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I truly hate depending on people. I got dressed to the ninths tonight to go out with friends to have a great time only to have the whole lot of them let me down. I'm so pissed off and disappointed. I wish i had the know how and confidence to go out on my own without feeling the need to have others around me.

It sucks because being relatively new to the area i'm not all that familiar with all the ins and outs yet plus this is homecoming weekend and I need to be extra careful as i hear there are a bunch of people that come to town just for the events that will be going on.

Hopefully in due time i'll be more comfortable going out on my own. These folks have proven to be quite disappointing in this area already.

i mean we don't have any classes tomorrow. WTF??!:nono::sad:
 
SUPER SWEET said:
Love to share with yall. I heard 3 crazy things tonight...:lachen: No white needed.
She just told me you can work through lil things.

1. His feet smell so bad, you can smell them through his shoes. Powder doesn't work.
2.When they first kissed he had a bad tooth so food would get caught in the holes and piece of steak transfered to her mouth. But he didn't have steak that day.
3.One time they were traveling and he,she and his mom had to share a bed.
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^^That one should have been i white....lol. EWWWW!:perplexed
 
SUPER SWEET's , your friend, I think is just a receptable of garbage. One day I hope she values her self more and becomes something more meaningful. I pray that she never has children if she continues to live her life like this.
 
Feeling very confused, hurt, and sad right now. Can't tell if this break is permenant or if we just need some time apart. but i hope its the later. I need to get back balanced.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
Love to share with yall. I heard 3 crazy things tonight...:lachen: No white needed.
She just told me you can work through lil things.

1. His feet smell so bad, you can smell them through his shoes. Powder doesn't work.
2.When they first kissed he had a bad tooth so food would get caught in the holes and piece of steak transfered to her mouth. But he didn't have steak that day.
3.One time they were traveling and he,she and his mom had to share a bed.
3.
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:sick2::dead:
 
One of my besties ex dumped her suddenly 3 months ago and she just recently around Labor Day weekend said she was finally coming to a head with the ending and ready to move on.

This morning she forwarded me the sweetest apology/explanation from her ex explaining why he abruptly ended their relationship and how he regretted the pain he caused her and her family. It was moving, I almost cried.

Then I text her back and said. "Be still". :yep:


 
Now when you call you claim it was on accident when before it never was. We use to talk almost everyday, use to see eachother everyday and now it was on accident. I will keep that in mind for now on that your calls are on "accident" and not reply.
 
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I have never met so many conceited BLACK men in one night...:nono: Who are we raising? I mean like we should be grateful....

This one dude pulls up an email with comments from his ex's about him being a good man.:huh:

Another dude shows his car keys and 360 view video of what his condo looks like ::dizzy:


:moon: Is what I wanted to do him. Lastly, the worse was the one that said "if you don't move quicker (points to 3 women, blk,latina and wht) I will let her snatch me up"

Imma just wait till NYE now....:ohwell::givebeer:
 
Just when I thought I couldn't love you any more, you exceeded my expectations.
 
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I went out on date #2 with match #2. We're building an intellectual connection, but not really an emotional one. I'm also still not physically attracted.:perplexed I should be meeting Match #3 soon though.
 
SUPER SWEET said:
I have never met so many conceited BLACK men in one night...:nono: Who are we raising? I mean like we should be grateful....

This one dude pulls up an email with comments from his ex's about him being a good man.:huh:

Another dude shows his car keys and 360 view video of what his condo looks like ::dizzy:


:moon: Is what I wanted to do him. Lastly, the worse was the one that said "if you don't move quicker (points to 3 women, blk,latina and wht) I will let her snatch me up"

Imma just wait till NYE now....:ohwell::givebeer:
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Um, where did you meet these people?
 
SUPER SWEET Oh my! That's absolutely ridiculous. I like a man with confidence but I do not need to see a 360 degree view of your condo.

And I'm going to put it out there. As women we need to raise our standards of what we want or stop settling for less if we already know it. The reason he said all of those things is because either he knows that a. someone will take the bait sooner than later or b. because someone has taken it already. He knows it works.

Lastly, the worse was the one that said "if you don't move quicker (points to 3 women, blk,latina and wht) I will let her snatch me up"
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That's just pure tom foolery right there. But the sad part is that (if he's fine or has money) it's not going to take long for it to happen. :nono:
 
Oh. So you like my boyfriend?
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Dear Fireman,

Aw lawd! What's going on with us? I've been trying to ignore that your words are different from your actions for a while. While your words say "I see you as a friend", your actions are saying "I'm starting to see you as more than a friend". Do you know this or am I reading too much into it?

From A Confused Friend
 
I'm sad because last night I met someone at a restaurant and I have a feeling he won't call.

I was about to get in my car after eating at a restaurant when a very attractive man was trying to make conversation with me. I left my car and we talked to each other for 2 hours straight... Until after 11 pm-- the restaurant stayed open just for us, just so that we could talk.

Saved, unmarried, has a job and we know mutual people. We even talked about how everybody has an "Aunt Bunny got a mustache" lol. It was refreshing to just talk to someone, I hadn't felt that way in years. And I don't even care about the 18 year age difference because he looks 30 to me.

Well I turned into a pumpkin again. *sigh* I want him to call but i've played that game before. Hope? Whatever.
 
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