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Imma start off with people will do anything for $$$ and a man's attention.:nono:
Why did I even take the call......:perplexed
Her Ex-friend called to tell me about the escapades too. My noseyness got the best of me and I listen for about a good 1/2 hour.
Part I is WHITE read at your own risk! You won't be able to erase this in your mind!!!!!:sad:
I may not be able to write out parts II & III.

Here's the worse thing I ever heard done to the human body. :barf:
Dude set up her up with a few high profile people in their weekend in Miami. The men paid the ladies to dance but then came what they called the fun part.
Ok......... The game is called goin fishin.

The women lay on their belly and get plowed in the bootay by either one of the men or a machine. Once the hole is stretched the men fill it with water and hold the cheeks open. Once it's wide and wet the men drop a goldfish in there. The point is to watch the goldfish try to swim and live. The men take bets to see how long the fish will survive. The women make about 500 bucks per game and double if they swallow the fish when done.
 
^^^Umm....I am always shocked at the things that go on in other people's lives. Like, what? What is that? Where do people get this stuff? As I'm all sitting at home in my bed playing Sudoku and wondering why people think I'm innocent and sweet, meanwhile people are having goldfish scoo--nevermind.


ETA: In my head, she was this perfectly normal upstanding career woman that got turned out. Is it a cult? How did she get caught up like this? Why am I so invested? :look:
 
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SUPER SWEET I am rarely shocked or grossed out. All of the white text you've posted in the past didn't really shock me. The stories were sick, but I was neither shocked nor appalled. But this--THIS-- is low. I am both shocked AND appalled. Only one thing comes to mind: Sodom and Gomorrah.

On another note: Why do some women allow such degradation? I mean, it seems like being an escort, stripper, or pron star would allow one's self-esteem to remain more in tact than this "going fishing" -type crap.
 
butter_pecan[USER][/USER] The friendship is done.
She got REAL HATEFUL nasty because I told her that she needs help with her issues regarding fitting in with others and men.

But I told yall this is the WORSE ever!:nono: I don't know who is worse the men or the women.
 
Read the white font. I literally made this face --> :look: not even disgusted...just shaken at what the human race allows itself to do. :nono:
 
- I wish I just skip passed that last story.

Curiosity always gets the best of me. Now, I'm sitting here just staring at the ceiling like wtf. :look:
 
Why is it I wanna forgive the cheater? Clearly I'm a crazy women for even considering that after what he did I can still look him in the face and love him. I told him every time I talk to you all I think about is your with HER and even though I'm kinda over it, its been 4 weeks I can't really find any closure because he says I've already been caught why add fuel to the flame by telling you everything when we could just try to move pass this.

I've always been easy to forgive, but because I can't forget what I seen I can't get back with him, I haven't cried in a few days but on a lonely cold night like tonight it hit me. I have a lot of more lonely nights to go too :(
 
Do_Si_Dos said:
SUPER SWEET

Did you make this up? This can't be life!



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:ohwell: It's real life.....

InchHighPrivateEye said:
^^^Umm....I am always shocked at the things that go on in other people's lives. Like, what? What is that? Where do people get this stuff? As I'm all sitting at home in my bed playing Sudoku and wondering why people think I'm innocent and sweet, meanwhile people are having goldfish scoo--nevermind.


ETA: In my head, she was this perfectly normal upstanding career woman that got turned out. Is it a cult? How did she get caught up like this? Why am I so invested? :look:
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She got caught up wanting to belong and fit in. Always felt like she didn't experience enough of the world.:sad: It's easy to get drawn in. And it started by HIS words,then actions followed.

nicki6 said:
SUPER SWEET

I am just morbidly intrigued by your ex friend:look:


Patiently waiting for parts 2 and 3:sekret:
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I dunno about posting cause it got worse, so much I had to get off the phone.

Ladies because we carry ourselves with boundries,it's hard to think others can't. I hope we can pass down class and morals to the young ladies in our lives. :yep: I see many women weren't taught a thing about love,relationship and boundries.
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Having so much pride is really gonna bite me in the arse but I refuse to call or text. This is probably for the best. Learned a lesson and had a little fun in the process. Maybe next time.
 
wow, gone fishing, i really didnt think people actually did these types of things, possibly make movies with these type of weird fetish's, but actually everyday life, wow. who comes up with these types of sick weirdo things? but honestly i can say not much shocks me after having seen "2 girls 1 cup". that movie is honestly a "what has been seen cannot be unseen", and haunts me to this day. ewwwww!!!
 
