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I've posted in this thread a few times, but never really had a GREAT story to tell. Now I do! :grin: I had an internship this summer at Target and was not even thinking about guys or dating. I was just working, eating and sleeping. :lol: Last week of my internship, someone tells me that one of the guys there told her that he thought I was soooo pretty, but she would NOT tell me who it was. :ohwell: After a while, me and another co-worker figured that it was this guy named Chris, who I wasn't feeling because I'm 22, and he's 19 and I thought he was Mexican and smoked weed. :look: Turns out his eyes are always red because he's just sleepy. :lachen: And he's white and Filipino and very tan. He looks good. :yep: Well, Chris finds out that we know and he takes me aside and confesses that he thought I was really cute and wanted to take me to a movie. I thought, "His money." So I said yes to a pity date :lol:

He began texting me and he was annoying me so much. But little by little, he began to win me over. He even woke up super early to come in on his off day and see me on my last day, a Thursday. I left to go out of town that day and came back Sunday. By then, I was so infatuated. :blush: I met him for our first date to see a movie that Sunday night and after hugging him and holding his hand, it just felt so natural and ccomfortable. After the movie, we sat in the park and had THE most perfect first kiss; on a park bench, cool summer air, clear night sky with a full moon and lights twinkling in the trees. :love:

He's just the most perfect gentleman. I didn't know teenagers like him existed. He's so sweet, and kind, and attentive and loving and protective. His ex called me his "sister friend" (which I laugh at, like seriously? That's the best you can do? :lachen:) and uh, let's just say, she won't be talking about me anytime in the future. :look:

I'm just so happy I found a great guy who loves and respects and cherishes me. He's just wonderful, and I can honestly say that I can see him as my husband, and he feels the same way. :grin:
 
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Am I wrong to be slightly pissed at my ex for calling me the other day after the quake? It was on the news that nobody was seriously hurt or killed. I just feel like he wanted an excuse to contact me.

I d@mn sure had zero intentions on calling him. I pray for him and figured god would make sure he was safe, no need for us to communicate.
 
^^^LOL!
I thought it was interesting too. I didn't understand what was going on, I was just thinking really though? Why people beefin' in the middle of an innocent sex thread :giggle:.
 
Ha! I like it :lol:


Ladies: if you seem to have problems with your significant other, man, boo thang, husband, etc playing games and can't get it together...tell them this, my heart isn't your d•••, so don't play with it!!
 
So, my ex wants to communicate...really?! the 4 years I gave you to communicate wasn't enough? PLZ.....I would not risk what I have with my love and self esteem to go communicate with you.

Sorry!
 
Sorry I blew you off, OKC dude, but I'm in the mood for pampering myself by washing my hair and trying out my new stuff I got at Sally's today :ohwell:
You'll be all right...
 
It feels good to finally be able to boot folks out of your life that don't deserve/need to be in it. I've let two go recently and I love it. I feel in control again, like I took my power back. Instead of before constantly allowing them to draw me in and feeling like I couldn't get myself to let them go.
 
@Do_Si_Dos, I'm feeling drained. I can't for the life of me understand why it's so hard to let to let this ish go. I mean, I know it's because I love him and I do believe that he really loves me, but I also know that sometimes, it's just not enough. No matter what he says, he does not have room in his life for me, and he can't give me the kind of time and attention I need/deserve right now.

@mischka, yep, I'm very aware that I need to let it go. But you know how it is when someone becomes such a normal part of your life that you can't see them not being in it? I know that if we end things, that will have to be it for real. No communication at all, because I'm not gonna lie to myself and say we can be friends. I remember what my life was like before him and I don't want to go back to that. For the first time in IDK how long, I found someone that saw all the things in me that no one else seemed to see. He's never been less than honest with me (and I'm confident in saying that because I can think of a number of situations where it would have been in his best interest to and he didn't) and I believe that he all those things he says I am to him, he means. I like being those things and I don't want to give that up. But it's just getting too hard.

Awe...»»»hugs««« MzLady78...... I am sorry you are so drained. As great as he seems, you aren't happy. You have to take care of MzLady because no one else will. When you decide you have had enough you will let go, but first you have to figure out who is most important in this situation.
Whatever you decide we are here for you..........


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I am deleting both my OKC profiles. I don't care for online dating. I haven't responded to not a one message since June. I just don't care for chatting with strangers online. It's important to me to meet and feel a connection face-to-face, yet I'm apprehensive about setting up meetings with these online strangers.
 
I am so incredibly emotional today. I am thinking about how the weather is great for a date, how i'd love to go swimming next week, blah blah. Woosah, Carlita... Chill out.

I watched many "Soldier dad surprises daughter/son after return from Afghanistan" video, and sobbed watching each one:look: and the ones with the dogs... wimpering... so cute. And I posted them on FB. My brother goes: "Are you alright??" I'm like dang, I can't appreciate a happy puppy? lol I'm fine!!

He just texted me saying: I thought maybe you had fallen for some military guy, LMAO.

Whateverrr... I need a good cry sometimes. I don't even know why.
 
Am I wrong to be slightly pissed at my ex for calling me the other day after the quake? It was on the news that nobody was seriously hurt or killed. I just feel like he wanted an excuse to contact me.

I d@mn sure had zero intentions on calling him. I pray for him and figured god would make sure he was safe, no need for us to communicate.

My ex did the same exact thing. He actually caught an attitude when I told him I was busy and hung up.
 
I shouldn't be like this. But WHATEVER happens to her,i'm not getting involved. She knows what he's about. I guess i'm a terrible friend.
That type of man controls a woman's mind not just her body....:nono:
 
SO & I stayed on the phone til an obscene time in the morning and now he wants to go to some late concert his boss invited him too. Sooooo sleepy, I have no clue where he gets the energy.
 
Cleaning out my closet of issues! Was emotionally drained, but I'm making the way even more clear for progress :yep:
 
I shouldn't be like this. But WHATEVER happens to her,i'm not getting involved. She knows what he's about. I guess i'm a terrible friend.
That type of man controls a woman's mind not just her body....:nono:

You are not a terrible friend. This woman is your friend, not your child. For a daughter I would fight to the end to keep her from a pimp no matter how old she was. But an adult friend? Nope. She sounds like she is very dumb and hard-headed. There is nothing you can do. Speak your peace then focus on yourself & your life.
 
I am so negative about relationships. When things are going well, I am always looking for something bad to happen. Then I miss the enjoyable, happy parts of this courtship.

Sad.
 
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