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ugh MzLady78, I wouldn't add him as a friend on FB at all. Is he even worth the addition? Ugh.

In other news I have a new internet that I will call Nathaniel Essex. I also call him "Charlie Brown" (I'm Peppermint Patty) and "Mr. Creatine." I wonder how this will go along.
 
MzLady78 said:
So, two years after you inexplicably throw away our friendship, you re-add me on Facebook and ask me do I think about you. Guess things didn't work out with the chick you thought was more deserving of your time.

I'm telling you, they always come back....
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ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!! and facebook is of no help either:nono::nono:
 
I was torn and finally left that situation alone for good. I have had more clarity in the past month about my life than I have had in a very long time. Actually proud I had the courage to walk away and not have any regrets. It's a horrible feeling and space to be in when you are in the midst of being torn. Enthusiastic about my future.
 
Angelicus said:
ugh @MzLady78, I wouldn't add him as a friend on FB at all. Is he even worth the addition? Ugh.

In other news I have a new internet that I will call Nathaniel Essex. I also call him "Charlie Brown" (I'm Peppermint Patty) and "Mr. Creatine." I wonder how this will go along.
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Meh, it's whatever, I don't really feel any way about it. To be honest, we probably won't even talk much and I have ZERO intention on ever revisiting that chapter of my life.

Jas123 said:
ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!! and facebook is of no help either:nono::nono:
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It's comical. And I'm not saying they try to come back and rekindle things, but it's like at some point they miss being in contact, even if it's just an occasional conversation.
 
VelvetRain said:
I was torn and finally left that situation alone for good. I have had more clarity in the past month about my life than I have had in a very long time. Actually proud I had the courage to walk away and not have any regrets. It's a horrible feeling and space to be in when you are in the midst of being torn. Enthusiastic about my future.
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Good for you. Maybe I'll get there one day. :look:

But I have vowed to start really concentrating on me and what I need to do for myself. I have things that I need to accomplish whether he's in my life or not, or any other man for that matter. It's already almost September, my plan to move out by my 34th b-day is not gonna happen, that's in 6 months. :wallbash: I have to get focused.
 
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I am admittedly a bit of a doormat.

Guys who date me comment a lot on how easygoing I seem. I don't come off as volatile or wanting to put them in their place early on. But then, they realize that it's my general disposition, and suddenly I start noticing that they're sometimes trying to get me over.

And the thing is, I do have thoughts about putting them in their place, but I don't express them... something about being polite. People see this... I dunno if I should even call it a quality... as being a doormat, and I guess it translates to that.

It's weird: I had met this guy from out of town and we were talking for a few weeks. He was kind of annoying and I would put him in his place. For whatever reason, he ate it up like: :lol: I love this girl! this girl is so cool! :look: WTH? I get no fun in telling you what to do, why you do love it so much?

I feel, perhaps as an experiment, that I should let these guys know what I think/am looking for/am NOT looking for (especially) much sooner than I do now. Expectations and standards are laid out, and you can either get with it or get gone. Don't act like you ain't know:look:
 
I have an awesome boyfriend. Like forreal I'm in awe of this man. He's driven and really sweet and God fearing. *swoons*
But I never talk about him except with my closest friend. I think I'm afraid of looking stupid if we breakup shortly after.
I'm so d*mn strange.
 
Him: So when are you getting married?

Me: Not sure, probably no time soon.

Him: Why not?

Me: Well I'm not really putting myself in a position to meet new people, I'm not dating any one seriously right now and I still don't know if I'll be moving next year, etc. Just a lot up in the air that doesn't really spell out 'long term relationship' or 'marriage', if that makes sense.

Him: You should be dating. Don't waste you life & be one of those lonely old women w/ 9 cats.

Me: :look: I didn't realize I was wasting my life.. and I'm allergic to cats.

Him: Ok. That's cool.

Me: *le sigh*
 
tapioca_pudding said:
Him: So when are you getting married?

Me: Not sure, probably no time soon.

Him: Why not?

Me: Well I'm not really putting myself in a position to meet new people, I'm not dating any one seriously right now and I still don't know if I'll be moving next year, etc. Just a lot up in the air that doesn't really spell out 'long term relationship' or 'marriage', if that makes sense.

