera phone pic and he replied, Lol, you have on clothes :perplexed

I tell ya, these kneegrows :nono:

To be fair, he did send me a pic of his nipple :look: I should start a blog with all the man-parts pics I receive.
 
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Yeah and we wanna see the rang....:sekret:

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:lol: you sure can...These pics are not too good. They give this ring no justice. I took several and picked to best 3.
 

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:lol: you sure can...These pics are not too good. They give this ring no justice. I took several and picked to best 3.
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We were talking earlier and he said lately he's been more focused at work. I ask him why he thinks that is. I wasn't expecting or hoping for any particular answer. He says it's because of me. I was so surprised. I don't know why it made me so happy. I also don't know how I help him focus but he said it's a good thing.
 
i think i am going to ditch my goal to get a date. i think i have alot of personal growing to do. i am just going to start being friendly and less shy and talk to some people. i am also gonna try to make some friends with guys because i still dont feel 100% comfortable around them.
 
Zdubs messaged me on FB tonight. Looking forward to seeing him tomorrow in lab. Hopefully we can do lunch tomorrow afternoon as well. In other news, I am very sleepy but I can't go to bed until my roommate gets out of the shower because I need to use the bathroom.
 
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