***Random Thoughts: RELATIONSHIP FORUM***

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*SkolarStar* said:
Honey, we are on the same accord with the bolded. Last night I got so pretty. After spending the day volunteering at my church's rummage sale (which got rained on :ohwell:... But I still had fun :)) I just wanted to go out and kick it hard. Earlier in the day my best friend tells me that some friends of hers are going to be at a club after their show and I'm like yea, let's go! :grin: Later she says they're not going anymore and if I wanted to hang at their hotel room. I'm like yea, whatever. :yawn: We go there twice because of some mix-ups and I really felt like I wasted my pretty. I wore the cutest outfit, did my makeup (I usually mess up with it and this time I did a good job!), and I was proud of my look!

And no one (that was worth it) saw me! :whyme::cry::cry::cry:
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I can totally relate to this. :lol:
 
I can't stop thinking about the Korean guy I met my first day touring campus. He was so sweet and kind to me and that has always been my weakness. Along with the fact that he's an engineering student and a nerd like me:look:.

The chances of me seeing him again are pretty low considering this campus is way to big for its own good:nono: and my department is on the complete oposite side of campus than his.

Why can't i get him out of my head? I mean we only chatted for a few minutes but here I am, weeks later still thinking about him. I can't remember the last time a guy made such an impact on me after such a brief meeting.

This really stinks
 
What kind of people leave their 4 year old child with his god father to go clubbing and 24 hours later they are still not back to pick up their son smh. I was just due to meet with him this evening, but clearly now I am not, now he's talking about "forgive me," *kiss teet*
 
The "faux" nice guy did not come to my sister's party yesterday. It turns out he "gave" his 36 inch TV to her husband, who took off work early to pick it up. Her husband brought it home and him along with my my nephew brought it upstairs only to find out it does not work at all.

I knew the TV didn't work because he mentioned in a previous conversation but failed to tell my brother in law at all. So my brother in law is taking the TV to work and placing it on his car sometime this week since this is his last week before he moves.
 
Sorry.

I'm not moving forward..or in with you N8**a until I have a ring.

Still Love you boo :)

And If I hear the word "wifey" ONE MORE time I'ma ask y'all to come bail me out...It's degrading!!!!! UGH!
 
Oh and a good friend of mine..Is now engaged.

FML

Her BF is white.

I've been with my SO longer.

Chin up...

*chants, while rocking.*..I love my black boyfriend..I love my black boyfriend...

Sorry...not placing whitey on a pedestal BUT all of my white or white partnered friends are married #justsayin
 
I think having had some gay male friends in the past was a gift/curse.It was a gift bc it opened my eyes to alot about certain men but now I feel like I haven't found any dude that seems a bit over the top attractive at all.I feel like every dude is gay.Its been a while since I have found a man attractive in a while.Ah one day I look forward to having a few guys in my corner for friendship and maybe more.
 
Met a guy last week and since then he has taken me to breakfast and to dinner.. He has that old school way of courting and the sexiest southern drawl Ive ever heard.. He's smart, funny, and handsome...We hit it off instantly, laughing and talking like old friends..the problem is, he's almost 10 years older than me.. He's past those years of wanting to have anymore children and he has never been married
Where are the men my age with these characteristics? Why am I sooo attracted to him? I could see myself really digging him but Im forcing myself to be unavaible so I wont get too deep..
*angry black woman sigh*
Ive must have been a terror in my past life, because the joke has been on me for awhile now.

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«sighs» I just knew I would be in a relationship by now. «sighs»

I refuse to become bitter....... «sighs»

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He likes my hair in its natural, big, poofy, frizzy state. lol. Too bad I love my hair straight, but only for the days that I don't see him.

Gosh I am in like with him.
 
