FunkyMunky
New Member
First of all, I didn't intend to offend any of my darker skin sisters. I just want and have to know. Also, I am speaking from my experience and those of my close friends.
I live in South Florida. I don't think that FL is the best place to find and date men of other races because even though FL is diverse, a lot of people are closed-minded. I also believe that the educated and anti-MTV/BET AA sisters are struggling with finding partners here. I feel that many of the men here are more interested in dating Caribbean women or native African women. All of the stereotypes about African American women have affected the way a lot of men of other races view us.
I am attractive and I have no problem getting a man but most of the time I see white men with darker complected women. My darker complected friends have white men checking for them all of the time. I get a few crumbs here and there. Why is that? I want to know.
1st Question - If you are a darker complected woman, do you feel you can get a man of another race easily because they hit on you regularly.
2nd Question - If you fit question #1, where do you live?
**White = anything other than black.
I know this may seem like a crazy question but I'm sure there is at least 1 other woman out there that feels the same way.
BTW, I have dated several middle eastern men, Arab and Non-Arab.
I live in South Florida. I don't think that FL is the best place to find and date men of other races because even though FL is diverse, a lot of people are closed-minded. I also believe that the educated and anti-MTV/BET AA sisters are struggling with finding partners here. I feel that many of the men here are more interested in dating Caribbean women or native African women. All of the stereotypes about African American women have affected the way a lot of men of other races view us.
I am attractive and I have no problem getting a man but most of the time I see white men with darker complected women. My darker complected friends have white men checking for them all of the time. I get a few crumbs here and there. Why is that? I want to know.
1st Question - If you are a darker complected woman, do you feel you can get a man of another race easily because they hit on you regularly.
2nd Question - If you fit question #1, where do you live?
**White = anything other than black.
I know this may seem like a crazy question but I'm sure there is at least 1 other woman out there that feels the same way.
BTW, I have dated several middle eastern men, Arab and Non-Arab.