"every man for himself" has got to be the most accurate saying Ive come across.. I used to be selfish, and people told me it was a bad trait to have...but when i share, I get taken advantage of..this is not solely directed towards men, but they are 90% of the reason behind this post..Ive been looking/ feeling like a fool for too long..Im going back to being selfish..its time

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^^^Nothing wrong with being selfish so long as you are not cruel and uncaring. More women need to master the art of selfishness, I know I am working on that myself. I personally think one of the most unkind things is to allow yourself to be used by others when you have a choice. It really bothers me when people talk how nice they and that's why they always get used and hurt. I always think what's so nice about you being unhappy and feeling used while trying to help others to your detriment? Nothing nice about that at all.
 
My friend said he fishing this weekend and he was upset that he only caught one fish O_____o I immediately thought about this thread.

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SuchMagnificance said:
"every man for himself" has got to be the most accurate saying Ive come across.. I used to be selfish, and people told me it was a bad trait to have...but when i share, I get taken advantage of..this is not solely directed towards men, but they are 90% of the reason behind this post..Ive been looking/ feeling like a fool for too long..Im going back to being selfish..its time

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Folks have called me selfish, but it was only when I didn't want to do what they wanted me to do. :rolleyes: I say do what makes you happy and if that's selfish well then so be it. As long as you're not being mean, there's nothing wrong with taking care of #1.
 
What in the world?! I am so mad at humans, really. Is this the side effect from having over-developed brains, that we can think of stuff like that? Who even thinks of that? Poor fishies, gotta be brought into this human pluckery.
 
I wanna know how the women took their butt holes being stretched out the point that this is even possible. That girl is gonna end up with something really bad (can it get worse?) happening to her.
 
what an abnormal, freakish, bizarre set of humans :blush:

i have absolutely no words to say about this

i think i'm flabbergasted
 
My ex really needs to disappear from my life. There, I've decided it.

Seriously... just disappear. Stop texting me out of the blue wanting to make chit-chat and then suddenly go cold. Why? because I'm forcing myself to be warm to you (which itself is incomprehensible WTF). I am really starting not to care anymore.

ETA: I don't know why I feel this need to be nice to him. I think it's because for so long he accused me of being cold and heartless, so for a long time, I went into overdrive to be thoughtful about my words with him. Turns out he was quite the emotional manipulator. That bastard:look: These days, I still occasionally fall into the same patterns: he'll hit me up excitedly, I'll be lukewarm, and then when I realize he's being lukewarm back, I'll try to come off as more excited or participative... and it's just... not something I need to be doing anymore:nono:

Had a few conversations with my mother and a close friend and concluded that I don't need him in my life. He is adding no value whatsoever at the moment. Like, none. My friend questioned why I felt the need to be accommodating to him... allowing us to occasionally meet up when we're in each others' towns. My only answer was: well, that's been the norm forever:ohwell:

But that was then... and this is now. Why meet up? To catch up? I could learn all these "updates" on Facebook anyway... and really, they add NO value to my life, nor to my interaction with him.

My friend and mother asked me how fulfilling these catch-up sessions were. Frankly, they aren't at all. We sit in a restaurant or drive around and babble about nothing, and then he gives me some sentimental hug, and we part ways. And he doesn't even pay! :wallbash::lachen:... Yeah, NO VALUE WHATSOEVER.

I am especially annoyed because recently last time he was in town, he requested and expressed excitement about hanging out, then casually mentioned he might not be able to make it. It's like uh, ok, I am blocking time out of my schedule at your request, which I didn't even want to do, and you cancel so casually (granted, I'd given many cues that I didn't want to meet)? OK.

Yes, there isn't really a place for him in my life... and I don't care to create one. I've held on to this dude and allowed him to hold on to me for so long, and I feel like he's trying to keep me around to either monitor my moving-on process, or try to potentially work his way back into my heart. NOT happening.:nono: I have decided, and it is FINAL, that I do not want to date nor marry him. My heart has (almost entirely) closed off to him, and I like it that way.

I really need to just be blunt and just say that I don't really care to meet up.
 
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