***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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In real life they're my age range 20-24. On pof they range from 20-41. All diff types too, nerds, goth, lots of jews, Italians and eastern europeans.
 
I forgot what it was like to actually scratch the surface and get to know what makes someone tick. If I had to use one word to describe our time together this weekend it would be "comfortable."
 
why do I keep meeting men that love children. Every man wants to play captain-save-a-child... in the words of Chris Rock: "**** da kids!"......they're not even your kids!!!......what about me?!?!?!?! yea I'm selfish.....


besides if you're already so consumed with these other wayward children who should have parents of their own, what happens when we have kids????
 
Speaking of white people:look:, I notice that when I dress a certain way, I notice more white men looking at me.
It's the "Jennifer Aniston casual look"... that's what I call it. And a little bit of Eva Mendes.
 
It sucks that I'll probably never know his family because his parents don't like me, even thought they've never met me. The ironic thing is they're IR too.
 
BGT said:
It sucks that I'll probably never know his family because his parents don't like me, even thought they've never met me. The ironic thing is they're IR too.
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o wow, you sound like my bff in college. Her SO--now DH-- is half Mexican and Black; his parents weren't too fond of her. Actually it was his dad (who's black) that didnt care too much for her because she was black. I guess the bff's English accent didnt help like it usually does jk :lol:
 
Is it possible to have a good guy with a little edge to him? Someone who attracts me and keeps my attention on all levels? If so, where the heck is he?!?
 
barbiesocialite said:
why do I keep meeting men that love children. Every man wants to play captain-save-a-child... in the words of Chris Rock: "**** da kids!"......they're not even your kids!!!......what about me?!?!?!?! yea I'm selfish.....


besides if you're already so consumed with these other wayward children who should have parents of their own, what happens when we have kids????
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I have a friend that is willing to walk away from a girl that is PERFECT for him because of this. He truly believes that her lack of that level of care for wayward kids will hinder him....he said he's going to find someone who cares that much or be alone...smh...

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Oh ok I am playing games (like every other women) now because I do not want to send you a picture? haha. I see why I am single because I have to choose from boys like you.
 
So when I first signed up for POF months ago...I exchanged numbers with a guy, he called, I never called back (I was going through a rough time). He later sends me a msg and I apologize for not calling like I said I would. He said it was no biggie, this is just the net, and he only uses POF for entertainment YET he keeps sending me messages like "Hi Stranger" telling me about how "he's enjoying life" (like I asked). WTH?! I want a date and I get psychos.

I also got the nastiest message I ever received today on POF. I dont know why these young boys keep messaging me. I have normal pictures, no booty shots, no tight clothing, just casual pictures but you would think I was exuding sex in every shot with the messages I get.
 
Is communication really a lost art?

This fool seriously asked me what I ate today as a way of continuing conversation. I didn't respond back.


Secondly, this same guy is still carrying a torch for me. We dated in high school and I'm not 17 anymore. A good 8 years have gone by...I'm not the same person I was. He's cool and all ( I guess) but he is really starting to irk me....
 
I'm finding guys under 30 don't understand the word 'busy.' Busy means I have something else going on like studying or I've already made plans with family/friends. So do not text me saying you understand I'm busy but you want to know if I'm going to Fleet Week and to meet you there.:ohwell: It's immature and desperate.
 
They are lighting it up in OT on relationship related topics. The African Men thread and the What Can Black Women do to Get Married threads were thoroughly entertaining and interesting.

Lots of good points in both that made me think about some things.
 
Imani said:
Lol. I was at this park today. It was packed, all yt people. And the few blk people I saw had on alumni t-shirts from Ivy League schools. I was laughing to myself thinking, I guess appreciating nature must be for UE negroes:lol:
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Okay, we were in the park on Sunday too! He didn't have on a school t-shirt though. Maybe you're on to something! :giggle:
 
Watching that damned Kim K wedding made me start daydreaming about my own future wedding. Except in my mind, I'm more exciting about walking down the aisle towards my husband and dancing at our reception than asking him if my third wedding dress is cute :look:
 
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