From a single male fb friend:

Read this somewhere today: Things that annoy me...at weddings, old people always poke me and say "you're next"; so, I am gonna start doing the same things to them at funerals.
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SuchMagnificance said:
Met a guy last week and since then he has taken me to breakfast and to dinner.. He has that old school way of courting and the sexiest southern drawl Ive ever heard.. He's smart, funny, and handsome...We hit it off instantly, laughing and talking like old friends..the problem is, he's almost 10 years older than me.. He's past those years of wanting to have anymore children and he has never been married
Where are the men my age with these characteristics? Why am I sooo attracted to him? I could see myself really digging him but Im forcing myself to be unavaible so I wont get too deep..
*angry black woman sigh*
Ive must have been a terror in my past life, because the joke has been on me for awhile now.

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Ooh he sounds precious. Enjoy the attention and kindness. You deserve it.
 
Simply_elle said:
Oh and a good friend of mine..Is now engaged.

FML

Her BF is white.

I've been with my SO longer.

Chin up...

*chants, while rocking.*..I love my black boyfriend..I love my black boyfriend...

Sorry...not placing whitey on a pedestal BUT all of my white or white partnered friends are married #justsayin
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Hugs! Hope you get the ring or a new guy...only one of my friends is married, think I'll cry when the rest start to...but I will say, that waiting for a man to be ready, rather than quick is not a bad thing. Its just difficult.

Hugs!

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Hey ladies! :wave:

I'm back from Puerto Rico. I had a good time overall, but I will say, I've never felt more single in my life. :look: Even one of the workers at the hotel was like "how come I always see you by yourself?"

Oh and just like back home, Puerto Rican men do not like me. They'd check me out, but no one approached me. Which was fine, cuz I wasn't there for that. I was there to relax and unwind and was successful in doing so. Had I gone to Jamaica or something, I probably wouldn't have gotten left alone. :lol:

But, now back to real life....
 
MzLady78 said:
Hey ladies! :wave:

I'm back from Puerto Rico. I had a good time overall, but I will say, I've never felt more single in my life. :look: Even one of the workers at the hotel was like "how come I always see you by yourself?"

Oh and just like back home, Puerto Rican men do not like me. They'd check me out, but no one approached me. Which was fine, cuz I wasn't there for that. I was there to relax and unwind and was successful in doing so. Had I gone to Jamaica or something, I probably wouldn't have gotten left alone. :lol:

But, now back to real life....
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So good to see you back!!! Looks like you got a good tan, too!
 
SweetNic_JA. yes she does. Her story should be a lesson to women everywhere. I told her straight out he made you look stupid and foolish in front of his family and strangers. No need to chase a man a man should be chasing you. Woman up.
 
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SuchMagnificance said:
Met a guy last week and since then he has taken me to breakfast and to dinner.. He has that old school way of courting and the sexiest southern drawl Ive ever heard.. He's smart, funny, and handsome...We hit it off instantly, laughing and talking like old friends..the problem is, he's almost 10 years older than me.. He's past those years of wanting to have anymore children and he has never been married
Where are the men my age with these characteristics? Why am I sooo attracted to him? I could see myself really digging him but Im forcing myself to be unavaible so I wont get too deep..
*angry black woman sigh*
Ive must have been a terror in my past life, because the joke has been on me for awhile now.

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I say to people all the time that I must have been a serial killer in my past life. :look:

But I'm really gonna try my best to stop worrying about this aspect of my life. I spent more time lamenting being single and thinking about my current situation on my vacation that I should have. And quite frankly, I'm tired of spending so much energy on these things. Whatever will be will be. In the meantime, I need to get serious about the parts of my life that I can control.
 
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To anyone who thinks life isn't going how they want because of something they did in a past lifetime: stop it! I know you may only be half-joking, but perhaps are half-telling the truth. In my therapy work the foundational message is that I am good, sweet, and beautiful at my core. You have to reclaim the truth: that you are good and deserving. Somewhere along the way we lost that fundamental truth. When you say I must have done something really bad in a past life, you are essentially saying that you deserve to be single and lonely, it is your fault, and something is wrong with you.
 
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