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I hope this dating service works... I have my doubts but my parents are the ones paying for it so I guess it can't hurt to try but I'm still nervous...:ohwell:
 
Napp said:
im 20! gonna be 21 soon :)

dont you think thats a bit old for me?! especially since ive never had a romantic relationship with a man before...im still trying to get my first date! ugh
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Napp, when I was your age, I felt the same way you do. At 20 my boyfriend couldnt be no older than 22...anything over was too old.
 
Napp said:
i finally find someone interested in me but they are wayyy to old.(late 20s early 30s) SHUCKS! he is too fine though so ill just fantasize on what could have been:grin:
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late 20's is wayy too old?:perplexed

Edit oh now i understand:lol: you're only 20, that makes sense:yep:
 
I hate my emotions feelings and thoughts.I wish I was like some who didn't get to know others period.I hate feeling like I need anyone period,damn you human nature.I wish I could just be ok being alone for the rest of my life as I am so ashamed in myself for allowing my feelings to show at work.I should nver have ppl ask do you have a crush on such and such.Its like I know I will never have a chance with some no need to rub it in.I feel dumb I wish I could find a new job so I can get a fresh start.
 
I'm 20 and my bf is 24. It comes up every once and a while (I'm self conscious about it) but mostly we don't notice it.
 
When I was 21, my bf was 32. With a daughter that was only 8 years younger than me . That went to school with my sister. :look:
 
Seeing Life/Relationships Through The Other End Of The Telescope And Laughing At Its Realities.
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Yeah, so now I'm dreaming of my ex in the form of 50 cent. Why oh why? It couldn't be someone cuter? The Game maybe? Oh well.
 
january noir said:
Damn! Was it one of those Trojan Vibrations thingees? :drunk:
It depends on the type of relationship you have and what you're into.
However, I don't think it's a good gift unless it's something a person asks for.



It sure is!



I would tell him straight out that you're not thrilled with the gift.
I would ask him to return it and get you something else and tell him you want books or something. Real talk.



:lol: I hear you! I buy my own sex toys unless we're shopping at the Adult Book Store together and he paid for my purchase...:look:
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I asked him why did he give me the gift yesterday and he said that he thought that I would like it and have fun with it. I asked him knowing me I would have thought he would have gotten something else that represents me. I guess it came off to him as if I hated the gift and I felt bad. He was like it was how you said it, but I did not mean to say it in a negative way. He was like well I know what to get you for christmas bc I gave him an example of what would be something that I would like...and i was like no that is too easy.

I am disappointed bc when it was his birthday, I was really thoughtful. I thought about things that he mentioned he wanted and what he looked at constantly when we were out and I made a cd of his favorite group and songs which he loved and brought three ties (he wanted bow ties but that was more pricey for me). He knows me very well and although a sex toy may be thinking outside of the box, it was definitely something I did not expect for a birthday gift. I think his intentions were genuine but idk. Now I think he is hurt a little bit and now I feel bad.
 
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tinkat said:
I think his intentions were genuine but idk. Now I think he is hurt a little bit and now I feel bad.
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It is funny when you end up feeling bad but really you shouldn't. You really care about this guy. Are you going to talk about you two being a real couple?
 
tinkat
Don't feel bad. He was thoughtless and gave you an inappropriate gift. He should feel bad for doing that. And he should do a do-over now. Why should you have to wait till Christmas? I had to teach dh to give me gifts I like. And he hooks a sister up now! Stand your ground. You did the right thing speaking up:yep:.
 
:nono: I found out why dude is ALWAYS at Applebees and has a lot of women around. The waitress was nice enough to say something to both of us. But H****** claimed she knew what he was about. :perplexed
I was wondering how he could afford a NEW Range and not work anywhere.
 
Incognitus said:
Do you mind sharing more info about the dating service?
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I totally missed this post. Sure, it's a service specifically for professionals, though I'm 23 so I'm only interested in those between 25-30. I was concerned they're wouldn't be many, but when I asked they said there were. Anyways it's called It's Just Lunch, many people I've talked to have heard of it. Yesterday I had a looooong conversation with my matchmaker who asked me my preferences as far as race, religion, values and essentially what I'm looking for and why I've had trouble dating. I did this over the phone but I scheduled a face-to-face meeting with her for early next month after my first date.:grin: I signed a contract to go on X number of dates in X number of months or I get my money back. My matchmaker pairs me up with someone according to what I tell her I'm looking for, she makes a reservation for me and the guy at a restaurant and the place already knows to split the bill and I just go and see what happens. If I want to see the guy again, I can but IJL doesn't release any of my information to him, nor his to me so it's not like he can stalk me or anything.

My parents really had to talk me into trying this, I was sooooo hesitant.:look: I'm not expecting to find my soulmate on these dates, although it'd be nice.:drunk: My goal is to meet men who are like-minded and see if there's something there.

Sorry for rambling.
 
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