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I reeeeeaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllly wish women would STOP trying to let other women dictate their options. :nono: I hate that. I'm sure there are so many women sitting around with low self-esteem based off of what OTHER women have had to say about them. :nono: Ridiculous.
 
This isn't really relationship related but I need to get it out.

I met up with one of my guy "friends" from high school to have drinks. When we meet up, he usually pays. I was feeling generous today so I made it a point to mention that the drinks were on me. We usually have a good time chatting and laughing so I thought tonight would be the same. But :nono: tonight he was a complete jerk. We got on the topic of relationships. His views on women was so disrespectful. I couldn't even stand to be in his presence. It was really weird.

Anyway, when he went to the bathroom I paid for my drink. When he got back I told him he owed the bartender $18 for his drinks and walked out.
 
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TheGlamorousLife said:
gabulldawg

yes i wish folks would stop this foolishness too:yep:
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I don't mean to sound mean because I've been there too and fall into the trap sometimes, but I hate that. If you really think about it, it makes no sense. Especially when we as women are so competitive in general. There are some women that will do or say anything to throw you off your game and try to outshine you. :nono:
 
You know you have matured in a relationship when you can admit to yourself the role that you played and why the relationship is what it is. You may have never cheated or anything thing like that, but did other things to destroy any chances of your ideal happy healthy relationship.

This is so hard for women to do. We can't seem to get pass the feeling of "getting played", that we don't realize how we played ourselves.
 
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I'm traveling to Illinois today with my best friend, for all those who pray, please keep us in your prayers to have a safe, successful trip :) Thank you.
 
kandake said:
This isn't really relationship related but I need to get it out.

I met up with one of my guy "friends" from high school to have drinks. When we meet up, he usually pays. I was feeling generous today so I made it a point to mention that the drinks were on me. We usually have a good time chatting and laughing so I thought tonight would be the same. But :nono: tonight he was a complete jerk. We got on the topic of relationships. His views on women was so disrespectful. I couldn't even stand to be in his presence. It was really weird.

Anyway, when he went to the bathroom I paid for my drink. When he got back I told him he owed the bartender $18 for his drinks and walked out.
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Go on girl!
 
I am super cranky today. This coworker joked that I like the attention these guys are giving me. Never mind that I am making a concerted effort not to be around them one-one.
He said that bc I haven't been ignoring the coworker who tried asking me out via office chat. I'm just being polite. I respond and am.distant. I did re-explain to the guy that I have no romantic interest in him and would like him to stop dropping little comments abt getting to know each other.

This is what he said, re: an event organized by his alumni association...
Him: you should come out and support my school. You might get to know some (school) alumni there...myself included
Me: what I said above abt him needing to stop.

My coworker's comment abt me liking the attention seriously bothers me. This is like a fcking soap opera that I didn't sign up to be in.
I'm tempted to cancel my RSVP to this event tonight. I don't want to be around these boys today. I'm annoyed with the drama and this supposed belief that I am welcoming it.



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gabulldawg said:
I don't mean to sound mean because I've been there too and fall into the trap sometimes, but I hate that. If you really think about it, it makes no sense. Especially when we as women are so competitive in general. There are some women that will do or say anything to throw you off your game and try to outshine you. :nono:
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Can I ask what your game is, as a married woman?
 
gabulldawg said:
I reeeeeaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllly wish women would STOP trying to let other women dictate their options. :nono: I hate that. I'm sure there are so many women sitting around with low self-esteem based off of what OTHER women have had to say about them. :nono: Ridiculous.
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i agree. you shouldn't let what anyone (man or woman) have to say about you affect your self esteem.

Love yourself. That's what matters :yep:
 
it always sucks when you really want to like someone, but it's just not there. but i guess it's best that i'm the one who isn't feeling it vs him (lol, i can be sensitive :lachen:)

now i have to figure out how to tell him. :ohwell:
 
Listen to your inner voice...trust yourself. Need validation? Go within. Your Source is inside you...not in another human being.

Yes, I need this today..
 
I've been casually talking to this guy as friends, but now I'm confused because he's acting like he's really into me...but I thought he was gay. :ohwell:
I'm usually wrong about these things, but it's because I assume a guy is straight when he's really gay. He's dropping major hints and I'm so confused now. :perplexed

I am trying every trick in the book to get him to talk about a past relationship so that he can use a pronoun or something. I'm too old for this mess. I should just ask him, but now I'm embarrassed!

But really, he's gotta be gay...but if he's not I really need to get my gaydar fixed :nono:
 
FML.

after spending all day stressing about what to say, he sends me a text saying how interested he is/how attracted he is to me and blablahblah.

AHHHH.

i feel like such a jerk, but i just sent him a text about being ~emotionally unavailable. and just f.u.c.k.
 
On the phone, you put me on hold. I didn't notice the length of time but when you returned you tell me you forgot I was on hold :-/ It's been a year and that has NEVER happened. Now I don't want to talk at all. Uggh! I hate that I may be reading more into this than I probably should but I can't help it. I guess I'll see what things are like when I visit next week.
 
Hi Ladies! We made it safely!!, I appreciate all of your thoughts and prayers:yep: We drove straight through the night last night (trip began around 3pm EDT) and we reached early this morning. To say I am exhausted is an understatement:lol::nono:. My bed will be my friend for the better part of Saturday:look:

I just wanted to update you ladies and let you know we reached safe and sound, the campus is absolutely gorgeous! I cannot wait to begin this new chapter in my life.

Thanks again ladies :)
 
I dont get why other women can tell me pretty all day but men do not? im missing something here.....i cant even get a cute?

I have a bunch of people literally waiting for me to go on my first date! If it ever happens i think they might throw me a party lol.....but the more experiences i have with men the more turned off by them and dating in general.

Hopefully this is just because of the quality of men i currently interact with.but i have a strong feeling i might be single for life.
 
I'm thinking ahead... for some reason tonight I've been thinking about babies. Ideally I would like to have a child at 28. But I would also like to find the man of my dreams and have him all to myself for awhile. Doing the math on that, I pretty much need to find him NOW. This is frustrating to me because I am in no way ready to start steering my life in that direction but at the same time I'm not trying to be old as hell wanting a baby and wondering why I'm having problems conceiving. My oldest sister just had a baby at 29/30 and it was really hard on her physically. So I would like to shoot for a little younger if possible.

I want the outside looking in idea of marriage and babies but as far as the reality of it, I am not ready to go there at all :nono: I'm not sure what kind of plan I should be forming on this one...
 
I really wish I'd had some wise older girlfriends or big sisters or something when I was a youngin. All I ever got was "Don't get pregnant and focus on your school work". I think of some of the things I was doing in regards to men that were just a hot mess and foolish. Ah well, you live and you learn.
 
Imani said:
I really wish I'd had some wise older girlfriends or big sisters or something when I was a youngin. All I ever got was "Don't get pregnant and focus on your school work". I think of some of the things I was doing in regards to men that were just a hot mess and foolish. Ah well, you live and you learn.
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