Him: You should be dating. Don't waste you life & be one of those lonely old women w/ 9 cats.

Me: :look: I didn't realize I was wasting my life.. and I'm allergic to cats.

Him: Ok. That's cool.

Me: *le sigh*
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This type of talk from men annoys me and I feel its manipulative :nono: There is nothing wrong with being single. Being single does not mean you are lonely or wasting your life. All single women are not seeking at man at all costs.
 
Mr. Eharmony has been in town for a few days now. We made plans to see each other and he actually did as he said he would do-:yep:how refreshing. He came over Tuesday night for a visit and we had a great time. He's gearing up to move back to Atlanta in a few months, so he wanted my opinion on a lot of the places he looked at. All in all, it was a great second date; considering it was a work night for me. We did a lot of laughing Tuesday night; I made him laugh and he made me laugh too.
 
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ETA.......So Hurt Words Can't Explain. I'm Done With It All. Don't Care Anymore And Sick Of This **** Up Hand I'm Given.
 
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Curly Lee said:
I have an awesome boyfriend. Like forreal I'm in awe of this man. He's driven and really sweet and God fearing. *swoons*
But I never talk about him except with my closest friend. I think I'm afraid of looking stupid if we breakup shortly after.
I'm so d*mn strange.
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at the bolded... there's NOTHING wrong with this... you don't need everybody all up in your business.
 
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I'm not prejudiced, but I just don't prefer a white man. I just don't. Not even a White Indian. Why? Dunno, want somebody with more color. That's not to say that I don't have wonderful friends and family, cuz I do and they're white or white Indians....but I'm not going to settle at all for who I wish to settle down with.

It seems that anybody interested in me is White. :look: Great people and friends on my FB, in my off-line personal life...but eh, I'm not going to settle. And why these doods are well over 50...'em, some of them are 60, trying to get with me? In town, White guys showing interest. Sigh... Black guys? They aren't from my culture and most of them are too young lol! I'm just not feeling it. Guess it's time to make that little list again to G-d. :lol:

I want somebody in my culture with that inner spark, with some dang long hair, brown and traditional, can fancy dance and grass dance damnit! Met some great white Indian guys...but I sound like a racist...it's just that I don't want them, like something is missing. I know not to judge...same could be said about me. I'm not afraid or anything and we're of one...but still. Hell, there are men who don't find Black, Red, Brown women interesting for settling down with. I know how they feel - it's mutual. I'm just not attracted to the White ones..unless they look like John Stamos:lachen: Passing, random, borderline ...okay...RACIST thoughts. :blush:
 
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^^^^Shole is...and I want some bootilishous dark Indian meat LOLOL! I'm tired of all these White doods who just ....look and act so damn WHITE MAN!!!! Oh gawd! Pow wow is next month here...hope I meet someone then! I know I sound racist...but most of them are just so...I dunno. :nono: either trying to prove something or very insecure about something..or trying to show off and I don't want anybody doing that. Plus, they ugly. :giggle: I'm ready to date seriously this year. I am sooooo very homesick this year.:sad:
 
The two people came together and throughout successive generations, this is what I am. Fullbloods married whites and Africans and mixed bloods...and voila', here I am. It's not different than any other merge of peoples elsewhere. I'm just venting about the fact that I'm not interested in the white ones....gawd, that sounds awful, I know. LOL. All the nice Black/Brown native doods...they are married ...or multiple baby daddy :sad: :look: :lachen::lachen::lachen: I'z feeling lonely this week.:lol:
 
So I'm now officially single.:ohwell: BF has been distant and not answering phone calls for the past week. But he came by today to say that he has too much going on (lost his job 2 years ago, got a new job about 7 months ago and has been digging himself out of a deep financial hole since) and can't give me what I need. (i love to travel and broke people have no business traveling - his words). :nono: I can respect that. I'll be sad (he had such a kind heart) but he did me a favor :yep: (as harsh as that sounds).

So I will enjoy being single (it has been a long time for me) then back into the game. :look:
 
Dear MG.,

Thanks for making me feel like a princess and your woman. I havre kisses waiting for you.

Its men like you that make women buy ish...

Signed,

Me.
Sent from my MyTouch 4G
 
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