"Let's just deal with the word for a second! Where does the bible support anything between a man & woman that has no intention of leading up to marriage!? We as people love using Gods word to create our own delusions to make ourselves comfortable with following the trend of this age (which is by the way controlled by the prince of the power of the air) BUT IN ALL TRUTH: GOD is gonna look out for those who want to do things his way, FIRST!!!! His way is found in his word! Not Smokey Robinson's word "shop around."
He will reward that person with the lovely gift of someone else who has a desire to do things His way, FIRST! Society is filled with so many excuse making men, so those (few) of us who have no excuse are viewed as being soft or "emotionally needy" when in fact, we have the actual hearts that GOD intended for all men to have!
you are a blessed & strong LADY of GOD and you deserve someone who will step up to the plate! That desire to be married has been placed in your heart BY GOD!!!!!! Which means that he already has your husband picked out for you! Regardless of who dreamed what, Your husband is out there and God is waiting on you to make a move so that he can unite the two of you!