I've heard someone imply that men who were raised in a single parent home have it "worse" than women who were raised the same? Do you ladies feel like that?
And once again, I dont see anyone here putting down marriage. I wish I grew up to see an example of positive marriage (I do believe it's way more than just a piece of paper) and I do want to be married one day. But I guess because my mother raised me, that might not happen.
I think so and that's because as a husband/father a man is susposed to be the leader in the house. If you enter in a marriage and as a man haven't been raised to know what is expected as a husband and father, I think it makes the male's role much harder.
There is a whole other element of being a spirtual leader in the house I won't even get into but basically the man is susposed to lead, provide, take care of,etc. If that's lacking, I think the whole family unit can fall apart. If he's lost and doesn't have that experience to guide him, the woman steps into this role and other issues, e.g. emasculation, resentment, "strong black woman" all come in to play. This is why I think the black family is failing but that's another thread.