ScorpioBeauty09
Well-Known Member
Re: Why don't women put as much effort into finding a husband as they put into a care
I'm not putting as much effort into finding a SO as in other parts of my life because I do not have the energy/patience to focus on finding a SO and getting through law school/starting my career. I'm hoping that will change once I take the bar. I've done it, and my life was more stressful than it needed to be. The main reason was the men I was dating were so far from what I'm looking for, it got frustrating and draining going through the same motions all the time. And these weren't strangers off the street. These were men in school, decent jobs/careers.
I'm still pretty young, only 25 but I've got very little faith in the men of my generation right now.
It is not possible to do or have everything at once. My girlfriends (of all races) in school and/or working toward fulfilling careers aren't as focused on finding a SO though they admit they want one. My girlfriends in relationships or married are mostly in steady jobs.
I'm not putting as much effort into finding a SO as in other parts of my life because I do not have the energy/patience to focus on finding a SO and getting through law school/starting my career. I'm hoping that will change once I take the bar. I've done it, and my life was more stressful than it needed to be. The main reason was the men I was dating were so far from what I'm looking for, it got frustrating and draining going through the same motions all the time. And these weren't strangers off the street. These were men in school, decent jobs/careers.
I'm still pretty young, only 25 but I've got very little faith in the men of my generation right now.
It is not possible to do or have everything at once. My girlfriends (of all races) in school and/or working toward fulfilling careers aren't as focused on finding a SO though they admit they want one. My girlfriends in relationships or married are mostly in steady jobs.